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jennykadry (f)
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@ Pahtahkee,
To be honest, some women are fucking idiots and trust me, those ones deserve to be slapped repeatedly to tuck senses in their craniums.
Some women behave emselves with just an eye contact/body language. . . .some would stop their madness with just one warning.
However, some are just too stubborn and daring and wont budge until u slap hell out of their faces.
A man gast to do what he has to do to control every situation. . . . .If i happen to marry a goat of a woman, she would be slapped everytime if that is the only thing that can put her in CHECK!!!!!!! y don't u kill her instead of slaping her |
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Radiant (f)
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Jackal, what's your home addy? The postman is at my door  Actually, I detest hitting a human being regardless of age. I find it cruel. However, anger/violence could have no limits 
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Jackal. (m)
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y don't u kill her instead of slaping her
I thunk KILLING will be an overkill.  A heavy slap should do. . . . . She gets dazed and her brain comes out of hibernation. @ Radiant, What are u sending? A letter-bomb? |
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Radiant (f)
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Well i 've been reading all your quotes and unfortunately am a victim of such circumstance.i hv 3 young boys and i culdn't bear my children watchin deir mum crying continously, so i decided 2 move out of d house our kids.Rite now i stay in dublin,while my hubby stays in nigar.
How long did it take you to move out? Sorry about that Jackal, why would you marry someone that frustrates you? Abi you're the one that said you'll go fishing for a wife in your village? Or was it Debo? |
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Cadet (f)
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Well i 've been reading all your quotes and unfortunately am a victim of such circumstance.i hv 3 young boys and i culdn't bear my children watchin deir mum crying continously, so i decided 2 move out of d house our kids.Rite now i stay in dublin,while my hubby stays in nigar.
I am deeply sorry for the unfortunate event. But madam, at some point, that is the only alternative. Plz, dnt let the kids get expose to such abuse. It just breaks my heart that some women will stay in the marriage just because of love and culture, and even worst when the children are affected by the separation. But what can we do when the man is heedless? I hope your situation turn to a better one  Girl! I'm not stupid enough to hit him!
That's where the broken bottles and knives come in.
A woman should never fight a man with her hands.
I like the way you think |
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StephenP (m)
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@ Pahtahkee,
To be honest, some women are fucking idiots and trust me, those ones deserve to be slapped repeatedly to tuck senses in their craniums.
Some women behave emselves with just an eye contact/body language. . . .some would stop their madness with just one warning.
However, some are just too stubborn and daring and wont budge until u slap hell out of their faces.
A man gast to do what he has to do to control every situation. . . . .If i happen to marry a goat of a woman, she would be slapped everytime if that is the only thing that can put her in CHECK!!!!!!!
I don't agree with you. Some men seize every opportunity to beat their wives. For example:
Wife: Darling, I got promoted at work. I might be working late.
Husband: What?! *Beats her*
Wife: I had a baby girl
Husband: What?! *Beats her*
Wife: I want to go to college and get a better job
Husband: No
She begs
He beats her.
It's really got to stop. |
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Radiant (f)
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A heavy slap should do. . . . . She gets dazed and her brain comes out of hibernation.
You should be ashamed *flings a dirty rag on Jack's face* |
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Cadet (f)
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I don't agree with you. Some men seize every opportunity to beat their wives. For example:
Wife: Darling, I got promoted at work. I might be working late.
Husband: What?! *Beats her*
Wife: I had a baby girl
Husband: What?! *Beats her*
Wife: I want to go to college and get a better job
Husband: No
She begs
He beats her.
It's really got to stop.
Sadly this happens most often in Nigeria, and who is the wife suppose to run to? |
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The Sly
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However, some are just too stubborn and daring and wont budge until u slap hell out of their faces.
A man gast to do what he has to do to control every situation. . . . .If i happen to marry a goat of a woman, she would be slapped everytime if that is the only thing that can put her in CHECK!!!!!!! ----------->Jackal.Nahhh Bro hitting her wont solve the problem. . . . . . most of 'em are bestowed with a chicken soul which aint strong enough to withstand that. . She would just hit the floor n faint before you know whats goin on. . . . . I got like 100ways to punish 'em stubborn ass. . . . .Trust me. . hitting aint one of em. |
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jennykadry (f)
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anyway except d woman pathakee beats is a mugu,if d woman is an open eye woman,all she has to do is grab him on his thirdleg(which is his life)and slam him on d ground wt no mercy
anu mpam
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chisimdi (f)
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I am deeply sorry for the unfortunate event. But madam, at some point, that is the only alternative. Please, dnt let the kids get expose to such abuse. It just breaks my heart that some women will stay in the marriage just because of love and culture, and even worst when the children are affected by the separation. But what can we do when the man is heedless? I hope your situation turn to a better one I like the way you think thanks alot but 2 b honest wit u am much happier now dan before,and i'm loving life to the fullest. |
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Cadet (f)
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thanks alot but 2 b honest wit u am much happier now dan before,and i'm loving life to the fullest.
I love the attitude. Good radiance to bad rubbish, or how does the saying goes again? |
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StephenP (m)
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Sadly this happens most often in Nigeria, and who is the wife suppose to run to?
She has no one. She can't run to her husband's family because they would force her back to her husband's house. She can't go home to her family because as far as they are concerned, they have married her off and have had their bride price so she is no longer their "problem". Yet, she has 4-5 kids she needs to feed and protect. It's so depressing. |
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jennykadry (f)
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Good radiance to bad rubbish, or how does the saying goes again? good rubbish to bad radiance |
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Radiant (f)
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@StephenP, couldn't agree more with you Jackal, seems to be the greatest jackass of Nairaland . You should marry Tyson's punching bag instead of a dear woman. Silly Red Devil  Waiting for your addy. Don't be scared
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j-girl (f)
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It's kind of funny how we can separate the good guys from the bad guys on this thread.
Any man that hits a woman, in my opinion, is a coward.
Any woman that hits a man is just darn stupid.
Hitting doesn't make the marriage or relationship better. It just makes it worse because soon the love among them becomes fear and fear will definitely make the partners both unhappy.
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Cadet (f)
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LOL. Thanks! I can count on you She has no one. She can't run to her husband's family because they would force her back to her husband's house. She can't go home to her family because as far as they are concerned, they have married her off and have had their bride price so she is no longer their "problem". Yet, she has 4-5 kids she needs to feed and protect. It's so depressing.
Thanks, one more reason why I dislike Nigeria's political/ social system  Haba, God save me from this distasteful Nigerian Men! |
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tpia
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I got like 100ways to punish 'em stubborn ass. . . . .Trust me. . hitting aint one of em. Sly, list some of ya 100 ways, abeg. I'm curious. |
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j-girl (f)
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Thanks, one more reason why I dislike Nigeria's political/ social system Haba, God save me from this distasteful Nigerian Men! |
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Cadet (f)
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It's kind of funny how we can separate the good guys from the bad guys on this thread.
Any man that hits a woman, in my opinion, is a coward.
Any woman that hits a man is just darn stupid.
Hitting doesn't make the marriage or relationship better. It just makes it worse because soon the love among them becomes fear and fear will definitely make the partners both unhappy.
Preach it sister! That's just it |
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pahtahkee
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@ Jackal, You know back in my days at Abeograms, we used to have a lady we call her Hulk Hogan. I do not even remember her name save except the nickname. She was a boxer and a fighter. Punching her breasts by guys never stopped her from her usual recourse to always engaging guys in a physical brawl. I cannot imagine having the mistake of such an animal in my house, and I do expect such a beast would keep her hands in her pocket. Hell not possible! I guess someone woulda moved out of the house for the other. I do not doubt that there are women who are beasts, but fighting aggression with aggression is out of order. |
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bawomolo (m)
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wha's with all the tough talk from the ladies, in reality most of yall would go siddon for corner and cry  |
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Cadet (f)
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AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!
The Lord will continue to bless you for that. You're the best Amen!!! |
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j-girl (f)
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wha's with all the tough talk from the ladies, in reality most of yall would go siddon for corner and cry In reality some of us will also send the men to ICU. It takes a strong woman to collect all the beatings and not do a thing about it. That's a test I cannot pass. The Lord will continue to bless you for that. You're the best Amen!!! Amen again! Thanks girl. |
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Cadet (f)
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wha's with all the tough talk from the ladies, in reality most of yall would go siddon for corner and cry You seriously don't know me, apart from what I show on Nairaland. I dnt pretent, and I am not tought, but that does not make me stupid. Back in the days I use to fist fight, but am out of it. I slap biarches who are out of control, but I dnt slap the men. But one thing is, If my husband dares to lay his hands on me, little by little, my trust for him will fade away. And what is a relationship without trust? And there are just men who just shame the male population. Haba, most of Nigerian men here just depress me, disgusting! |
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Radiant (f)
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wha's with all the tough talk from the ladies, in reality most of yall would go siddon for corner and cry Where d'u live?. . . You talking about back in the days I, bless your knowledge. |
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Jackal. (m)
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Jackal, why would you marry someone that frustrates you? Abi you're the one that said you'll go fishing for a wife in your village? Or was it Debo? But we all know how deceptive these tricks are. . . . During courtship. . . .they are angels. They will go any length to please a man with a high level of tolerance. However, as soon as u slip that wedding ring on her finger then she becomes the BOSS. What can a NIGGA do? @ StephenP, don't include the acts of psychopaths and sociopaths here. U are citing extreme cases. . . . .Be objective for once, will ya? @ Radiant, You are flinging a dirty rag on me face? Just make sure that rag aint ur granny undies. . . . . I don't want to die POOR.  @ The Sly, Trust me. . . . . . .a well calculated slap is the antidote for a stubborn woman. It has to be executed at the right moment not just randomly. I have tried it times without number it's efficiency is 95%. . . . . Its better than dialogue or whatz not? P.S. Give a woman an inch. . . .she takes a MILE!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Cadet (f)
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Where d'u live?. . . You talking about back in the days I, bless your knowledge.
abi o, Imagine, some are even encouraging the slap. Thank God sha there are Nigerian men here, dnt have to go to Nigeria and bring back a goat |
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ztyle (m)
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Chei, i'm late again *hands on head* Abeg Jenny feel me in? |
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debosky (m)
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@ Rad YES I am wife hunting straight from the village - urbanized chicks like Cadet are too much trouble - they NEVER shut up  I want a girl who will worship the ground I walk on and treat me like the King I am, I'll take care of her of course, as long as she doesn't have drama episodes |
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jennykadry (f)
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Chei, i'm late again *hands on head* Abeg Jenny feel me in? them they ask men wey dey beat women if e good or bad,some say e no good to beat woman some say e good,so them still dey debate |
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