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drwhopl (m)
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whats up my people how u'all doing?there's an observation i got to find out and i've been looking for clues and answers so i guess you guys can help out.
why is it that when a guy meets a girl on the first day like maybe at an occassion and you guys start talking and start enjoying each others prescence and u start acting as if u have know each other for about 20 years.then when you guys are about to depart,i observed that when the guy ask the girl for her number,she gives it to him.but she on her own part won't ask for his.even if the guy doesn't ask at all.
so i'm trying to figure out here that if u like this person and he shows concern and even ask for your number why don't you.
so u guys should tell me what that means, and this goes out especially to the girls.
i'm waiting
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kayowalemi (m)
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I know they will shy away
Anyway, they expect you to ask so that it can be given to you
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iice (f)
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Because some dudes will automatically think she's a slut 
Warped mentality
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kayowalemi (m)
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Because some dudes will automatically think she's a slut
Warped mentality But a right thinking person shouldn't think that way since he met her at a function and not brothel |
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ibkaye (f)
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But a right thinking person shouldn't think that way since he met her at a function and not brothel
what if the majority aren't 'right thinking'?  |
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tngtech (m)
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Because some dudes will automatically think she's a slut
Warped mentality exactly. |
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Emeka 7. (m)
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because that is how nature sets it the boy should take the first move and not the babe. The babe only has to present herself to the guy.
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oziomatv (m)
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girls can ask number first, it's only in Nigeria that guys have this village mentality of calling girls who has courage of going for what they like names.
I can say that majority of girls I've dated asked me out, they told me plain that they need me or show signs of interest for me to notice, it was an honor for me that a girl choose me, than rating them cheap. Maybe I grew up in that system I don't know.
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Uche2nna (m)
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@ iice Why did You not point out that the poster recieved some tongue lashing as a response to his post  @ topic A girl giving u her number does not neccessarily mean she wants to be third degree'd . She might give her number to u without hesitation. But when it comes to giving the precious, na that time u go know say khaki no be leather |
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kayowalemi (m)
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what if the majority aren't 'right thinking'? I Still don't believe decency in you will not speak ahead of you. |
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joey007 (m)
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for me i don't really see any thing wrong with a girl asking after a guys nos even before he ask.
altough not all girls does that.
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sheniqua
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ladies please don't cheapen yourselves and ask for a man's number.
That action may come back to bite you in your ikebe
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sheniqua
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let him do the chasing.
That's the way it was meant to be.
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frank 3.16 (m)
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Because some dudes will automatically think she's a slut
Warped mentality you've said it all. but thats sad, we are making our girls so rigid with this culture, some will even give you wrong number and unfortunately these grls think it makes them sharp and valued by the male folks very very sad. |
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oziomatv (m)
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You never jam man wey go turn your head on, nobody go tell you make you give sign. |
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bawomolo (m)
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let him do the chasing.
That's the way it was meant to be.
and who decided how it was meant to be. |
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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You never jam man wey go turn your head on, nobody go tell you make you give sign.
that man go jam remember say God created him to chase moi! |
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naija_diva (f)
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because unlike guys, we are not desperate.
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Scopium (m)
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that man go jam remember say God created him to chase moi! |
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Scopium (m)
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because unlike guys, we are not desperate.
This is the most truthful lie I've ever heard |
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oziomatv (m)
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that man go jam remember say God created him to chase moi! real men are had to find, and beautiful girls many. na kpangolo dey run up and down for women. |
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Scopium (m)
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Ok I see
How are you Naje?
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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real men are had to find, and beautiful girls many. na kpangolo dey run up and down for women.
so are you agreeing with me then? This is the most truthful lie I've ever heard
keep deceiving yourself |
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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Ok I see
How are you Naje? am fine. . . . . thank you. Howz ya day been? |
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oziomatv (m)
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Had it being I'm still in high school I'll still believe this shit.
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crazykid (m)
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Because they feel it’s the guy who should do the calling.
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Scopium (m)
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My day is great Naje
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oziomatv (m)
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That's why oto na aka nne full here and there.
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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Because they feel it’s the guy who should do the calling.
you've missed the point totally. Its not about who does the calling rather its about who does the 'asking out' by asking for the number. |
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