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StephenP (m)
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[/b] Excuse me, but did I come looking for gorilla's attention? No one throws stones at me and gets flowers in return,  LOL, This dwarf will continue to cause many sleepless nights, so get used to it goats, |
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4 Him (m)
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When you're ready to really get back to topic, plz reply the topic. New man, David?
old things are passed away . . . behold . . . Ok i pose a question to you, would you leave a marriage (10yrs, 3 kids) because the man hits you? Remember its his first time ever. |
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~Antidote~ (f)
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madam don't bother replying if you're so not bothered. its not rocket science. Allow people with brains to contribute please.
f Mr.Agricultural science graduate, I went back to read, just to make sure if aNY of my posts were directed to you, and so far I haven't foulnd any, Erhhmmm Show me where has your "intellectually inclined brains" taken you? LOL, Don't worry I pity you a few goods for the holidays, Now honestly, get lost goat, you are too "dark" for my liking, |
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LadyT (f)
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Whoa hang on who the hell are you calling a goat? You have started again abi? Look don't bring it. Cuz you aint ready. hissssss Stephen I'm sorry forget what I said  [/b] Excuse me, but did I come looking for gorilla's attention? No one throws stones at me and gets flowers in return, LOL, This dwarf will continue to cause many sleepless nights, so get used to it goats, |
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The Sly
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Here we go again!  |
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~Antidote~ (f)
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Exactly my point. At the end of the day, you'll wonder what you've gained from the forum.
Let me get one thing straight here, What exactly is bugging you? Just need to get that clear, @topic How can one who've NEVER had a woman or even touched one until they were almost 25, give advice on such? LOL, |
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4 Him (m)
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Mr.Agricultural science graduate, and they cry about people making false accusations without facts. lol the irony. you are too "dark" for my liking,
real women arent complaining.  Thank you ma'am, can we get back on topic please? Everything really isnt all about you is it . . . Some people need to be reminded that signatures are there for the user to employ it FIRST. |
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~Antidote~ (f)
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Whoa hang on who the hell are you calling a goat? You have started again abi?Look don't bring it. Cuz you aint ready. hissssss Stephen I'm sorry forget what I said Just like the last time when you got involved in matters that didnt concern you, I see you are it again. Maybe if you read carefully, you would have seen that my ONLY response to you was where I said "excuse me", But if you really want to get down, let's get started, |
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stillwater (f)
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Don't worry. It didn't really phase me. I just wonder why people unnecessarily "flare" up here. It's so unhealthy and totally not worth it.
 @ topic No I can't marry a man that hits me. I am not a trouble maker in person, so what would warrant a slap from him unless he has issues? |
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4 Him (m)
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@ topic
No I can't marry a man that hits me. I am not a trouble maker in person, so what would warrant a slap from him unless he has issues?
just suppose it ever happened that he slapped you in error? |
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chiegemba (f)
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@ 4him . . . . based on your question y would d husband ever have d thought of raisin his hand on his wife after 3kids and that extended length of marriage? Do u think she really needs 2 wait 2 find out if he's a chronic abuser?
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StephenP (m)
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Let me get one thing straight here, What exactly is bugging you? Just need to get that clear,
Why do some posters here feel the need to flare up at any comment? Why can't they just say "Oh, that guy/girl called me this and I am just going to overlook it"? It's really not that hard. |
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Cadet (f)
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old things are passed away . . . behold . . . Ok i pose a question to you, would you leave a marriage (10yrs, 3 kids) because the man hits you? Remember its his first time ever.
Later, after we've worked out the problem, I'll move back to the room with him, but if he dares to slap me again, am out. Once, it's forgivable, twice it's a shame on me for staying with him. If he can do it again after we've worked things out, what makes me believe he won't do it again. I'll be wasting my time talking it out with him, again. |
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LadyT (f)
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This is sooooooooooooooooooooo bloody boring!
Every topic you are involved in gets turned into the Islander freak show.
CALM DOWN Look you are a grown woman about 7 years my senior I suggest you respect yourself. You yapping on here but in reality outside this cyber world you would not say shit or do shit. So just shut shit up.
@topic people do dumb stuff in a rage. You will have to look at the situation as a whole
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stillwater (f)
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just suppose it ever happened that he slapped you in error? What do you mean by "in error"? |
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bawomolo (m)
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cadet came crawling back to me even after i hurled her into the garbage truck.
seriously though, from what i've seen/heard most women would condone it until they reach a breaking point.
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Cadet (f)
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just suppose it ever happened that he slapped you in error?
In error? In error? Slap the mother of his children in error? That's the greatest "error". |
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chiegemba (f)
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Why do some posters here feel the need to flare up at any comment? Why can't they just say "Oh, that guy/girl called me this and I am just going to overlook it"? It's really not that hard.
Dats nl's tradition. . . .  i guess with time u would know what am talkin about. |
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StephenP (m)
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just suppose it ever happened that he slapped you in error?
There's no way he could have slapped her in error. Not even if he was drunk as shit. |
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4 Him (m)
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@ 4him . . . . based on your question y would d husband ever have d thought of raisin his hand on his wife after 3kids and that extended length of marriage? Do u think she really needs 2 wait 2 find out if he's a chronic abuser?
Scenarios occur that we can't really explain. I see men who have probably lost a job, are frustrated, can't cope with the pressue outside and at home. They snap, before they can collect themselves they've landed a slap on the woman's face. Would you divorce him? |
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Cadet (f)
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cadet came crawling back to me even after i hurled her into the garbage truck.
Don't mess with me on this topic. reply the topic and dnt start your love dialogue again. You can't resist me abi? Ekiti erotica! |
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chiegemba (f)
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"In Error"? makes me wonder what that really means???
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LadyT (f)
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4Him the only way he would be justified is if she was nagging him and pushing and shoving him!
I'm sorry too bad you lost your job and you are stressed. As a unit (husband and wife) I will be just as stressed as you. I don't go round slapping faces!
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eterpete
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, i am dodging all the flying objects here and i'll just say, no woman should stay in an abusive relationship! It's not worth it for you, the guy and your kids. The talk about culture is 'lazy', culture evolved and didn't come ready made! Religion? Poverty motivates many of the interpretation of holy books in Nigeria, I'm out! |
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4 Him (m)
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"In Error"? makes me wonder what that really means???
it does happen, maybe he never meant it, things happen in a flash that we can't explain minutes later. People react differently in anger, even so-called good natured women have been known to get physical on rare occassions. |
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chiegemba (f)
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Scenarios occur that we can't really explain. I see men who have probably lost a job, are frustrated, can't cope with the pressue outside and at home. They snap, before they can collect themselves they've landed a slap on the woman's face.
Would you divorce him?
4 one it sure would lead 2 a separation. . . y in d world would u want 2 snap? i sure didnt get married 2 a maniac who can't control his anger using his wife as what? . . . a bait? . . . . "beats my imagination though" |
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4 Him (m)
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4Him the only way he would be justified is if she was nagging him and pushing and shoving him!
I'm sorry too bad you lost your job and you are stressed. As a unit (husband and wife) I will be just as stressed as you. I don't go round slapping faces!
that, my dear, happens in many many homes. I'm glad you at least admit that most times the woman is perhaps at fault, i'm not saying you shld slap your wife if she nags but a woman's tongue can literarily push a man over the edge. |
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Cadet (f)
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Would you divorce him?
I don't dig divorcement, but I can't allow any cultural taboo to make me stay in an abusive marriage. |
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bawomolo (m)
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what if the woman hits him first, then he is justified to defend himself. and yeah things happen that can push a man to madness.
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4 Him (m)
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4 one it sure would lead 2 a separation. . . y in d world would u want 2 snap? i sure didnt get married 2 a maniac who can't control his anger using his wife as what? . . . a bait? . . . . "beats my imagination though" haba madam. we are all humans, can you honestly tell us you've not gone off your tether before in anger? Its nothing to do with being a maniac, remember that men find it much easier to physically express themselves than women. It may be one more reason a man is more likely to boil over with his fists than his brain. |
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Cadet (f)
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what if the woman hits him first, then he is justified to defend himself. and yeah things happen that can push a man to madness.
so two wrongs make a right? |
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LadyT (f)
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If you slap expect to get slapped back! It don't matter which way round it is. That will stop all these slappers we have round here |
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