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ritapearl (f)
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So sorry about your situation. It happened to a friend of mine. She got pregnant for this guy and the guy told her to abort the baby girl. she didnt. She bore the shame all through. She got pregnant for the guy the second time and the same thing happened. He told her to abort it and she didnt. Now the plan getting married after the two children. I pray it works for them.
Most guys don't think with their heads. The enjoy the koko but if the outcome turns out like this, they arent bold enough to face it.
My advise is---- don't allow him see the pretty girl, he is not worth it.Dont be threatened by him, he can't harm you.
I was thinking he came to apologise or something because there was in naija film i watched that something like this happened and the man was to come and apologise to the lady because he wldnt have children of his own. I think after the apology the man cld now have his own children.
Anyway, don't have anything to do with him for now. Just take your time to think of what to do.
Cheers!
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gentlegg (m)
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@ Poster
The earlier you forget your past the better. Denying the man his biological child will only worsen your own life in future. Like it or not, the child will grow up looking for her father. And legally in Nigeria, I don't think you have power to deny a man his biological or legally adopted child. Think twice.
If you succeed in denying the man his child, can you bear the burden of training the girl all her life? Who will your girl call father all her life? Should you marry 2morrow, do you think your husband will see the girl with good eyes? Lastly the child will even grow to hate you for denying her fatherhood.
Yes, the man should be blamed 100% for deserting you with your pregnancy then, but methinks you're not 100% exonerable from the past.
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unigue (f)
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hummm your story is so touching but we 10x God u got over it and u ve found your feet back on track because there re many out there that ve similar story that re ruined 4 ever because of such, but my own advice for u is to inform your family about this but dnt give in to him too soon just like that because he actually wanted the child because of one stupid worldly title, don't mind men they always thing they can eat there cake and ve it.
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francessby (f)
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Gosh!! that man is a labista, don't even try to let him near your baby or he might plan to kidnap her therefore you have to be more viglant
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