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vivaladiva (f)
In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« on: May 09, 2008, 12:12 AM »

is honesty ever the best policy? when i and my boyfriend decided to be honest about straying, i found that our sexual relationship became even stronger, rite now we can even talk about the people we would like to f**k while having sex tis brilliant
4 Him (m)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #1 on: May 09, 2008, 12:14 AM »

maybe you shld categorise this thread as part of the "stupid questions" you so often attribute to others.
debosky (m)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #2 on: May 09, 2008, 12:17 AM »

this viva person sounds more and more like Hotfunmi, maybe a little more sexualized, but the underlying tone remains the same.
4 Him (m)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #3 on: May 09, 2008, 12:18 AM »

nah, even hotfunmi wasnt this crass.
Cadet (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #4 on: May 09, 2008, 12:20 AM »

@post
from 4some to constant sex, what more can you think of?  Undecided
info (m)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #5 on: May 09, 2008, 12:22 AM »

Honesty is not the best policy in this situation o  Undecided
Akinagirl (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #6 on: May 09, 2008, 01:56 AM »

If it works in that way and you don't get offended, then so be it Undecided
vivaladiva (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #7 on: May 09, 2008, 07:13 PM »

some times i wonder if nairaland can ever be a place for constructive arguments or discussions
if honesty is not your best policy, there is nothing wrong with admitting it after all  i don't know and don't care to know the person behind the comments so long as its constructive
vivaladiva (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #8 on: May 09, 2008, 07:16 PM »

so what if its from 4some to contant sex ( am not looking for approval)
what works for me might not work for some one else
and yes all i think of is sex sex sex and more sex
dangermous
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #9 on: May 09, 2008, 07:17 PM »

Quote from: vivaladiva on May 09, 2008, 07:16 PM
so what if its from 4some to contant sex ( am not looking for approval)
what works for me might not work for some one else
and yes all i think of is sex sex sex and more sex


then make you holla at me. I go make that your down below overheat.
The Sly
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #10 on: May 09, 2008, 07:19 PM »

Quote from: vivaladiva on May 09, 2008, 07:16 PM
so what if its from 4some to contant sex ( am not looking for approval)
what works for me might not work for some one else
and yes all i think of is sex sex sex and more sex
You seriously need Jesus!
vivaladiva (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #11 on: May 09, 2008, 07:21 PM »

how many men or women here can put up their hands and say they hvent had sex out side of their relationships ( probably no one especially the men)
what is wrong with havin an open ananymous discussion about issues that most people deal with regularly.
when i say most nigerians are narrow minded some assholes think am crazy
yes i am crazy
vivaladiva (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #12 on: May 09, 2008, 07:22 PM »

@ sly i don't believe in jesus nor religion
The Sly
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #13 on: May 09, 2008, 07:23 PM »

Quote from: vivaladiva on May 09, 2008, 07:22 PM
@ sly i don't believe in jesus nor religion
Then you need me. . . . . .  Cool
vivaladiva (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #14 on: May 09, 2008, 07:23 PM »

@ 4him u may class this as a stupid thread but i don't so F*** off
vivaladiva (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #15 on: May 09, 2008, 07:23 PM »

and what can u possibly do for me sly that no one else has done before
stillwater (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #16 on: May 09, 2008, 07:26 PM »

Quote from: vivaladiva on May 09, 2008, 07:13 PM
some times i wonder if nairaland can ever be a place for constructive arguments or discussions
if honesty is not your best policy, there is nothing wrong with admitting it after all i don't know and don't care to know the person behind the comments so long as its constructive

There's nothing wrong in creating constructive posts, or is there?


Quote from: vivaladiva on May 09, 2008, 07:21 PM
how many men or women here can put up their hands and say they hvent had sex out side of their relationships ( probably no one especially the men)
what is wrong with havin an open ananymous discussion about issues that most people deal with regularly.
when i say most nigerians are narrow minded some assholes think am crazy
yes i am crazy

If being "openminded" means exercising abnormalities I'd rather remain narrowminded!!!!!
The Sly
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #17 on: May 09, 2008, 07:27 PM »

Quote from: vivaladiva on May 09, 2008, 07:23 PM
and what can u possibly do for me sly that no one else has done before
Thats what we are about to find out. . . . . .you'd be surprised . . . . . .  Cool
vicade (m)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #18 on: May 09, 2008, 07:28 PM »

@topic
No
stillwater (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #19 on: May 09, 2008, 07:28 PM »

Quote
how many men or women here can put up their hands and say they hvent had sex out side of their relationships ( probably no one especially the men)
what is wrong with havin an open ananymous discussion about issues that most people deal with regularly.

Everyone is not like you, miss!!!!!! Tongue
vivaladiva (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #20 on: May 09, 2008, 07:31 PM »

what is abnormality ?
there is nothing absolutely nothin wrong with abnormality
it just means u don't conform to sterotypes
u make your own rules so long as your not hurting any one
ibkaye (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #21 on: May 09, 2008, 07:34 PM »

@topic
yes honesty is the best policy Tongue
vivaladiva (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #22 on: May 09, 2008, 07:34 PM »

i accept that every one is not like me Stillwater
u can't however tell me that every thing about u is normal
please tell me stillwater whet is abnormal about u, do u have any fantasies that society might condem?

LASIEFAIRE (m)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #23 on: May 09, 2008, 07:35 PM »

to every saying there is an however.
Honesty is not always the best policy
experience and reality has taught me that.
stillwater (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #24 on: May 09, 2008, 07:38 PM »

Quote from: vivaladiva on May 09, 2008, 07:34 PM
i accept that every one is not like me Stillwater
u can't however tell me that every thing about u is normal
please tell me stillwater whet is abnormal about u, do u have any fantasies that society might condem?

Nope Cool
dangermous
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #25 on: May 09, 2008, 07:40 PM »

@Still water

Na your pikin be that?

The boy don chop belle full sha. Cute pikin

as for the agbaya wey tanda with am. the less said the better.


stillwater (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #26 on: May 09, 2008, 07:40 PM »

Quote from: vivaladiva on May 09, 2008, 07:31 PM
what is abnormality ?
there is nothing absolutely nothin wrong with abnormality
it just means u don't conform to sterotypes
u make your own rules so long as your not hurting any one


Can you say this to the numerous mad people along Adeniran Ogunsanya Rd? Cheesy

vivaladiva (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #27 on: May 09, 2008, 07:41 PM »

@ stillwater there is no such person even the pope has somthing abnormal about him
are u afraid i might ask u what it is? poor u
failure to accept ones abnormality is like a gay man denying he is gay
are u afraid people will judge you?
jennykadry (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #28 on: May 09, 2008, 07:41 PM »

Quote
his viva person sounds more and more like Hotfunmi, maybe a little more sexualized, but the underlying tone remains the same.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
dangermous
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #29 on: May 09, 2008, 07:43 PM »

Quote from: vivaladiva on May 09, 2008, 07:41 PM
@ stillwater there is no such person even the pope has somthing abnormal about him
are u afraid i might ask u what it is? poor u
failure to accept ones abnormality is like a gay man denying he is gay
are u afraid people will judge you?


yes yes. today's mad person, tomorrow's genius
Ezinwannem
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #30 on: May 09, 2008, 07:43 PM »

I believe honesty is vital because nuthing is hidden under da sun
vivaladiva (f)
Re: In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?
« #31 on: May 09, 2008, 07:45 PM »

mental instability is an illness not necessarily an abnormality
besides even people that don't run around the street naked can also be mentally ustable
it comes in diff forms and different manifestations
infact every one on earth is mad but in varying degrees and capacities
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