As A Self Educated Young Nigerian/british Woman How Much Shit Do I Have To Take

stop dating egotistical lazy morons? 

Never heard 'as a Nigerian man" in my life. I'd most likely laugh in his face

hey girl,
what you are complaining about is not just a nigerian man thing.
Most men are just blinded by their ego, Know what you can take in a relationship, spell it out to this man, let him know you are not his MAID, COOK or CLEANER, w whatever you do at home is becaue you love to not out of a sense of duty or LOVE,
Please let your man know were the boundaries!! arent you flesh and blood?

Good Luck.

i believe u're a nigerian!culture is culture nd if culture states that u should obey his family nd cook 4 him,i see nuttin wrong wit that._{*that does nt make u a moron.i mean a push around.}

' jenny i do see reasons with u fortunately am not married and i doubt if i ever would be
but i do like my nigerian men

bla bla bla. This kind of threads send you to sleep to be honest. Dating a Nigerian man is not compulsory. Look for British men please.

yea,then if u like d nigerian men, have no choice but to obey d culture ,where a woman has to cook,live in peace  wt  d husbands people,clean d house

mind u,u don't have to control your temper,because i call it pretense when one is angry and can't tell whoever that is responsible for that anger,that you're angry

2ndly u have an opinion,nobody will tell u not to have an opinion over something

viva u make it sound as if marrying a nigerian man is like living in bondage

that is xactly my point.even in europe here,u still ve to clean da house,cook nd make his family kool wit u.its nt only a cultural tin bt an individual
responsibility

VIVA don't jump on me but is this the same guy you have group sex with?

Does he push for this or is it a joint decision?

I can't see any guy who allows you to enjoy this kind of activity being an egotistical maniac.

 

Touchy touchy!!!

too much information, no one asked . . . no one is bothered.

 thank u las maybe what i should have said is above reasonable demands for all the items i listed
yes touchy touchy "i am alowed to be touchy if i feel so"

to whom it may concern the comment was not directed at u so piss off

Babes, u will take every shit that comes your way especially when your spouse has the same qualities or more. . . .

Blimey. . . . .what has being British, self-educated, young or whatever has to do with this. . . . .
If u are hoping to go to Nigeria to choose a dude, then expect your toes to be kissed and your spouse to wash your undies.
However, if u are hoping to date a Brit/Nigerian in the UK. . . . .You are just anutha chic around the corner.
There are 66 million Brit citizens in the UK and about 2.2 Brit Nigerian gals that are singleso what makes u special. . .

Expect to cook, wash, pound yam in a mortar. . . . . I will even make u grind pepper on a stone and balance a tray on your head to test your Nigerianity.
Take care of the kids with the anticipation of remaining a full house wife and putting your certificates in the bin.
Whats more? Be submissive, respectful and act like a proper well brought up Nigerian woman.
It means kneeling down when u meet me parents and elders of the family. . .

If u can't live with that. . . . .go to the ABBEY.   Better still, marry a white DUDE.

has any heard about reading between the lines
yes your house will be clean but there will be times when its untidy or u just can't be borthered because u are fliping tired

why the Abbey?