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OsunAmazon
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There is a growing interest on older women by younger men nowadays especially among celebrities. Nick Canon just married Mariah Carey and there are rumours that Dwayne Wade has a thing for Star Jones. But my question is this, since this is not a new thing because men has been doing it all along, why are women who like younger men refered to as COUGARS? Do we also have a name for 45 yr old men getting jiggy with 22 yr old women? Why is life and society so unfair to women?
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ibkaye (f)
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There is a growing interest on older women by younger men nowadays especially among celebrities. Nick Canon just married Mariah Carey and there are rumours that Dwayne Wade has a thing for Star Jones. But my question is this, since this is not a new thing because men has been doing it all along, why are women who like younger men refered to as COUGARS? Do we also have a name for 45 yr old men getting jiggy with 22 yr old women? Why is life and society so unfair to women?
Nick Cannon and Mariah!? Since When!?  Wow, news to me o  |
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StephenP (m)
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Nick Cannon and Mariah!? Since When!? Wow, news to me o |
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ibkaye (f)
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That was all over the news last night. I was shocked also because I didn't see it coming.
Shocked also  |
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Tattooboy (m)
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@topic
iba oooooooooo, moju ba ooooooooooo
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Cadet (f)
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That was all over the news last night. I was shocked also because I didn't see it coming.
I really did not care. I was wondering how that news will pay for my college.  |
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StephenP (m)
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LOL!! Neither do I. I'm really not a fan of either of them. I just didn't think that out of ALL the guys God put on Earth, Mariah Carey would choose Nick.
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uspry1 (f)
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Cougars is hot cake in the USA since late 2000s, not only celebrities! Ordinary people with all kinds of social class too!!!
Not news to me!!!
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OsunAmazon
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Cougars is hot cake in the USA since late 2000s, not only celebrities! Ordinary people with all kinds of social class too!!! Why does the society call women like that cougars when they kept mum on men that has been doing since time immemorial? |
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uspry1 (f)
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Why does the society call women like that cougars when they kept mum on men that has been doing since time immemorial?
@OsunAmazon The same reason why older men at age 35-55 attract dating younger women mostly college age between 18-25. Too many older men reject dating older women- - -same age, NO REASON!!! Prefer opposite attractive in 10 years age difference! Therefore, no choice for too many single older women not find any decent guys same age, choose younger men BETTER THAN NOTHING!!!! |
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OsunAmazon
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Too many older men reject dating older women- - -same age, NO REASON!!! Prefer opposite attractive in 10 years age difference! Therefore, no choice for too many single older women not find any decent guys same age, choose younger men BETTER THAN NOTHING!!!! I'm not against it, the only problem I have with it is why those women should be quickly named by the society. Why give them a funny name? |
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motun_rayo (f)
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I don't think a cougar is a funny name, I think its ok for a woman to be with someone who is youger than her but when it gets to being a 8 years and over difference I think thats a bit much and vice versa for men.
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Cadet (f)
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Why does the society call women like that cougars when they kept mum on men that has been doing since time immemorial?
Hotfunmi, you and this your men issues, oga o. |
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uspry1 (f)
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I had been rejected by older men at same age as mine and 5 yr older, but i am more attracted by younger man that is older enough to be my own SON! (age 18-28)!!! I am not 20ish!!!! Don't let my picture deceive you!!! I'm not against it, the only problem I have with it is why those women should be quickly named by the society. Why give them a funny name?
I don't know why society gave a funny name 'COUGARS'. My former pastor called me 'CRADLE THE ROBBER', that I never understood why he called me until I found out later it talked about age difference. (2 yr difference not bad)  You ought ask someone who invents 'COUGARS'. I assumed that you have been watch DR. PHIL talk show about 'COUGARS' yesterday afternoon on the TV show (May 2, 2008). |
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OsunAmazon
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You ought ask someone who invents 'COUGARS'. I assumed that you have been watch DR. PHIL talk show about 'COUGARS' yesterday afternoon on the TV show (May 2, 2008). I don't know why society gave a funny name 'COUGARS'. My former pastor called me 'CRADLE THE ROBBER', that I never understood why he called me until I found out later it talked about age difference. (2 yr difference not bad) Rarely watch TV shows, Dr Phil, Oprah, Tyra etc. It's just that it irks me why men that have been doing this all these while turned around to give a "fancy" name to a women that followed their footsteps. Your pastor's remark on you may not go down well with some people especially this chic here. I don't care what he is. Imagine? Cradle The Robber? What is he? Cradle The tyre? |
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OsunAmazon
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What do you mean by this " Why is life and society so unfair to women?", how so Yea, when women are reffered to as Cradle the rubber, cougar, old hen etc but men remain playas etc. I wish the world will adopt your "aristo" baptism and keep calling them that. Again, I used to think that 'aristo' means extra horny sugar daddy? I don't think it's a befitting name for men that prey on younger women. Why not a name like 'He-Swine'? |
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tRoOE (f)
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LOl, when I heard the rumor I got goosebumps, and threw up in my mouth a little.
I don't think its true anyway because I think he's still married and Dwayne Wade and Star Jones don't even sound right in the same sentence.
Sound right ke, ewwwwwww it's just plain wrong. She looks like his grandmother .Dwayne Wade and his wife are separated for now.
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motun_rayo (f)
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Lmao, the fact that she's like 200 years old is not the worse of it but all the not so fab flab she has all over.
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motun_rayo (f)
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achinu
I'm lovng your profile pic. . . lol
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uspry1 (f)
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Rarely watch TV shows, Dr Phil, Oprah, Tyra etc. It's just that it irks me why men that have been doing this all these while turned around to give a "fancy" name to a women that followed their footsteps. Your pastor's remark on you may not go down well with some people especially this chic here. I don't care what he is. Imagine? Cradle The Robber? What is he? Cradle The tyre? Lol referring to my pastor's remark!!! Yeah, I don't care what my former pastor think! Too harsh to criticize among too many single/divorced women with children at my former church. I rarely watch the TV show, yesterday i was channel-changing the word "COUGARS" caught me attention to find out what it is. New word to me!!! Those talk shows such as Dr Phil, Oprah, Tyra are not my FANS!!! |
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tRoOE (f)
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@OsunAmazon
lmfao I see you are trying to play the gender role, but my dear you know the deal, that is how the world works, we can shout, fight, argue but men will always have power, but that doesn't mean it's the "Men’s world"
@motun_rayo
You better pray for forgiveness tonight, you are mean but that comment was funny.
I wonder what down there looks like ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww 
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motun_rayo (f)
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UUURRRGGGGHHHH! OMGoodness! God shall forgive you for putting that thought in my head,
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tRoOE (f)
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ahahaha Amen oh since we both need that pray
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motun_rayo (f)
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AMEN ooooooo,
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tRoOE (f)
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ahahah I still can't get the image off my head
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OsunAmazon
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Lol referring to my pastor's remark!!! Yeah, I don't care what my former pastor think! Too harsh to criticize among too many single/divorced women with children at my former church. I see the overflow of wdivorced women with children strictly as mens fault. They are fewer than us in this world but they surely have a way of controlling our minds and making us feel that we are surplus which is not necessarily true. That's why most divorced women suffer from low self esteem and i think it shouldnt be that way. The pastor should be more interested in encouraging those women to go through life than calling them names. He's lucky I'm not in his church. |
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OsunAmazon
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ahahah I still can't get the image off my head Drink hennessey and the image will clear off. |
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motun_rayo (f)
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ahahah I still can't get the image off my head
Me neitheeer, I'm definately going to have nightmares tonight |
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