Nigerians Marrying Nigerians Raised In The Us

Miss poster,

^{Culturally- yes- compatibility no}. Maybe I did  not understand what you meant by this assertion. I had used that relationship 101 rules that say you must be compatible in order to be friends. Ma bad i misread your statement.

 I was not  talking about you when I said about sharing fiances, but was referring to Naija men who brought their wives over to US. I hope you are also not looking for like minded views because such platforms don't exist here. Maybe in RNC or DNC.

Good luck with your man.

@ poster  First of all CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Now there is nothing new perhaps it may be to u about this cultural thing i believe if u guys really love each other and understand each other there is always a way to settle such issue infact its not an issue to be worried about really unless he is been different or thinks different about the issue in picture.
The only problem I think you will have in future which I don't pray to happen to u is your children, they will be confused about where there from if they are white or simply nigerian I guess that where u come in later,

Yes my 'claims' are true. if not, we would not be married and going on our 4th year right? It is all about upbringing. It can be done and I tell you if you would have met me 5 years ago, you prob would have married me ,  ;)Anyway if you read through the forum, you would know that I made this forum to see were it would go, for my cultural diversity class I am taking,  Your input is valued 


Thank you for your well wishes!!!
This is true because of American society. It happened to me in high school. I wanted to fit in so bad and I was ALWAYS in the middle. No complaints just saying that since I have been there, I will know how to talk to my children and what to tell them if certain situations were to come up that 'daddy" may not understand. Its all about compromise,  I know 

Thank you guys for your input. It has worked well for my project. I did very well presenting this and I thank you all for your honesty.