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2cantango (f)
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Well this is a perfect example of why things will never change - people always tackle problems with tunnel vision.
Instead of teaching both genders what is right and wrong, the girls are targeted because they're the ones left holding the baby.
The same logic is placed towards rape when girls are told they dress in a provocative way - wives who get beaten are thought to have deserved it/caused it, whatever.
It's quite a sexist world we're living in.
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bolex (m)
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 what is all these anywayz papermoon i dey London too send me an e-mail  i want to get this-virgined while watching x-men 3  u feel me ?
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dachosen1 (f)
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oh hell no. none of ya can judge me unless you've been in my shoes. the father of my children is not my husband but that doesnt mean that he isnt there for my kids. yes i am in college and i do have a good job. i make good money and i have good benefits unlike other teenage parents. it is in no way a struggle for me taking care of my kids. the father of my children has been there from day 1. who said children who grow up in single parent homes are more loose? you has gots to be out of your mind. that is so not true. depending on the situation it is sometimes the other way around. and i am proud to say that i have kids. that is nothing i should be ashamed about. i still got my same dreams and hopes that i'm going to accomplish. god blessed me with kids and i don't regret ever having them. i take care of my responsibilities!!!!!!!! if u got some slick shit to say keep your mouth shut
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bolex (m)
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you don' need to boil like that we sharing views besides ,,,,  |
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bolex (m)
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your kids are no mistake God forbids !!! You made a mistake having them @ the wrong time Now , the more you start to accept your mistakes The better & Papermoon,,,, |
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dachosen1 (f)
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How is it the wrong time that I had my children? You tell me? Like for real what makes you think that I wasn't ready? your kids are no mistake God forbids !!! You made a mistake having them @ the wrong time Now , the more you start to accept your mistakes The better & Papermoon,,,, |
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bolex (m)
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If you was ready then you would be ready to accept that the father is your husband |
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dachosen1 (f)
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do you know the definition of husband?
husband- man of married pair.
We are not married therefore he isn't my husband. So you mean to tell me if you impregnated a girl, she is automatically your wife? Even if you don't or do have feelings for her.
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bolex (m)
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I see you a responsible woman I don;t want to argue with you because I would cause another thing here trying to prove a point to you Just let me advise you on this The kids would come to you 1 day asking for daddy and start to question you on why daddy aint living with them That is when you will know what's up I aint saying nothing more because I don;t want it to be like I am victimising you If you want me to talk Say it on here that I have been given permission to say ma mind to you while you say yours to me (also state if ( or if not ) you want external contributions) |
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dachosen1 (f)
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What makes you think that my children don't see there daddy or the fact that me and him don't live together. The only point I was tryin to bring up was the simple fact that we are not married yet people insist that we are. Nobody said nothing bout my kids not seeign there father. I see you a responsible woman I don;t want to argue with you because I would cause another thing here trying to prove a point to you Just let me advise you on this The kids would come to you 1 day asking for daddy and start to question you on why daddy aint living with them That is when you will know what's up I aint saying nothing more because I don;t want it to be like I am victimising you If you want me to talk Say it on here that I have been given permission to say ma mind to you while you say yours to me (also state if ( or if not ) you want external contributions) |
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bolex (m)
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papermoon ease yourself up am still trying to arrange a date wit ur silly ass hey, dachosen 1 u aint granting ma permission yet so i aint saying nuttin more |
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bolex (m)
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haha common let's talk on e-mail |
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bolex (m)
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will be waiting for ur e-mail
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dachosen1 (f)
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in that case permission granted
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bolex (m)
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brb , @ da chosen brave 1
i will brb to finish where I stopped
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dachosen1 (f)
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okay it's whatever
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Seun (m)
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Bolex has been banned for encouraging people to go offtopic in a show of complete disrecpect for the rules. shame on him.
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beyunce (f)
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well i know its dangerous and don't advice any girl to make that mistake.
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Orikinla (m)
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Pregnancy is not an excuse for marriage.The man does not become a father, because he got someone pregnant. If the man cannot be a good father, don't marry him. Your children deserve the best. Fatherhood is not American Football.
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chinani (f)
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Fatherhood is not American Football.  What does that mean? |
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ono (m)
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@Chinani,
I wonder what that means too.
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mochafella (m)
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What does that mean? @Chinani,
I wonder what that means too.
I think he means its not to be toyed/played with. |
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Orikinla (m)
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Mochafella, --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Quote from: chinani on Yesterday at 06:27:05 PM
What does that mean?
Quote from: ono on Yesterday at 06:29:50 PM
@Chinani,
I wonder what that means too.
I think he means its not to be toyed/played with. Thank you. Milllions of American men love American Football and the NBA than their children. They prefer to watch the games than even pay attention to their children. If the guy who is responsible for the birth of your children does not love you and your children, please don't marry him. I hope I am well understood now by those who were asking questions? |
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chinani (f)
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Yes Orikinla. I understand now. I agree with you. Thank you.
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bolex (m)
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***lights candle for papermoon*** This thread was what brought our 1st chat papermoon  & it is da only thread we ever had any conversation May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace AMEN  |
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babwilms (m)
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AMEN and may the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ continue to be with her kids.
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