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Omolola1
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I have this very good friend of mine, we've been best of friends since our childhood days, besides that we are very close. As good friends, i thought that we should not hide things from each other, so i introduced her to my boyfriend ( a very terrible mistake). After some time, I noticed that my boyfriend's attitude changed towards me, he no longer called me, it even got to a stage that he snubbed me. I summoned up courage and asked him what was wrong, he then told me that he doesn't love me anymore, he wanted us to end the relationship, when i asked him why? His reply was that he was in love with my BEST FRIEND! I was devastated, i was shattered, but there was nothing i could do, he had made his choice. It was very painful. When i confronted her, she said i should take heart, that it was one of those things in life, she wasn't even remorse. I left them to God. This happened about six months ago. Now, he is back asking for my forgiveness. Tell me people, does he deserve to be forgiven after everything he has done to me.
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dominique (f)
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just like another nlooywoood movie.
@topic
just forgive and move on
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victor4u (m)
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@ topic Leave him and move on wit your life. he is not worth it. if u accept him back, he wil repeat d same thing, makin u look like a fool. Cheers  |
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Ceeno E vu
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Yes he absolutely deserves your forgiveness. But don't go beyond that. Like Dominique said, "forgive and move on".
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D-reloaded (f)
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You can forgive if you want, just don't allow him back in your life.
and what if he meets another female friend of yours or even family member sef? Means he has a wondering eye and lacks loyalty. Abeg move on.
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tngtech (m)
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keep asking us what you want to do.
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Encomium (m)
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Yes ofcourse!, you should forgive him and forget the whole thing and move ahead with your life. You should go on break and never you attempt going back into the relationship as for now so as not to be a playing toy in his hand.
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HR.hotness (f)
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Whatever you do be at peace with yourself anger is like a disease, it hurts you more than the person you're angry with and eats at u from d inside If u can forgive, that will be great If you can't, its no problem, u're only human, as long as u don't let the anger eat at u,,,  |
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OgaMadam (f)
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Get him tested 4 HIV before u take him back.
I mean what has he brought back?
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OgaMadam (f)
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And just for the record i wouldnt take him back anyways. Once a cheat.
One day it will be a young beautiful girl to lure him. not good.
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ololade34 (f)
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He's back asking for forgiveness after 6 month!!! what a joke. It probably did not work out with your best friend and that's why he's back, it certainly can't be his conscience otherwise it wouldn't have taken up to 6 month. About forgiving him over what happen, that makes sense as it won't in the end make you a bitter person, but taking him back is another question entirely only you omolola can answer that, different advice would apply here, for worth is worth, you could still be in love with him but if it were to be me, i won't be on speaking terms with the guy let alone take him back, thanks goodness you guy aren't married, who is to say such won't repeat itself in future.
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