"i Will Think About It" The Nigerian Female Syndrome

For guys, the scale is simple:
1. Okay guy
2. Good looking guy
3. Gay guy

 

u really like fine men right??  _{just thinking out loud}

Let me assume you meant "and for girls??"

Well, for babes, it's the standard 1-10 scale. 1 is  , 10 is Angel Melaku  .

lol! Seriously, it just doesn't happen. Equal points? Unless both were non-identical twins.
As for your bro, it simply means one appeals more to him than the other.

how could you be asking for criteria? You make it sound like criteria is gender specific. Or maybe its just me?
For me sha (take it with some humor):

X - My Ideal mindset (everyone has this)
*not in order of preference*
1. Confidence
2. Personality
3  Fashion Sense (I was baptized into this late, so this is very important 4 me)
4  Status
5  Ethics/virtue
6 Moolah (this is reflected by 1,2,3 and 4)

Final Score= total scores from 1-6 + (does she tally with X? yes='+1', no='-1')

_{and to think that all this is done in the head and eyes alone! Women una dey try!}

@poster/topic:

Been there, seen that. Now i look back and ask myself "why in the world would i be asking an indecisive chick out?" well, that explains no1 on my list above 

If only Naija babes can be real for a second. Tell a guy exactly how you feel. It's not a crime to tell a guy "i'm not interested"! But some of them will keep leading the guy on, because they want attention. VERY SAD.

What a lot of losers don't realize is that by saying "thinking" she meant that let me see how "deep" your pocket is.

Thats an intersting concept and no i don't mean criteria is gender specific,,, it just that for me its basic he either fits in with my ideal or he doesnt,,, i don't think women go around grouping men in scales,,, at least i don't.

i guess alot of mathematics goes into picking a woman 
someone should come up with a standard formulae or sumthin

My anger isn't with thinking bout it. It is with having to be reminded "if you have thought about it"! You make your proposition to the chic, she says she will think about it, that you should give her two week. At the expiration of two weeks, you ask and the chic says: "O, am so sorry do you know I forgot about it".

Naturally, you take that as a 'No'. But just as you are thinking of settling with another partner. She starts disturbing and accusing you of neglecting her and never really caring for her in the first place.

Bottom line, Yes o. Pose. Take your time think about it. If u like humiliate me, by pretending to forget about it. Like it is not important and you are not interested, etc. In truth, I think someone will love you more if the person feels you love him too.

So when shy away from showing affection to a loved one. Except when he becomes rich and successful.

Babes are fraud.

HR.hotness,

Okay, let me break it down for you _{as a connoisseur of beautiful women}:
This is restricted to the physical. There are ten things guys use to assess a woman's prettiness:

1. Face/head: Every guy loves a pretty Jessica Alba-esque kind of face. The neck-length to head-length (vertical) ratio; facial structure:- facial symmetry, lips (width)-nose ratio (the close it is to one, the better), eyes, eye lids, eye-brow, eye-lashes, dentition, hair style, etc.
2. Boobs: No particular size is best, depends on the size of the woman; there has never been a guy born of a woman who never liked some boobs. Popular shapes are: the avocado, the pawpaw, and the orange.
3. Ass: Massive well proportioned ass, has been known to cure all manner of ailments, including cancer and heart disease. The shape of the ass is what really counts. The gold standard is still the apple-butt.
4. Height: Doesn't count for much. Anywhere from 4'10" to 6'8" is fine.
5. Build: slim, athletic, average, a bit plump, big; all is game - depends on the guy
6. Bust-Waist-Hip ratio: Very important index; the closer she is to the hour-glass shape, the higher her points
7. Legs: This makes guys to look twice. Smooth legs reign.
8. Manner of walking: This is highly subjective, but also counts
9. Manner of talking and voice: This creates an impression
10. Dressing: The fewer the clothes she has on, the higher the score!

Score each on a 10-point scale and find the average. Guys shoot for 7 and above. Any babe below 5 should consider a serious make over.

@topic
watever

Oscar you no go kill me with laughter!

Kai! At the end of the day all the "shakara" had gone out the window, and of course, the guy is gone and she's like "why did you break my heart?"

and then you hear things like "Why are all men like, "

back to square one!

_{thank God not everyone isn't the same!}

No be only naija girls dey talk am o, believe me.  this happened to a colleague of mine recently, dude drives a real nice car ok, so there was this african american lady driving right behind him, he parked and walked to the building entrance (he was coming from the gym so he looked rough and was sweating, planned to take a shower before work), the lady was imprssed with the car and rushed to see who the bobo was , walked up and told him he got a nice car, the guy decided to ask her for her number, akata babe say, hmmm, 'mabe next time'. cool, my guy went to clean up and started his day.  A few days later, i went out to grab lunch with this guy, this same babe now walks over and says she's ready to give him her number (because i'm sure she was impressed by what she saw again), guess what my friend told him - 'maybe next time'!

I don't see anything wrong with the statement. It's all about analysing the situation (not being indecisive as a poster presumed) before venturing into it, especially when you meet a guy in a day and he automatically wants you be his girlfriend.