My Girlfriend Is Making Me Poor

HR, dear,
The boy is looking for attention.

judgeing from what u ave said, i can see u love her so dearly and its so difficult to let go. everybody seems to tell u to just let go without even thinking how difficult this maybe. i know how it feels to love but hurts when u re at it. it like a girl who gets beaten by her boyfriend so many a time but she still love and care for him. so many people will insult her and she may even hate herself for still been with him but there is always this force that makes her go back even when she does not want to.

about this issue, sincerly, noone can help u except u, something similar like this happened to me once but in a different way, so many people talked endlessly but i could not let go, each time i do it, its like he had a hold on me, i keep forgiving and going back, when one fine day i stood my ground and said enough is enough! everybody was so surprised i had ended the whole thing because they gave up talking to me.

so my brother just try and know what u want, if u think u can cope with her, then do it, but if u think if u talk to her she will listen, then do it, but if not then u just have to be a man about it, it will only break ur heart and make u very unhappy but for a while, time they say heals all wound.

i wish u the best of luck.

like I said, a dead man you will be, and don't think I'm exagerating, after all I am very used to dead bodies, even the most mutilated, rotten corpse does not make me flinch. And make no mistake you may think I'm a weak white boy, but I have many many friends from the underworld of all colors and nationalities, so don't be shocked when you find yourself getting your throat cut by Nigerians.

Funniest thing i've read all day, i even splilled the water i was drinking
Personally i have no advise for you and i also think you're 100% normal but just a little bit weird and you're also a very funny dude- no wonder the prostitute girl is not charging you any money

@ topic,

didn't have the time to read through all the responses, but this is what i found out:


i don't expect you to be complaining that she is making you poor, reason being you gave her the impression you 've got so much money, mind you she doesn't even think she is bothering you in any way because she believes you got loads of cash and that the little she ask for isn't affecting you so prepare for more, she will need you to buy her a car very soon.

you sowed the problems you are reaping at the moment, because in my opinion you wanted to impress her, but you will end up depressed.

is it late yet to make amends? may be , may be not

i will not say she is sleeping with other guys because am not there, but its a possibility, and likely she isn't. but I PUT IT TO YOU: ANY ATTEMPT TO DEPRIVE HER OF CASH WILL SEE THE RELATIONSHIP CRUMBLING, although you intend breaking up, i can confirm you don't have the guts, please don't take this personal.

i can also confirm that you beg to have sex with her if ever you do, am sorry but thats the truth, to summarise this whole shit, you are not man enough for her because she dictates your life.

you can possibly make amends in your next relationship because i can confirm she is even more willing to dump you than you would her because she knows you haven't been your real self all these years.

just keep on moving and learn new things daily. NEXT TIME START A RELATIONSHIP BY BEING YOURSELF!

cheers.

this morning I sent an email to one of my Congolese lady friends asking how mch she pays for her hair and where she gets it done. she says in the matonge area of Brussels for 50 € tops.

I then called the girl and said I don't have money for 200 euro hair, but I can take her to this place and give her 50 euro hair really nice and such. she freaked out said she didn't want it because she is too big for that kind of cheap hair, that she is not a Zaire girl this and that. she said she rather have no hair at all than thos cheap hair bla bla bla

i persisted about the hair being good and such and she went "i choose my own hair blablabla" and i said "u chose what u like but u don't look at the price." she went een crazier and said "how many times u buy hair for me since we been together, " i say 6-7 time and add to the list of expenses


then she said " if u don't have money for my hair we don't talk about my hair" i said "ok we don't talk about ur hair anymore" she said "we don't talk about my hair ok bye*beepbeep beep*"

i tried calling her back but she didn't pick up

then I sent her this text:

So u off the phone because we don't talk about ur hair anymore? Now u are really insulting me. If you don't apologize don't expect to hear from me ever again.

And it just so happens that Stephnie (the prostitute) is back from France, I called her this morning, but will call her back this afternoon. She will be so entertained by this whole incident 

I don't think the lady love you & U don't need to waste ur time with her. If she can't contribute for ur lifting now & all she care about is her own life forget it she dosen't have anything to offer you in future if you are going to marry her unless you just want 2 use her. USE YOUR HEAD

@Kliplemet: Give me her bank details let me pay for her hair as well as for her apartment, etc. As an advise, don't you know how to lie to a girl? You are not sharp at all. You act like a slacker that's why prostitutes are using you like a yoyo. Did you say these 'ashis' are naija babes? You worry o. I would have banged all the ashis in that area by now and have them talking about me.

Call her. Bang her. Then dump her. Throw her number away. Get some nairaland babes to spend on.

Am laughing. So you think you can actually kill me? You that cannot control your girl? I wish you were female. Then I would have arranged to bang you. You are such a wimp. Kill ko, mother ni.

u be bloody liar, u told some story about pros the other time, now these?

@Kilplemet
Did you hear that, 

Ok, so I read your whole story about some girl that is giving you problems,

Well, here is MY THING
As a Naija girl, when I was dating my ex boyfriend (Yoruba guy). I would cook for him and his friends, clean his house, buy him things, go out of my way to take him places, buy him food, drive him around when he lost his car, IN THIS ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP, HE DID NOT BUY ME ONE DAMN THING, HE DID NOT RETURN ONE DAMN THING as in give me anything back. Now to me I always hear stories about guys complaining, "Ohh, I can't afford this girl, oh she is asking to much" Well you need to ask yourself, are there things that she is doing that I am OOOOOOOOOOOVER LOOKING, or is she truly a golddigger. Am I being a cheap son of a ,  or can I do things for her when she needs it.
Some of you guys are down right cheap and want to be treated like a damn prince, and some of you guys are being used by women that don't DESERVE IT.

I always think to myself about the next woman that my ex encounters, he will soon see that NOT alot of women would do those things for her man. LOL, too late now, Ive moved on to BIGGER and BETTER things.

My advice for you, is to just think about your relationship fully.

I'm not Yoruba

lol, I'm Edo, but i live in the US. I was born and raised in the US. , but I'm still a naija girlie at heart.
Why?

Oh I know that is true. Not all Yoruba's are like him, of course I know that. But this one was real bad though,  lol
Its all good, but all I was saying was that there are girls that actually do alot for their man and those girls get NOTHIN NOTHIN
meanwhile, there are girls that DO NOTHIN NOTHIN and the men spend heaven and earth for them.
But its all good, funny thing is, most guys have approached me and automatically think I'm a hard catch and want their money because I do for myself and look good doing it.
So they assume that I need their money and wahala, then I show them that I can take care of them, but then they GET LAZZZY and cheap and don't want to lift their leg up from off the floor.

If i were u KISMET OR KIPLOMET OR whatever UR NAME IS, i would send her to the grave early!

Ok on a more serious note, u would never come out of penury if u continue like this, so u need to be bold and define what u want to ur gold-digger girl

If u continue like this, u may die a pauper and ur girlfriend wont hesistate to take the clothes off ur dead body and auction off on ebay

Boot her out now if u don't want to be cleaned inside out!

Which kai-n rubbish be that? U just dey spit money like person wey them take do ritual yet u can spend a dime on yourself!

lololol @ dee02, lol at the idea of auctioning off clothes.

its funny because I'm used to dating stingy and selfish men. Just because i have my hair and nails done, they assume I would not like a sponsor, please oooh Klip since you have all this money, send some my way. FedEx. lol, just playing. But seriously girls like that will always have guys who are vulnerable. I'm not saying become a stingy person, all I can say is spend your MONEY WISELY.

tHIS GIRL trouble is too much,  tell her like this, I will get you vitamins, so that your hair will grow fast only $15 USA.

well, I don't have that problem because I am a hair stylist. But I would just ask her if she can do another style.