Your Mother And Junior Sister Beating Up Your Wife.

If your mother and your junior sister comes to your house to beat up your wife accusing her of deverting his attention from the family members financially and morally, what will you do. Meanwhile he use to help them, but now the job is not as bouyant as it use to be and even you feels the impact of lack of finance for the house upkeep. Your reaction please?

Husbands your comment are needed,wives too can comment.

It is unbelievable that something this ridiculous would happen in the 21st century.  I will pay some local area boys to give those heffers the beating of their life.  And if my husband did not come to my rescue, then he would get the same treatment.  Then I would take my children and leave their sorry son.

I want them to have a look-a-dere on dey head so big dey want be able to hold their heads up.

God forbid bad thing.

can someone please explain why Nigerians like to fight, why? the smallest misunderstanding could result in a fight

Beating your sister is not the answer, unless you are also willing to beat your mother!

The most important thing is to make them apologize to your wife.  Then create a rule - my people use this - that whenever you are to give them any money or gift  it must be through the hands of your wife.  Works like a charm!

Well, anyone that will watch that happen to his wife those not love her it means he his enjoyin it.

Is it what you experiencing?

I think the core cause of this kind of problems is lack of communication. If there is communication gab between your wife and your family from the  unset, then in a condition of lack there must be this kind of problems. Since there has been gab between your wife and your family from the unset and the only link was the finance you used to give them and now it is not forth coming, the conclusion would be she has succeeded in finally disconnecting you from them.

That is why it is very important to established a sound relationship between your wife and your family from the begginning, if not your marriage will suffer from that angle. Let them know this is your wife and that you cherish her. Don't protect her from your people. Sometimes, let her sort things out herself with them. She is suppose to be part of the family. I AM REFERING TO A GOOD WIFE WITH A GOOD INTENTION FOR YOUR FAMILY AND AM ASSUMING THAT YOUR FAMILY IS ALSO GOOD, because SOME WOMEN BEFORE MARRIAGE HAVE DECIDED TO BE HOSTILE TO THEIR INLAWS AND SAME TO THE INLAWS. You the man is the Head, the way you present your wife is the way your family will take her and the way you present your family is the way your wife will take them. Stop talking  your family down in front of your wife and stop talking  your wife down to your family. Let the past be past, stop narreting the past of your family to your wife, they will definately influence the way she reacts to them and never make the mistake of narreting the past of your wife to your family. Let them discover themselves and make amendments as at when due. If you are not careful in handling matters between them you the man could cause problem between a good wife and a good inlaw.

My elder brother made the same mistake and he is paying for that unrest right now.

babymine,

Thank you.

if that kind of thing happen  i will  take all of them both my wife,my sister excluding my mother to a ring and setup a fight for them to see who is stronger then i will pay off there hospital bill(who ever loose will surely knows his right)

I can never be happy. But i will have to beg my wife for this and even make her more comfortable than before because my people as set a bad record against her and i will talk better to my people not to try it again.

I would never _{under any circumstance} allow my mom, sis, bro come that close or even dare touching not to talk of beating up my wife.

well m no 1 wifey YET. but man datz real bad , how dare dey come 2 ur yard and mess up ur wife, u need 2 talk to ur mum and sister & tell them 2  never eva come 2 ur house 2 beat up ur wife because datz is abuse & u ve got 2 explain d reason y u nut sending much stuffs anymore & if ur wife is always rude 2 ur family caution her. ur family got 2 RESPECT ur wife u re wit her nut them.

It's not possible in my case.  My family members cannot be that jobless.

Damn there are even more sisters getting involved in the topic more than brothers een though the topic is asking about wives. Are yall lesbians

Just kiddin

Well i think i have a situation. Never let your family get in your affairs in the first place. Even if you marriage is shit (oh did i say that), it is still your problem not your family's. Isn't it annoying when they come and say it's my brothers house or it's my sons house. I personally believe the beating up or even shouting comes because in Nigeria the women seem a little intimidated. But they needn't be, they are supposed to be a little more aggressive and not say it is my huband's houe too. Tey are supposed to simply inform them that it ain't his house it is my house. or for the easily intimidated, it is our house but please don't add the TOO at the end that's the invitation to

GET OUT OF OUR BROTHER@S HOUSE and then the beating ensues.

Peace yall

If mama is woman enough to put her hands on me, I am going to fight her hard like I would fight any woman to defend myself.  One of us is going down.  Now if both mama and sister try to jump me, I am going to have shoot one of them or stab them with a butcher knife -  self defense.  But if it is one on one, may the best woman wins.

If I am in Nigeria, I have to tread carefully.  I am going to defend myself.  But I might have to pay some areas boys to them a complete and thorough beating.  I don't care if she is my husband's mama, you don't come in my house and tell me shit.  IF you put your hands on me, it is on!

Something similar happend to a former neighbor, she was slapped by her sister inlaw and the husband just stood there.
Some wives get hostile reactions from their inlaws. if her husband  can't stand up for her when shes been beaten, then  hes just a freakin COWARD.