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Eniboy
Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« on: May 07, 2008, 06:37 PM »

Am i a diff creature or something? i find it very difficult to fall in love, apparently i ve not fallen in love before, not even for once. i don't know why.

I ask people why and most responses are ''because you ve not found the person you like/love''

Could this be true?

anyone in my shoes presently or before? if before how did you escape from this so called bondage?

Please share so i can learn.

Suggestions n advise, i need as well. Sad
Encomium (m)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #1 on: May 07, 2008, 06:56 PM »

Your problem is that you are an introvert to the core and anytime you crosses the line into extrovert, you will surely fall in love. It is in that state that you will know that you can find love where you least expect.
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #2 on: May 07, 2008, 07:00 PM »

Love and desperation don't mix,

love is more elusive the harder u try
info (m)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #3 on: May 07, 2008, 09:08 PM »

Look at the positive side of LOVE
NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #4 on: May 07, 2008, 09:34 PM »

Quote from: info on May 07, 2008, 09:08 PM
Look at the positive side of LOVE

which is?
Cadet (f)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #5 on: May 07, 2008, 09:38 PM »

Quote from: NaJa HaJe on May 07, 2008, 09:34 PM
which is?
And where is it? So I can take a look too.
NubianQ (f)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #6 on: May 07, 2008, 09:41 PM »

GOOD for you,  u really don't have to because sometimes its not worth it. all long as u are getting your fair share of affection u shld be fine!

people like u should hang out with people like me, 
OMO IBO (m)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #7 on: May 07, 2008, 09:43 PM »

NubianQ i want to hang out with u.
vivaladiva (f)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #8 on: May 07, 2008, 09:44 PM »

there is absolutely nothing wrong with you
i often ask my self, what is the meaning of love?
love has many meanings, just because u don't exhibit the conventional xteristics of love doesnt mean that uve never been in love
u don't have to think about some one constantly to know your in love neither do u have to keep a picture of them under your pillow to know your in love
love is either overated or seriously mis understood
so chill out bro
NubianQ (f)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #9 on: May 07, 2008, 09:45 PM »

OMO IBO,

 yeah we shld hang out,  that would be smashing,  where u @
Uche2nna (m)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #10 on: May 07, 2008, 09:56 PM »

Quote from: Eniboy on May 07, 2008, 06:37 PM
Am i a diff creature or something? i find it very difficult to fall in love, apparently i ve not fallen in love before, not even for once. i don't know why.

I ask people why and most responses are ''because you ve not found the person you like/love''

Could this be true?

anyone in my shoes presently or before? if before how did you escape from this so called bondage?

Please share so i can learn.

Suggestions n advise, i need as well. Sad

One out of 100 actually find true love.

The rest think or pretend they are in love.

So, You are absolutely normal.
info (m)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #11 on: May 07, 2008, 10:02 PM »

Quote from: NaJa HaJe on May 07, 2008, 09:34 PM
which is?

The probability of the S.E.X thing  Grin
donpapa (m)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #12 on: May 07, 2008, 10:53 PM »

Quote from: Eniboy on May 07, 2008, 06:37 PM
Am i a diff creature or something? i find it very difficult to fall in love, apparently i ve not fallen in love before, not even for once. i don't know why.

I ask people why and most responses are ''because you ve not found the person you like/love''

Could this be true?

anyone in my shoes presently or before? if before how did you escape from this so called bondage?
                 
Try 2 let yourself do it, Learn 2 spot d problems. also, learn 2 trust your internal "radar" . . . . . Thru this u can b out of d bondage !
dangermous
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #13 on: May 07, 2008, 10:56 PM »

Guy, you just need to chill man. There is a formula to falling in love.

Just find someone you like, and mouth the words 'I love Mrs. Lagbaja' a minimum 5000 times.

Voila, you are in love
Eniboy
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #14 on: May 08, 2008, 07:48 AM »

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One out of 100 actually find true love.

The rest think or pretend they are in love.

So, You are absolutely normal.

Hum! word bro. thank you.
OMO IBO (m)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #15 on: May 08, 2008, 08:00 AM »

NubianQ im in hertfordshire
Eniboy
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #16 on: May 08, 2008, 09:10 AM »

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One out of 100 actually find true love.

The rest think or pretend they are in love.

So, You are absolutely normal.

Hum! word bro. thank you.
Eniboy
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #17 on: May 08, 2008, 09:14 AM »

NubianQ
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people like u should hang out with people like me, 
[b][/b]

Thanks but i am in nigeria presently.
Easybaby (f)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #18 on: May 08, 2008, 09:31 AM »

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people like u should hang out with people like me, 


you mean hanged with you? Huh Undecided



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NubianQ i want to hang out with u.

lol . . .are you the poster or are you a hanger Undecided Tongue
Ujujoan (f)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #19 on: May 08, 2008, 09:55 AM »

Poster, you've never fallen in love probably because you set high standards for people around you. Love comes naturally and every living being is capable of love. The moment you stop making an effort and stop trying to choose who to love, then you'll fall in love.
Eniboy
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #20 on: May 08, 2008, 11:00 AM »

@ Ujujoan
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you've never fallen in love probably because you set high standards for people around you


I cannot fault this extract Uju.
frank 3.16 (m)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #21 on: May 08, 2008, 02:01 PM »

this is quite normal, espexially if you are rigid and selfish. don't see tis as insult.
but you have to free your mind, reach out to people just as you allow people to reach out to you.

and try to understand what love realy is. to my own opinion, love does not come to you, you go to it. you decide to release your self and form an emotional attachment with some one that suits you. this emotional attachment is most times described as love.
Ujujoan (f)
Re: Help: Am I A Diff Creature Or Something?
« #22 on: May 09, 2008, 06:28 PM »

Quote from: Eniboy on May 08, 2008, 11:00 AM
@ Ujujoan
[b][/b]

I cannot fault this extract Uju.

If you learn to accept people for who they are, your problems will be over. Just see it that people around you are just managing you, because you, like every other person, are not perfect!!
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