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oziomatv (m)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #32 on: May 08, 2008, 05:15 PM »

 
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Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame

   No body to blame.
OsunAmazon
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #33 on: May 08, 2008, 05:20 PM »

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illegal or not, people would still pay for sex.  is circumcision not illegal in nigeria??? again men shouldn't be forced into bondage.

Banning and enforcing prostitution is not forcing men into bondage, it's actually a way of leading them to the right direction through discipline. You are saying this because you rely on those petty women that will always ask for a pity party and seek male attention by every possible means even if it means sucking their dk. Rest assured that taking advantage of women because they have weak emotions is very unmanly and real men don't do that.
bawomolo (m)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #34 on: May 08, 2008, 05:30 PM »

Quote from: OsunAmazon on May 08, 2008, 05:20 PM

Banning and enforcing prostitution is not forcing men into bondage, it's actually a way of leading them to the right direction through discipline. You are saying this because you rely on those petty women that will always ask for a pity party and seek male attention by every possible means even if it means sucking their dk. Rest assured that taking advantage of women because they have weak emotions is very unmanly and real men don't do that.

oh who are u to tell and adult who they should have sex with. by the way, there are married me who still solicit prostitutes. banning it won't stop then.   maybe u should teach responsibility to the women that give it up easily
sheniqua
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #35 on: May 08, 2008, 05:40 PM »

pathetic!!
I've seen 38 and 40 year olds in America bring back 19 and 20 year old brides from home
rather than women in their generation
That is the height of wickedness.
why should a girl marry a man who will treat her like a master.
The relationship is doomed from the get go
tai2
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #36 on: May 08, 2008, 05:45 PM »

Quote from: OsunAmazon on May 08, 2008, 04:49 PM
What is good for the geese should also be good for the gander. If she's good enough to be a mistress, that means, expired men should also be good enough as gigolos.


There are different rules for men than there are for women. Besides there is no such thing as an expired man ( except he's impotent), we don't expire until we die, ask Baba 70, his legend lives on. Wink
sheniqua
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #37 on: May 08, 2008, 05:47 PM »

Quote from: tai2 on May 08, 2008, 05:45 PM


There are different rules for men than there are for women. Besides there is no such thing as an expired man ( except he's impotent), we don't expire until we die, ask Baba 70, his legend lives on. Wink

you must know about Tina turner, Zsa zsa Gabor, Cher, liza minelli and even Liz Taylor
women who are rocking it while in their late sixties and seventies.
OsunAmazon
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #38 on: May 08, 2008, 06:36 PM »

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oh who are u to tell and adult who they should have sex with. by the way, there are married me who still solicit prostitutes. banning it won't stop then.   maybe u should teach responsibility to the women that give it up easily 
 
 

Whatever
OsunAmazon
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #39 on: May 08, 2008, 06:42 PM »

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There are different rules for men than there are for women. Besides there is no such thing as an expired man ( except he's impotent), we don't expire until we die, ask Baba 70, his legend lives on.

God bless viagra.
OsunAmazon
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #40 on: May 08, 2008, 06:43 PM »

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pathetic!!
I've seen 38 and 40 year olds in America bring back 19 and 20 year old brides from home
rather than women in their generation
That is the height of wickedness.
why should a girl marry a man who will treat her like a master.
The relationship is doomed from the get go
 
 

And if a woman tries that they will brand her Dr mrs Cougar.
albridge (m)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #41 on: May 08, 2008, 09:04 PM »

truth be told, there are many reasons why women in that age bracket are seen as expiring. some of those reasons are the fault of the women and some of the reasons are not. i can't blame or do anything about he reasons that are out of our control but we should talk about those that we can do something about.
too many women are busy wasting their lives and time partying, clubbing and waiting for mr. rich and made. the funny thing is that some of the men they overlooked in the name of waiting for mr rich and perfect later became mr. rich and perfect and ended up with some other smarter girl.
my point, ladies shoud come down to earth and stop living in a greedy, fantasy world.
sheniqua
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #42 on: May 09, 2008, 12:30 AM »

Quote from: tai2 on May 08, 2008, 05:45 PM


There are different rules for men than there are for women. Besides there is no such thing as an expired man ( except he's impotent), we don't expire until we die, ask Baba 70, his legend lives on. Wink

And you honestly think the women  that marry old men  do so because they are in love?
Let me break it down to you, hopefully you can handle it.

Those girls are there strictly for the material possessions they get and especially for the inheritance after his death Grin
Infact they can't wait for him to die. Lips sealed
They pray day and night for his demise so they can finally be free Lips sealed

For that coveted will and testament they are ready to endure being with their "grandfathers" (and look at the saggy skin day in day out) even if they have to clench their teeth during  the "horizontal poker"  and pull their hair out from the roots.

Women are brave Grin
Haven't you seen some couples and wondered how the man got such a pretty and attractive wife when he himself looks like an amphibian Shocked Shocked Shocked
It's the power of feminine endurance.
Look around your neighborhood,you'll see many examples.
NubianQ (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #43 on: May 09, 2008, 01:23 AM »

@Poster,

To be honest with you, not all women are the cause of their problems. some relationships string u along and later the person leaves you.

sometimes things happen and people are left to start all over. when i was younger i lived in a fantasy ,  now am older and i realise that life is crazy.

if a woman is over 30 its fine, they will find their husbands or if not life continues

i can emphasize this enough, who wrote the rule book on ages to be married?am going to be thirty in 2years,  am i worried am not married? Hell no!!!

once upon a time i had a good relationship and stayed there for years, i was a good girl and where did it get me? . now i realise its not worth it,  so if i turn 30 or 50 and i am single, i am going Rock it!!!


its not about being picky, its about how things turn out.
4 Him (m)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #44 on: May 09, 2008, 01:25 AM »

NubianQ, it seems u're speaking out of a recent bad relationship experience.
Give it a few more months and u'd start fretting about marrying and settling down early.
spoilt (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #45 on: May 09, 2008, 02:24 AM »

To single women i say enjoy your life. nothing prepares you for the complications marriage brings. I'm telling you. Ive been married 2 years and i feel a hundred years old already.
OsunAmazon
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #46 on: May 09, 2008, 02:46 AM »

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To single women i say enjoy your life. nothing prepares you for the complications marriage brings. I'm telling you. Ive been married 2 years and i feel a hundred years old already. 
 
 

You are probably in a bad marriage.
4 Him (m)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #47 on: May 09, 2008, 02:57 AM »

Quote from: spoilt on May 09, 2008, 02:24 AM
To single women i say enjoy your life. nothing prepares you for the complications marriage brings. I'm telling you. Ive been married 2 years and i feel a hundred years old already.

why?
spoilt (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #48 on: May 09, 2008, 03:01 AM »

why?
because i am exhausted all the time. Its a lot to deal with. I got pregnant 6 months after i got married.  My life completely changed with the addition. I sometimes miss my single years. I was free and carefree. Now my daughter is always crying wah! wah!  Grin Grin
4 Him (m)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #49 on: May 09, 2008, 03:04 AM »

oh ok. normal stress of married life.
No big deal.
Cadet (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #50 on: May 09, 2008, 03:06 AM »

Quote from: spoilt on May 09, 2008, 03:01 AM
why?
because i am exhausted all the time. Its a lot to deal with. I got pregnant 6 months after i got married.  My life completely changed with the addition. I sometimes miss my single years. I was free and carefree. Now my daughter is always crying wah! wah!  Grin Grin
Yea, the thing is, once you have a kid, your life is not yours anymore. It's now mostly about your husband and children. The rest is yours.  Smiley
spoilt (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #51 on: May 09, 2008, 03:08 AM »

Quote from: 4 Him on May 09, 2008, 03:04 AM
oh ok. normal stress of married life.
No big deal.

Thats why i tell everyone whining for marriage to rock on now.  Cool
Cadet (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #52 on: May 09, 2008, 03:08 AM »

Quote from: spoilt on May 09, 2008, 03:08 AM
Thats why i tell everyone whining for marriage to rock on now.  Cool
LOL! Abi o, make we enjoy our freedom  Grin Grin
4 Him (m)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #53 on: May 09, 2008, 03:09 AM »

marriage sounds interesting. so long as i'm not the one carrying the pregnancies.
Cadet (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #54 on: May 09, 2008, 03:10 AM »

Quote from: 4 Him on May 09, 2008, 03:09 AM
marriage sounds interesting. so long as i'm not the one carrying the pregnancies.
Eh en! Good thing some testings are coming out about male pregnancies, beware!
4 Him (m)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #55 on: May 09, 2008, 03:12 AM »

Quote from: Cadet on May 09, 2008, 03:10 AM
Eh en! Good thing some testings are coming out about male pregnancies, beware!

sorry ma'am.  Grin that's something for you to worry about, especially babies that cry wa wa every second.
debosky (m)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #56 on: May 09, 2008, 03:12 AM »

Quote from: spoilt on May 09, 2008, 03:08 AM
Thats why i tell everyone whining for marriage to rock on now.  Cool

yes oh!

sow your wild oats! Soon you shall cultivate one farm and one farm alone!  Undecided Grin
Cadet (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #57 on: May 09, 2008, 03:13 AM »

Quote from: 4 Him on May 09, 2008, 03:12 AM
sorry ma'am.  Grin that's something for you to worry about, especially babies that cry wa wa every second.
You think your wife won't tell you to get the baby when it's crying? In the night?
spoilt (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #58 on: May 09, 2008, 03:13 AM »

@4him
It is interesting tying your soul with another's soul.You should try it.
ive found myself doing strange things in the name of love.  Grin What is unfortunate is how society tries to define women's success by the yardstick of "married or not"?


why you comot the picture?  Grin

@debosky you don come.  i've been cultivating that farmland for 2 years and it is getting more fertile with each cropping season. Cool
sheniqua
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #59 on: May 09, 2008, 03:26 AM »

looks like the tribe has gathered again
spoilt (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #60 on: May 09, 2008, 03:27 AM »

sheniqua na wa for you. i dey follow you talk yesterday all the while i no know say na you. You don run out of ideas abi ?  Grin
sheniqua
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #61 on: May 09, 2008, 03:30 AM »

LOL.
na me o
how's marriage doing you?
spoilt (f)
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #62 on: May 09, 2008, 03:31 AM »

My sister you know how it is.
Kids on your agenda? Hurry before your mother inlaw visits you.  Grin
OsunAmazon
Re: Over 30 Women, Who's To Blame?
« #63 on: May 09, 2008, 09:07 AM »

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once upon a time i had a good relationship and stayed there for years, i was a good girl and where did it get me? . now i realise its not worth it,  so if i turn 30 or 50 and i am single, i am going Rock it!!!
Being a bad girl can get you nowhere either.
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