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Kliplemet (m)
My Girlfriend Is Making Me Poor
« on: April 29, 2008, 02:03 PM »

I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor

It's the non-prostitute one. Every month I need to give her 200 euro (36,665.08 NGN) for her hair which is the main problem, on top of that a lot of Lyca cards to call to Nigeria, sometimes clothes and sometimes for the rent of her appartment. She used to live in that appartment with her brother, but now that he married a Belgian girl he doesn't live there anymore and doesn't give her money anymore.

I'm still a student, but I work when I can to get some money, but ALL of this money is going to her, so I don't have anything left for myself and still she complains about needing money for creams and hairs and tattoos and gym. Now she wants a 150 euro  (27,483.73 NGN) eyebrow tattoo and a 100 euro (    
18,322.48 NGN) gym membership also. While I'm carrying coffins here to make money and don't even have money to buy new clothes for myself

I love her a lot and was planning to marry her in the future, but I can't sacrifice everything  Undecided
Templa (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #1 on: April 29, 2008, 02:17 PM »

i always tell my fellow men to think with their brains/head not their heart.

here you're complaining that she is makin u broke and at the same time u love her.

tell me: what are friends for, if not for inconveniencies.

anyway, if i were the one, my future should be getting brighter and not dimmerSad
Kliplemet (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #2 on: April 29, 2008, 02:20 PM »

Quote from: Templa on April 29, 2008, 02:17 PM
i always tell my fellow men to think with their brains/head not their heart.

here you're complaining that she is makin u broke and at the same time u love her.

tell me: what are friends for, if not for inconveniencies.

anyway, if i were the one, my future should be getting brighter and not dimmerSad
so u advise me to dump her right? how do i do it? i tried it in the past for the same reason, but after a few months i was already back with her, like i couldn't resist her Sad
Templa (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #3 on: April 29, 2008, 02:23 PM »

then i suggest u call her and tell her that:

if she has to keep doin her hair and etc, then it has to be on a yearly basis ie (according to your wish if u have to fooot the bill)
secondly, u may decide to split the bill with her. i mean, isn't she workin or sometin?  Huh
lucabrasi (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #4 on: April 29, 2008, 02:26 PM »

u don't have to dump her but u must make her realise u can't contine like that, she will keep on demanding if you are not firm and refuse money for unnecessary stuffs,are u scared of telling her off?tell her to get a job because if u keep on spending like this then i don't see u saving up for a wedding or a family if he money is not for anything sensible,refuse firmly,let her get a job and stop giving nigerian gils a bad name
Kliplemet (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #5 on: April 29, 2008, 02:27 PM »

she makes traditional african clothes for weddings and such sometimes, but most of the time she is sitting on her ass watching nigerian movies where money and cars fall from the sky i think
Templa (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #6 on: April 29, 2008, 02:29 PM »

                                                         
 


                                                             *i see*    Sad
totolover (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #7 on: April 29, 2008, 02:48 PM »

I double dare you to dump her. That's impossible because you are weak. You are nothing but a sissy. Every day you keep whining about this girl. Someone that does not even love you! She is eating your money and not showing you affection. Meanwhile other guys are banging her. You are lucky I don't know her because I would have been fcuking her and she would have been spending your money on me. Grow up. Fcuk girls and dump them.
Kliplemet (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #8 on: April 29, 2008, 02:51 PM »

Quote from: totolover on April 29, 2008, 02:48 PM
You are lucky I don't know her because I would have been fcuking her and she would have been spending your money on me.
and after that i would find out and kill you, with or without help from my friends, but u would be a dead man
j-girl (f)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #9 on: April 29, 2008, 02:52 PM »

This is what i find hilarious in this story:
Quote from: Kliplemet on April 29, 2008, 02:03 PM
It's the non-prostitute one.
Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Won't it be better to have a prostitute? At least you know that one is working her @$$ off to provide for herself.

Dump her quick before she sucks your bank account dry.

Quote from: totolover on April 29, 2008, 02:48 PM
Grow up. Fcuk girls and dump them.
What da hell? Your kind of boys need to grow up. Learn to be man enough to handle girls emotionally.  Angry Angry Angry Angry instead of doing the whole hit and run show.
tngtech (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #10 on: April 29, 2008, 02:53 PM »

I think you are dreaming, u better wake before you realise that its too late.
stillwater (f)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #11 on: April 29, 2008, 03:38 PM »

Quote from: Kliplemet on April 29, 2008, 02:51 PM
and after that i would find out and kill you, with or without help from my friends, but u would be a dead man

Quote from: Kliplemet on April 29, 2008, 02:27 PM
she makes traditional african clothes for weddings and such sometimes, but most of the time she is sitting on her ass watching nigerian movies where money and cars fall from the sky i think

I did not want to come online before but this guy is funny Grin Grin Grin Grin
Kliplemet (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #12 on: April 29, 2008, 03:50 PM »

yesterday this was already on my mind so when i called her we only talked 4 miutes before i said ok i call back tomorrow. should i cal her today and talk to her about it or just not call anymore and see if she calls back?
ashe2 (f)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #13 on: April 29, 2008, 03:54 PM »

toto lover
i think u ve got so much bitterness in u. for chrissake u sounded so harsh "mess gals and dump them" haba! what must have we have done  what about guys who eat gals money nko?
bawomolo (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #14 on: April 29, 2008, 03:55 PM »

i hope u are at least hitting it, given her all these gifts.
schal
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #15 on: April 29, 2008, 03:57 PM »

Na wa things like this still dey happen at this age. The truth is that you know the truth (what you want) and refuse to accept it. You can decide to keep spending on her or leave her and have your peace. Even if you manage to get married to her it is obvious that you can't sustain it. And if you try sustaining it you will land yourself to your early grave.

There are many good and beautiful girls with virtue out there for you. Why don`t try one of them? I know some guys( who are really close to me) today that forced theirselves on sophisticated lazy girls. Today they are regreting their marriage with all their being. The choice is yours to make which are

(1) Keep her, enjoy for a while and  die early

(2) Look, find a better babe and live long with no regrets(with happiness)
bamie (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #16 on: April 29, 2008, 04:04 PM »

my advice klimplenet is run! run!! run!!! for your life,
Dont tell her that u're not doing any longer, just tell her say u wan travel, that u go soon come back
make u no look backiiioooooooooo. Because if u say u love am, she go dry your pocket sotey, and she go leave u comot.
my friend think, think, think before she go send u to early grave.
simoen (f)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #17 on: April 29, 2008, 04:04 PM »

is she a nigeria lady?
does she love u in return?
does she work?
does she care for u too?


answer dos questions plzz
The Sly
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #18 on: April 29, 2008, 04:10 PM »

Heck!!!!!!!!
Look this girl is just draining your cash!!. . . wake up bwoi!
Radiant (f)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #19 on: April 29, 2008, 05:24 PM »

Quote from: Kliplemet on April 29, 2008, 02:51 PM
and after that i would find out and kill you, with or without help from my friends, but u would be a dead man

Rofl  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin I like you jare  Cheesy
mecussey (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #20 on: April 29, 2008, 05:39 PM »

But why do men behave like this, what kind of love is this, well I don't have to say much, any day you wake up is your morning. To help you now on how to dump her, next month is soon approaching, if she comes for the Euros tell her you don't have, that something happened, just tell one story, you are a man, then sitback and check her reactions later, the upper month tell another story and give her 10% of what you normally give her, I meant something she cannot even manage. Bet me the next month you will not see her again. That way you are liberated, You are a man, please learn how to lie to a woman, they enjoy it. You go carry dead body finish and account to an ordinary woman, don't worry one day dead body go rise up and nack something for head, na that time your head go correct. lol
PL+C
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #21 on: April 29, 2008, 05:45 PM »

@Poster,

I dey laugh at you here.  Sugar dey for her own toto and wetin you dey waste your time with her?  The girl doesn't like you.  Simple.  Fuck the girl well well and when you are ready to dump her, demand for sex and get her naked. Once she is naked, just shake your head and tell her to wear her cloth and don't have sex with her that day.  Then withdraw from her finally and look for another person.  I have done that more than 5 girls especially those once that claim to be sharp and will dry a guy's pocket.  Don't give her any money again.  Wetin dey for her toto?  she don carry her toto cook for you?  Maybe, Babaalawo is at work.

I can't waste 4 months with such girls and if any girl wants to scare me, let her demand for money from me.  That one na You-Turn.

I only respect cool girls who don't claim that sharp sharp of a thing and I cannot do such thing to them.
frank 3.16 (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #22 on: April 29, 2008, 05:54 PM »

run! run!!! run!!!!
totolover (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #23 on: April 29, 2008, 06:00 PM »

@Kliplemet: So you that cannot keep away from a silly girl claim that you can kill the guy that is 'wiring' your girl and enjoying your money. Well sha anything is possible but to me, it seems that the most probable thing is that I will conspire with your girl to kill you and then inherit your money! I swear. As a guy, I seriously double dare you to dump this babe. But I know you can't because like me, you are a 'totolover'.

@J-girl & Ashe: Sorry o. I don't hate babes. But that does not mean that I will allow babes to manipulate me.
OMO IBO (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #24 on: April 29, 2008, 06:04 PM »

kliplemet, you're a funny guy.
Radiant (f)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #25 on: April 29, 2008, 06:20 PM »

lmao  Grin
Delta007 (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #26 on: April 29, 2008, 06:56 PM »

At least, at a young age, you are an Enterpreneur/Employer paying someone over 200 Euros a month. Make sure u increase her salary every 6months.
whitelexi (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #27 on: April 29, 2008, 07:06 PM »

Gone are the days when i was living in bondage Grin
It took a split for me to realise i was a free man. Cool
Nowadays, I sit tight on top of my Finances. Grin
LadyT (f)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #28 on: April 29, 2008, 07:11 PM »

Shes sees you as a pathetic weak white boy.  Shes got you pussy whipped.  She does not care for you.  She probably has other guys doing the same for her.

She knows exactly how to use you and she wont stop till she sucks you dry.  And why should she you have two girlfriends one is a prostitute one isnt and you also sleep with prostitutes when the oppotunity arises.  And you are crying because some chick is hitting your wallet hard?

You carry dead bodies for a living.  Your life scares me!
manmustwac (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #29 on: April 29, 2008, 07:39 PM »

Kliplemet every month u give her 200 euros for her hair, a lot of Lyca cards to call Nigeria, sometimes money to buy clothes and sometimes money for her rent.

And your still a student and all your money is going to her?

Well they say love is blind and i guess you are literally blind in both eyes
Kliplemet (m)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Po
« #30 on: April 29, 2008, 07:58 PM »

I discussed it with my number one friend today, the one from Angola. He said I should stop calling her, keep her at a distance, not BREAK UP with her in a dramatic sense. He says when she calls me back I should say I can't spend my money on her because I want to build my own life.

GREAT I shall act like he instructed me  Smiley

And totolover, when you are in Belgium please call me 0032486787434 so we can have a deathmatch
waterworks (f)
Re: I'm Thinking About Breaking Up With My Girlfriend Because She's Making Me Poor
« #31 on: April 29, 2008, 09:38 PM »

mr man tell her to get a job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ah ah which kain rubbish be dta one? there are girls out there who will be willing to spend money on you and you are here carrying coffin to give woman.
you better be carefull ohh if not nah you go dey dey that coffin soon! Tongue
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