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Oscar J (m)
She Is 29, I Am 30+
« on: May 05, 2008, 04:40 PM »

Hi wise ones:

I need your candid opinion guys. i ve been thinking seriously of how to present this to u all for dayz now, i am of the opinion that two GOOD heads are better that one.

I ve a GF she just clocked 29 2wks ago, a lawyer by profession. i am going to 31, an investment analyst.

Now the challenge i ve is this: we ve been dating for close to one year +, we love each oda n we do things 2geda most times we r 2geda but we ve not had sex, not because she doesnt want to but because i am not sure i want to disvirgin her, y because i am not sure if i would want to end up with her. she is always eager to have sex with me just like i want too, being the first one she would ever experience in life but i keep refusing her and this makes her sometimes feel bad and quarell with me at times which i don't like to see her in such condition ( vowed to always make her happy) all i do is kiss her real good which she commends me for and named me GOOD KISSER. My girl is beautiful, good body posture, clean & smells nice, flat tummy, Normal size hips level n well structured ass, not to tall nor too short. (small size boobs, i LIKE IT DAT).

i don't want a situation whereby we get down, her pride is gone and we don't end up settling down together, wont it look like i jilted her or something (lied, etc)

i have not spoken to her on this either n i don't intend too.

I need your help people, what do i do?
PL+C
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #1 on: May 05, 2008, 04:49 PM »

Quote from: Oscar J on May 05, 2008, 04:40 PM
Hi wise ones:

I need your candid opinion guys. i ve been thinking seriously of how to present this to u all for dayz now, i am of the opinion that two GOOD heads are better that one.

I ve a GF she just clocked 29 2wks ago, a lawyer by profession. i am going to 31, an investment analyst.

Now the challenge i ve is this: we ve been dating for close to one year +, we love each oda n we do things 2geda most times we r 2geda but we ve not had sex, not because she doesnt want to but because i am not sure i want to disvirgin her, y because i am not sure if i would want to end up with her. she is always eager to have sex with me just like i want too, being the first one she would ever experience in life but i keep refusing her and this makes her sometimes feel bad and quarell with me at times which i don't like to see her in such condition ( vowed to always make her happy) all i do is kiss her real good which she commends me for and named me GOOD KISSER. My girl is beautiful, good body posture, clean & smells nice, flat tummy, Normal size hips level n well structured ass, not to tall nor too short. (small size boobs, i LIKE IT DAT).

i don't want a situation whereby we get down, her pride is gone and we don't end up settling down together, wont it look like i jilted her or something (lied, etc)

i have not spoken to her on this either n i don't intend too.

I need your help people, what do i do?

I can't even get what your problem is.  You want people to help you for what?  Only story you full ground for us.  She is this and that.  My advise for you is:  Fuck the smelling ass well.  That's what she wants and nothing more.  Whether you marry her or not should not bother you.
stillwater (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #2 on: May 05, 2008, 04:54 PM »

 At 29, she probably sees you as a potential husband and you don't sound like you're ready for such. Why don't you inform her of your fears and hear what she has to say about it?
Ezinwannem
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #3 on: May 05, 2008, 04:55 PM »

okay! so you don't think you want to marry her so therefore, you don't want to disvirgin her, dude, she is 29 so beta let her know your plans, if u don't intend marrying her, let her be before its to late as u can see she is 29 already, From what you wrote, she gat it all, pray oooooooo
B/w, the way u discribed her body, I thought it was me, lol only that am not 29, lol
Emperoh (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #4 on: May 05, 2008, 05:08 PM »

You ought to delete the portion where u said u loved this babe
Because if you do, i don't know whats keeping u from marrying her
Or are u saying that at 31 u aren't ready for marriage
Don't make this look like the posting of a tenager

I appreciate the resspect u have for her by keepong away from sexual intercourse with her until u are married
But dude, if u can't marry her or u aren't convinced she's the one for u then give chance for other eligible and ready young men
Who aren't contemplating to try their Luck while u keep procrastinating!!!

Open your eyes???

iice (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #5 on: May 05, 2008, 05:11 PM »

Nice to see relationships where things are not shared Undecided
Tattooboy (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #6 on: May 05, 2008, 05:13 PM »

i wonder o iice, low things stop
tngtech (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #7 on: May 05, 2008, 05:14 PM »

Quote from: Oscar J on May 05, 2008, 04:40 PM
Ibut because i am not sure i want to disvirgin her,

how are u sure she is still a virgin?
Uche2nna (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #8 on: May 05, 2008, 05:15 PM »

Quote from: tngtech on May 05, 2008, 05:14 PM
how are u sure she is still a virgin?

Word of mouth
NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #9 on: May 05, 2008, 05:16 PM »

Quote from: tngtech on May 05, 2008, 05:14 PM
how are u sure she is still a virgin?

he must have rolled an egg and it got stuck Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
tngtech (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #10 on: May 05, 2008, 05:18 PM »

Quote from: NaJa HaJe on May 05, 2008, 05:16 PM
he must have rolled an egg and it got stuck Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

on thats it?
NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #11 on: May 05, 2008, 05:21 PM »

Quote from: tngtech on May 05, 2008, 05:18 PM
on thats it?

do you mean 'OH that is it?
iou111
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #12 on: May 05, 2008, 05:24 PM »

u love the girl yet u're not sure she's the one mmhhh! u probably don't know what love is or maybe there's another chikata (tell us the truth)
newaiz quit screwing with the girls head and let her no wats up.

tngtech (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #13 on: May 05, 2008, 05:24 PM »

yea thats what i mean
D-reloaded (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #14 on: May 05, 2008, 06:22 PM »

Quote from: Oscar J on May 05, 2008, 04:40 PM
i don't want a situation whereby we get down, her pride is gone and we don't end up settling down together, wont it look like i jilted her or something (lied, etc)

I at least commend you for this, most guys don't care because they are mere bastards

Now the question is, why don't you see yourself settling down with her?
bawomolo (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #15 on: May 05, 2008, 06:26 PM »

Quote
(small size boobs, i LIKE IT DAT).

blasphemy, just give her what she wants u good samaritan
izeek (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #16 on: May 05, 2008, 06:37 PM »

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

just can't stop l;affing
Scopium (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #17 on: May 05, 2008, 06:45 PM »

She's not a magician you gotta tell her your feelings/fears so that you guys can sort everything out. You may be surprised at her response.
frank 3.16 (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #18 on: May 05, 2008, 07:01 PM »

you don't want to sleep with her, you don't want to marry her, you don't want to hurt her, you don't want to hurt her pride, she is beautiful, you like her small tits blah blah blah blah balh

WAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING WITH HER!!!
WHY DO YOU KISS HER!!!!
INFACT WHY HAVE YOU DATED HER FOR MORE THAN A YEAR!!!

i am just sick of your hipocritic life. stop trying to sound good.

and she is somewhere saying: i LOVE him, he is such a good kisser, he will marry me.

At 29? you are a devil

and i know you could be one of these guys who preach the perfectness of love. JJUSR TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT FROM HER
why now, why now.

prince_onx
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #19 on: May 05, 2008, 07:03 PM »

Una dey try Oh! me I been no know watin be the guy problem! whether na their occupation abi na the age or the girl sharp or say she say she never do!
All the same, I'll label them two confused people. At 29, she no know whether na the guy she want or nice f**king! The guy too at 31 still no know watin him want! my guy I bet you that girl no fine as you describe! but if I lie, you need to go see your doctor! something dey wrong with you! and if I hear you say Vir? not to add Gin just because she say so, I go tear you real slap!
D-reloaded (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #20 on: May 05, 2008, 07:06 PM »

Quote from: frank 3.16 on May 05, 2008, 07:01 PM
you don't want to sleep with her, you don't want to marry her, you don't want to hurt her, you don't want to hurt her pride, she is beautiful, you like her small tits blah blah blah blah balh

WAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING WITH HER!!!
WHY DO YOU KISS HER!!!!
INFACT WHY HAVE YOU DATED HER FOR MORE THAN A YEAR!!!

i am just sick of your hipocritic life. stop trying to sound good.

and she is somewhere saying: i LOVE him, he is such a good kisser, he will marry me.

At 29? you are a devil

and i know you could be one of these guys who preach the perfectness of love. JJUSR TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT FROM HER
why now, why now.

Lmao. abi o

all they do is string people along. Omolomo is probably going around calling herself "Mrs so and so" already.
Ezinwannem
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #21 on: May 05, 2008, 07:09 PM »

lol, really confused
as i said earlier, da way u described da girl sounds like me except am not 29, lol,
LASIEFAIRE (m)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #22 on: May 05, 2008, 07:12 PM »

Quote from: bawomolo on May 05, 2008, 06:26 PM
blasphemy, just give her what she wants u good samaritan


 Cheesy Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin lmao omfg hahahahaha
Busta (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #23 on: May 05, 2008, 07:12 PM »

perfect example of why some men don't know what they want.

@poster,
u have finished describing her with no fault and almost too perfect.

she's a lawyer, pretty, not too tall or short, small sized boobies which u like, and a virgin?

what else do f**king want??
Ezinwannem
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #24 on: May 05, 2008, 07:18 PM »

lol@Busta,
shez old now, 29 chei, when he can get excately da same thing but younger, lol
Busta (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #25 on: May 05, 2008, 07:19 PM »

Quote from: Ezinwannem on May 05, 2008, 07:18 PM
lol@Busta,
shez old now, 29 chei, when he can get excately da same thing but younger, lol

lol . . .are u trynna give him a hint that u're available??  Tongue
D-reloaded (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #26 on: May 05, 2008, 07:21 PM »

Um isnt this thread about the Op's girl anymore Huh
Ezinwannem
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #27 on: May 05, 2008, 07:25 PM »

@busta, am a married lady, lol, besides, confused and focused person doesnt match
Busta (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #28 on: May 05, 2008, 07:26 PM »

Quote from: Ezinwannem on May 05, 2008, 07:25 PM
@busta, am a married lady, lol, besides, confused and focused person doesnt match

ok . . I believe u.
nice pics by the way.
LadyT (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #29 on: May 05, 2008, 07:27 PM »

Yes nice pictures but why are they posted here?
Is this the girlfriend?
Sorry I'm confused
D-reloaded (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #30 on: May 05, 2008, 07:28 PM »

Quote from: LadyT on May 05, 2008, 07:27 PM
Yes nice pictures but why are they posted here?
Is this the girlfriend?

I wish I knew

anyway hello dear  Smiley
Busta (f)
Re: She Is 29, I Am 30+
« #31 on: May 05, 2008, 07:29 PM »

D-R and Lady-T,

eyin temi. . . how una dey?
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