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skima (m)
Why Would A Man Go For A Second Wife?
« on: August 19, 2005, 10:17 PM »

I find this very touching when I see ex-honey no more sugar.
Men go out to look for a better looking babe after they see the ex-honey growing old.
Is it good or what else do you think could have made this women punchers always want to keep punching?
Greatpeter (m)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #1 on: August 19, 2005, 10:19 PM »

It is caused by covetuosness, and nothing more.
hot-angel (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #2 on: August 20, 2005, 05:09 AM »

The reason why men go for a second wife, is because most of those men are ass-holes. The other men that aren't assholes, are simply been pushed out by their Wives. This is true...it always isn't the fault of the man, the woman is also behind, do her own thing, probably making life misrable for the man. For heaven's sake the man is human, he can't watch you treat him like crap everyday without going to look for someone that would probably do far better than his wicked evil wife. Gbabe.i am right.

The case mostly is that, These men that go for second wife, or in most cases, Mistresses, are Insecured with their wives and feel that if they get another person that isn't their wife, either for sexual satsifaction or just comfort and food, they would be happier than they are. But ermm, majority of the men that go for another wife, are mostly men that can't control their vibes and little Mr. Jack in their pants. They are men that can't see something in skirt (well those things now wear pants..but anyways, women have  been known to be "something in skirt") walk by them. As i was saying...those guys are assholes, and men that are not contented with what they've got.
layi (m)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #3 on: August 20, 2005, 09:01 PM »

I second hot-angel. Took d words out of-ma-mouth.
hopy2005 (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #4 on: September 14, 2005, 12:58 PM »

will I say that some are not satisfy with one wife, secondly, if there wife don't put to birth or give them a male child as we said ealier, lastly some wifey don't know how to cook or win a man's heart you guys know now, but going for second wife is not the best, it causes a lot of havoke, I will back again.
kamakula
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #5 on: September 28, 2005, 08:21 PM »

there is a difference between a second wife and a mistress
legs (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #6 on: September 30, 2005, 12:38 PM »

mistress or wife call it what you like men do things like this because they are selfish and are simply not thinking of what the first woman will have to go through anytime they decide to follow the urge to step outside. Its a man´s world so can you blame them?
kamakula
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #7 on: September 30, 2005, 04:17 PM »

you're missing my point

having a second wife is not stepping outside the marriage.  You cannot cheat on your wife . . .with your wife.

And being selfish - if a wife is denying her husband something he wants to the point he feels the only place he can get it is outside the marriage . . .isn't she being selfish as well?
vexxy (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #8 on: October 03, 2005, 08:49 PM »

Quote from: kamakula
You cannot cheat on your wife . . .with your wife.

Are you sure?  What if you had one wife first.  Then you'd have to go through the process of gaining a second wife which means she initially starts off as a mistress thereby cheating on your wife. Lips sealed
kamakula
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #9 on: October 03, 2005, 08:52 PM »

Not neccessarily.  Your first wife may be lacking in some department.  You mention this to your parents, they find a nice 18 year old who has the qualities you feel your first wife lacks.  You marry her the next day.
vexxy (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #10 on: October 03, 2005, 09:04 PM »

And then she lacks qualities as well. 

Further more both of the wives find that you are lacking qualities so they in turn go out for second husbands.  When will it end?
kamakula
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #11 on: October 03, 2005, 09:09 PM »

actually, there is nothing stopping them from going out for other husbands. .

I guess it would end when everyone is married to everyone whose culture allows polygamy.
vexxy (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #12 on: October 03, 2005, 09:11 PM »

I guess you're right about that.  I just can't see myself doing something like that.  I can get jealous Lips sealed

I also understand that you will not find a person on the face of this earth that is perfect.  We all have our little annoying tendencies or lacking qualities. 

The question is: Is the answer to go out and find more and more?
kamakula
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #13 on: October 03, 2005, 09:18 PM »

No, that is not the answer - initially.  Years of prolonged exposure - especially when the other does not make any effort towards changing or resolving the problem with you could drive a person to do it.
vexxy (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #14 on: October 03, 2005, 09:22 PM »

But it must stop somewhere
nddy (m)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #15 on: October 03, 2005, 09:27 PM »

interesting
larger_20 (m)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #16 on: April 05, 2006, 08:58 PM »

I wouldnt say due to sexual dissatisfaction on the guys part. maybe lack of child like someone mentioned before. I remember a case where the wife asked the man to get a new wife because she could not concieve
eveseh (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #17 on: April 27, 2006, 08:21 PM »

because they needs wife in da house
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #18 on: April 27, 2006, 08:22 PM »

because they thk their fxckin  d**k is wayyyyy tooooooooooo big for one woman!!!!!!!!!
eveseh (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #19 on: April 27, 2006, 08:47 PM »

Quote from: Rhodalyn on April 27, 2006, 08:22 PM
because they thk their fxckin  d**k is wayyyyy tooooooooooo big for one woman!!!!!!!!!

you,u are too much oh

aahaha
larger_20 (m)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #20 on: April 27, 2006, 10:47 PM »

Quote from: Rhodalyn on April 27, 2006, 08:22 PM
because they thk their fxckin  d**k is wayyyyy tooooooooooo big for one woman!!!!!!!!!

This teenager, you need some dyke . I got em  Grin
hot-angel (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #21 on: April 27, 2006, 10:49 PM »

WHy it gotta be a dyke?
larger_20 (m)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #22 on: April 28, 2006, 12:10 AM »

Quote from: hot-angel on April 27, 2006, 10:49 PM
WHy it gotta be a dyke?

Dyke do it better. Dyke was designed to do it Wink
hot-angel (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #23 on: April 28, 2006, 12:11 AM »

Ile aye yi ma ti di nkan mi oo. Oga oo!
grafikdon (m)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #24 on: April 02, 2007, 10:46 PM »

Because they want to marry more than one wife and the African culture has lots of room for polygamy.
omoge (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #25 on: April 02, 2007, 11:31 PM »

yeah, and putting the african woman in unecessary soul suffering. No Woman Wants Her Man To Bring In Another Woman/Lady into the home.

''Hey wifey, am going to marry another woman'' and then wifey should always be ready to say ''Hey Hubby, am going for another man too'' Fair enough!

i say it again, once your man decides you are not enough for him, leave.

Quote from: grafikdon on April 02, 2007, 10:46 PM
Because they want to marry more than one wife and the African culture has lots of room for polygamy.
initiate
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #26 on: April 11, 2007, 07:46 AM »

one woman is not enough for a great man. behind every great man is a number of women. do you know any great man with one woman?
star01 (m)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #27 on: April 11, 2007, 07:49 AM »

the bible says ":a man is entitle to as many wives he can have or something", having too or many wives i don't think is against the wish of the lord, but mere looking @ it, some people go for the second wife due to some circumstances, maybe the currect wife couldnt give em what they want, i mean not too good on bed. or may be they want sex change in their kid, which she couldnt provide,
      men of now adays re sex freak who couldnt help but too seek another ASS because they tired of beating the same drum everytime
spoilt (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #28 on: April 19, 2007, 02:43 AM »

to delude themselves into thinking they are still hot young and desirable. its called male denial!  hehehe!  Grin
omogenaija (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #29 on: April 19, 2007, 02:46 AM »

why do guys go for a second wife Huh

b/c the first wife allows it  Angry Angry
spoilt (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #30 on: April 19, 2007, 02:49 AM »

Quote from: omogenaija on April 19, 2007, 02:46 AM
why do guys go for a second wife Huh

b/c the first wife allows it Angry Angry

what will the poor woman do? a lot of them go for the traditional marriage in secret without even telling you. its when the second wife wants to start making trouble and wants to move in that yawa will gas.
omogenaija (f)
Re: Why Do Men Go For a Second Wife?
« #31 on: April 19, 2007, 02:53 AM »

 Angry Angry Angry

i don't know y a woman would let that happen ,  and the man is just greedy anyways ,
but people r different

i can't rise children or live in that type of enviroment
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