Lesson Of The Week, Are You A Powerful Loner

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After mentioning the term "powerful loner" in my last
article, I've been asked to define what the term means.

A "Powerful Loner" is a term I use in my Smart Dating
Course (which you should really get if you haven't do so yet).

Basically, it refers to a guy who thinks he's "picky"
about the woman he likes and that he's above the conventional
practices of dating, when deep inside he's just feeling
insecure.

Here are some symptoms of a powerful loner.

1) He thinks he's "different" than others.

2) He doesn't talk until he's talked to.

3) He would rather pretend to not like someone than
to be open about it.

4) He uses his "pickiness" as an excuse.

5) He thinks the "right girl" will see through
the asexual mask he has put up and fall in love
with him.

But guess why the "Powerful Loner" acts this way?

Because he has built such a thick wall around
himself over the years that he's "stuck" with that image.
He's too wimpy to handle rejection, and hence he doesn't
ever show his feelings. He never talks unless he's talked
to, because if he starts a conversation with a girl, it
may show his friends that he's not so "powerful" afterall.
In short, the "Powerful Loner" is constantly acting so
that he can be consistent with his "image", when he's
really all bent-up and desperate for love or social contact
inside.

So are you a powerful loner? I know many of us are, better get rid of it