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blaquie
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My family and i are almost breaking up Co's of my wife's attitude,they have stopped coming to my house and my wife is showing no concern about it,am loosing my mind Please my dear nairaland members, What do i do?
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4 Him (m)
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she's your wife, talk to her.
Sometimes as a husband you need to put your foot down on some issues.
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Ziggy_mama
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What is she? The Breadwinner of d family? Call her to order joo, 'You R D MAN'  ain't u? sit her down and let her kno about qualities of d virtuous woman in-case she has 4gotten. . . . this is family you're talkin about ,don't let no woman break that bond ever!! . . .how hard r yr family on her anyway b'cus wit som family,u jus can't tel. . .they can mak life miserable for one  but however a good wife is s'pose to try n mend things not worsen situation, Talk to yr wife man You R D MAN!! Period. Discuss things wit yr family too  |
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lucabrasi (m)
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im sorry to say this but thats why its always advocated to have a long courtship and marriage counselling(note marriage and not wedding counselling)its for better for worse and so u have to stick with her,talk to her and have a whole lot of patience,and pray she ll see the light and change for the better
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D-reloaded (f)
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some people really shouldnt marry.
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Outstrip
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What exactly is going on. We cannot just say call her to order etc. That makes no sense. There is definitely more going on and it will be very wrong for anyone to say call her to order when very possibly you should be calling your family to order. Just my opinion. Based on what you wrote, I cannot say that your wife is the aggressor.
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SeanT21 (f)
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My family and i are almost breaking up Co's of my wife's attitude,they have stopped coming to my house and my wife is showing no concern about it,am loosing my mind Please my dear nairaland members, What do i do?
first and foremost, did your family do anything to your wife for her to act like that. <![CDATA[<a href="http://For every action, there is a possitive or equal reaction." target="_blank">http://For every action, there is a possitive or equal reaction.</a>]]> |
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SeanT21 (f)
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for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.
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D-reloaded (f)
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first and foremost, did your family do anything to your wife for her to act like that.
Exactly. Is she crazy that she decided to 'act up" for no reason |
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mamaput (f)
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or are you telling us you married a mad woman. some family really like to tafiea
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elizabetta (f)
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You are the man of the house try and know from her the reasons why she is behaving like that.you may find out something new.
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iromba
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You have not told us what the problem is, tell us what went wrong and we will be able to advice you.
Open up please.
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ig_gab (m)
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:'(guy u suck, bringing your marital shit online.  bro go clean your ass |
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bunmii (f)
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:'(guy u suck, bringing your marital shit online. bro go clean your ass sharrap dere this is an advice forum if u don't have anything good to say then get lost @ poster give us the whole story, something is amiss but as everyone else is saying talk some sense to her don't let her make you choose between her & your family |
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coolier (f)
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My family and i are almost breaking up Co's of my wife's attitude,they have stopped coming to my house and my wife is showing no concern about it,am loosing my mind Please my dear nairaland members, What do i do?
What attitudes? |
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Abuja1 (m)
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@poster, take it easy with her, try and understand if she has a mentor,because my women allways listen to the mother or there friend, believin that when your family are far from u that is when they will bring out the other side of then, i mean try to be in control, if you are the quite type.so open your eye
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