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popsonbabs (m)
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Please, follow Nairalander, my girl is still a student, presentable, brilliant and handworking but the problem am having with her is that she don't want to be considerate when it come to money issue. I just got a job less than 2 months now and she is expecting me to carry all are financial responsibility like paying her school fees, giving her pocket money and the rest. Please, advise me what should i do? should i let go of her?  or i should keep on enduring or ,  |
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The Sly
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We are currently advising this dude as well Y'all need Jesus. . . . .Go to Church and fast for 7days. |
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SENATOR JD (m)
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no my brother keep enduring ok and when u finally go broke maybe u'd realise what u are doing, doesnt she have parents?why must u be the one paying school fees and giving her pocket money?ok one question how was she paying her fees before u got the job ???how was she receiving pocket money and from who?so how come all of the sudden ure the one taken up all reponsibilities?
be wise my brother if she demands so much from u as a girlfriend just barely 2months after u got a job what would happen when u get married?
by the way u didnt even speficy if shes your girlfriend because u just wrote your girl?your girl as in babe or baby?
nigga if its the former then i'd give one advice after this(talk to her) doesnt work, hit the road
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lucabrasi (m)
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you heard it,be firm and take charge
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stillwater (f)
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We are currently advising this dude as well Y'all need Jesus. . . . .Go to Church and fast for 7days. Lmao!!!!!!!! |
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Akinagirl (f)
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Tell her she needs to chill, you just got the job, she can't be eating the money up faster than you can make it. Damn, and the above poster had a really valid Q, what was your girl doing before you got a job for school fees and spending money? |
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mzdiverse (f)
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she don't love you, love isnt sucking you dry, wake up my brother and smell trouble.
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Busta (f)
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sit her down and talk to her about it.
If she don't change, do u really want to be someone like that?
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opokonwa (m)
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You need to take charge or she goes. Period
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Siena (m)
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She sounds like a blood-sucking leech.
No need to advice you on what to do.
I'm sure you've already got the answer.
If you do what I think you know you need to, in this situation, I'd say you're entirely justified.
Good luck.
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onyeka_ng (f)
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jus take a hike abeg i doubt if she truely loves u.
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frank 3.16 (m)
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My girl is doing the same, my situation is that the mony i earn now is not enough and i am asking hewr to be patient while i get something better. but she seem not to understand.
well i had to make it clear that if she can't wait, then she can do whatever she likes, moreover i have made her understand that she is not my only problem and its high time she starts adjusting to the rules that i am going to coime up with when the mony starts flowing.
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fabiyi
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well said busta jare.
some chicks are just too demanding to be with.
little patience they can endure. she will never think about how d poor guy will rent his own apartment, get confirmed, pay back previous debts of d 1st month he borrowed when he started working etc.
that is why i can never date school girl. first, they are not honest, they will collect money 4m u and giv it to some useless campus boys all in the name of lust.
my advice for you is that just give her what you know it will not affect you and do what BUSTA suggested above. If she does not change, then leave her for real. Don't let any girl push you to the wall all in the name of love because i can infer from your post that u are seriously worrying.
Campus girls no go area for me. I see them as in experience untill they graduate, wait at home for 2 or 3 years before getting a job. Then, they will know how to manage the little money you give them. That is my personal opinion about campus girls.
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tngtech (m)
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Sit her down and let her see reasons with you.
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Easybaby (f)
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E ya . . .pele  
But you also demand for her honey pot always? 
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Abbey_city (f)
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Sit her down and let her see reasons with you.
u're right @poster i think that's d best way b'because if u let go of her like u've said, she will be thinking and telling people that it's now that u got a job that make you to abandon her, or what do u think |
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fabiyi
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poster no thank u that is why we are here.
@abbey city,
who cares? let her think and say anything she wants at least she and other ladies will learn a lesson from there.
these days guys are changing but ladies/women are making them to go back to their old dirty deeds.
peace.
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tngtech (m)
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u're right @poster i think that's d best way b'because if u let go of her like u've said, she will be thinking and telling people that it's now that u got a job that make you to abandon her, or what do u think u speak my mind. poster no thank u that is why we are here.
@abbey city,
who cares? let her think and say anything she wants at least she and other ladies will learn a lesson from there.
these days guys are changing but ladies/women are making them to go back to their old dirty deeds.
peace.
if you really love her, u will think what people would say. |
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popsonbabs (m)
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I can now see and believe that the love of money is the beginning of all evil 
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ehie007 (m)
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i read this tread an laugh, guy don't be a mugu, wats the guarantee that u will end up marrying this so called babe. u better go and find yourself a working class babe, so u will not av a liability. so shine your eyes. are u her father
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Scopium (m)
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@ poster
Hit the road Jack don't you come back no more no more no more no more
Hit the road Jack don't you come back no more
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jennykadry (f)
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naja haje y u dey cry naaa,d person don go,no cry clean your eyes
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Scopium (m)
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@ Naje Haje
Baby don't, baby don't cry, my baby don't cry
Asa baby ah ah o o ah ah o o baby ah ah o o o
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tope777
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Fuk d girl wel, wel and sent her parking, okkkey
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tngtech (m)
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Fuk d girl wel, wel and sent her parking, okkkey
@ the end you come carry, wetin u go do? |
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