"i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome

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PRYNXLEX (m)
"i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« on: May 07, 2008, 04:09 PM »

I HAVE ALWAYS WONDERED WHY CHICKS, AFTER THEY HAVE BEEN ASKED OUT WILL ALWAYS SAY "I WILL THINK ABOUT IT"
I HAVE HAD DIFFERENT CHICKS OPINIONS BUT LET ME HEAR THAT OF THE LANDERS. HIT ME
welli (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #1 on: May 07, 2008, 04:11 PM »

some babes use it while others dnt.for me,NO.i ve other ways to keep a guy waitin other dan I WILL THINK ABOUT IT.
PRYNXLEX (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #2 on: May 07, 2008, 04:17 PM »

@ WELLI


I BEG TELL ME MORE. WHAT IS UR TECHNIQUE.
Busta (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #3 on: May 07, 2008, 04:18 PM »

Happens alot when it comes to Kids asking Kids out!!

the girls u dealing are prolly kids thats why.
iice (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #4 on: May 07, 2008, 04:21 PM »

LMAO Busta
Or more like confuzzled beings Grin Grin
Yes they will say i'l think about it because most likely, they want you as a back up or something. . .
PRYNXLEX (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #5 on: May 07, 2008, 04:22 PM »

@ BUSTA You CHASED ME HERE. WETIN I DO YOU NA.


I REMEMBER ONCE. A KID IN MY NEIGHBORHOOD  USED THE WORD "PROLLY" INSTEAD OF PROBABLY. WAS THAT YOU ?
PRYNXLEX (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #6 on: May 07, 2008, 04:24 PM »

iice you be better chick jo. thanks for that
ayeesha (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #7 on: May 07, 2008, 04:35 PM »

never ceases to amaze me. had this neighbour who was asked out by a guy in the neighbourhood. as a typical naija babe, she decided to pose a little and told the guy she would think about it. unfortunately for her, the guy was a no nonsense fellow and assumed she was probably not interested. he met another girl who knew what she wanted and promptly agreed. today they are happily married and the other girl that was thinking about it is still lamenting that the other lady snatched the guy from her.
tngtech (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #8 on: May 07, 2008, 04:37 PM »

they will think about it, it what they are going to say.
PRYNXLEX (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #9 on: May 07, 2008, 04:39 PM »

@ AYEESHA.

YA TOO BAD FOR THAT CHICK SHA. I WISH OTHER CHICKS COULD LEARN FROM THIS STORY. BUT MY QUESTION IS WHY?
Ezinwannem
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #10 on: May 07, 2008, 05:00 PM »

it depends o, if u meet someone 2day and 2morrow u ask her out, abeg, da girl gat da right 2 think about it which means she wants 2 know u more, lol, but when she says YES as u might want to hear, den u gat something she wants like Money, lol, lol, den if it is NO, da girl just aint feelings u 4rom your looks, da way u talk etc,

so most times, "I will think about it" is better, lol
Busta (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #11 on: May 07, 2008, 05:09 PM »

Quote from: PRYNXLEX on May 07, 2008, 04:22 PM
@ BUSTA You CHASED ME HERE. WETIN I DO YOU NA.


I REMEMBER ONCE. A KID IN MY NEIGHBORHOOD USED THE WORD [b]"PROLLY" INSTEAD OF PROBABLY. WAS THAT YOU ?[/b]

I reject that your neighbourhood in JESUS NAME (AMEN).

Read what u wrote again . . .does that even make sense to u? I assume u went to school and not school going through u.
Ezinwannem
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #12 on: May 07, 2008, 05:33 PM »

lol@Busta, what they called what u just described is "Educated Illitrate", lol
adeboo (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #13 on: May 07, 2008, 05:35 PM »

But sometimes, there are issues that the girl needs to think about.
She needs to weigh her options etc.
ariblaze (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #14 on: May 07, 2008, 11:16 PM »

Quote from: ayeesha on May 07, 2008, 04:35 PM
never ceases to amaze me. had this neighbour who was asked out by a guy in the neighbourhood. as a typical naija babe, she decided to pose a little and told the guy she would think about it. unfortunately for her, the guy was a no nonsense fellow and assumed she was probably not interested. he met another girl who knew what she wanted and promptly agreed. today they are happily married and the other girl that was thinking about it is still lamenting that the other lady snatched the guy from her.



now thats quite a story
JoyceAgim (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #15 on: May 08, 2008, 01:16 AM »

But sometimes, there are issues that the girl needs to think about.
She needs to weigh her options etc.               Thats true,i agree with u.
Cadet (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #16 on: May 08, 2008, 01:20 AM »

Maybe becuz she's thinking about it. "Is he worth it or not?", am I just wasting my night out?"  Undecided
Bizl4Rizl (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #17 on: May 08, 2008, 08:54 PM »

Quote from: ayeesha on May 07, 2008, 04:35 PM
never ceases to amaze me. had this neighbour who was asked out by a guy in the neighbourhood. as a typical naija babe, she decided to pose a little and told the guy she would think about it. unfortunately for her, the guy was a no nonsense fellow and assumed she was probably not interested. he met another girl who knew what she wanted and promptly agreed. today they are happily married and the other girl that was thinking about it is still lamenting that the other lady snatched the guy from her.

I have a principle - I never ask out a girl twice! Now what I have noticed about Naija girls is that you ask them out and they say, "I will think about it. . ." then when they have thot about it they give you hints for you to ask them again before saying YES! What BULL!

Of course, I wont ask out a girl on my 2nd date with her but after a lot of weighing and studying, I make my move and when I do, I give u an appropriate amount of time (usually 2 weeks) and if no response I MOVE!

This doesnt mean I end the friendship or stop talking or relating with her but I move from being romantic or having feelings to just being PLATONIC! Thats just me! (OF course there are always exceptions to every rule!)  Grin
OMO IBO (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #18 on: May 08, 2008, 09:39 PM »

Quote from: PRYNXLEX on May 07, 2008, 04:22 PM
@ BUSTA You CHASED ME HERE. WETIN I DO YOU NA.


I REMEMBER ONCE. A KID IN MY NEIGHBORHOOD  USED THE WORD "PROLLY" INSTEAD OF PROBABLY. WAS THAT YOU ?

hhhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. ROTMFFLMFAO aswerigad!
OMO IBO (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #19 on: May 08, 2008, 09:42 PM »

there's a big chance u ladies used that phrase if any of u  lived or grew up in naija.
StanP (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #20 on: May 09, 2008, 06:40 PM »

LMAO
I remembered back den, after asking a girl out and the razmatazz that follows, when she finally says yes, I always ask mysef what would i say next, tinking about it now ,it is just too funny.
@ thread
Some Girls use that line to show d guy that they are not cheap, to them "You can't ask me out and xpect me to just say YES".
I wish u cud see them after that Yarn, d way they will snore away at night(when they should pobably be tinking about it), only to open their wide mouth d next time to say "After much tot i decided to give u a chance.
Any girl that tells me "I will think about you", i just conclude within me that she is mine already.If not, what is there to think about , a NO is a NO and YES is YES, perhaps sayn "let's get to know each oda beta is a beta reply.
onyeka_ng (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #21 on: May 10, 2008, 01:54 PM »

@ busta
i concur joo,it only happens when kids ask kids out
michelin89 (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #22 on: May 10, 2008, 02:23 PM »

I use it when I have no intention of dating the guy!

While they wait, I can meet someone else and date him instead!
HR.hotness (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #23 on: May 10, 2008, 02:53 PM »

Quote from: OMO IBO on May 08, 2008, 09:42 PM
there's a big chance u ladies used that phrase if any of u lived or grew up in naija.

Grew up in Nigeria, never did!
I cld always tell if i'd date a guy in the 1st few minutes of meeting him, so chances her by the time he asks me, theres an answer ready and waiting. I'm really very impatient and like to get straight to the point  Grin

my cousin used to use the line tho, her excuse was she didnt want to tie herself down in case some better comes along and at the same time leave that option open,,,  Undecided never did get that tho, if u knw what u want, why settle for less?  Huh
ibkaye (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #24 on: May 10, 2008, 03:08 PM »

@Poster
maybe they actually do need to 'think about it' Grin
Tattooboy (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #25 on: May 10, 2008, 03:14 PM »

Quote
ibkaye 
@Poster
maybe they actually do need to 'think about it' 

u didn't think about it when that Kanonese proposed to u Huh

@poster
u're a dullard, come and let me show how its meant to be
ibkaye (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #26 on: May 10, 2008, 03:17 PM »

Quote from: Tattooboy on May 10, 2008, 03:14 PM

u didn't think about it when that Kanonese proposed to u Huh
when did that happen? Tongue
NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #27 on: May 10, 2008, 03:18 PM »

@Topic

Does that still happen?
Cadet (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #28 on: May 10, 2008, 03:32 PM »

Quote from: NaJa HaJe on May 10, 2008, 03:18 PM
@Topic

Does that still happen?
Of course na, when the world is free of wowo men
RichyBlacK (m)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #29 on: May 10, 2008, 04:05 PM »

As far as I'm concerned, the phrase simply means "I'm incapable of making that decision now". It depends on the "level" of the babe. If she's anywhere from 8.5 and above, I will definitely ask again. But from 6.5 and below? She's just fooling her self.
HR.hotness (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #30 on: May 10, 2008, 04:08 PM »

Quote from: RichyBlacK on May 10, 2008, 04:05 PM
As far as I'm concerned, the phrase simply means "I'm incapable of making that decision now". It depends on the "level" of the babe. If she's anywhere from 8.5 and above, I will definitely ask again. But from 6.5 and below? She's just fooling her self.

And what scales do u use for your measurements
Ujujoan (f)
Re: "i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome
« #31 on: May 10, 2008, 04:30 PM »

I'll think about if means you just dint impress me enough this time. Try taking me to a hotter joint or buying a more expensive gift,  Then you'll see I can be pretty fast in making decisions Grin Just kidding!!

Anyway, I'll think about it cud mean three things:
1. I'm just not intrested and I don't want to sound rude by saying it.
2. The girls's playing hard to get.
3. She really WANTS to THINK about it,  C'mon whats so wrong about that. Its better to look before you leap!!!!
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