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nikekenny (m)
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now we are bit seperated about 50kilo i should think, but we are both afraid of loosing each other. what should we do? some say since we love each other then we should get married? is that the solution?
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idupaul
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What is separated from you, is it your dog?
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Busta (f)
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50 Km is that not bad.
None of u guys own a car?
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nikekenny (m)
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What is separated from you, is it your dog?
don't be funny its my fiancee the @busta No car yet A Job with Good accommodation is actually taken me away from her |
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jennykadry (f)
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now we are bit seperated about 50kilo i should think, but we are both afraid of loosing each other. what should we do? some say since we love each other then we should get married? is that the solution? exactly,if the money is there ,then u guys should just get married and take away this insecurity u both feel for eachother |
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nikekenny (m)
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don't be funny its my fiancee
the @busta No car yet
A Job with Good accommodation is actually taken me away from her
Thanks Jenny, the money is not actually there yet, but we are planning toward mid next year, but still we feel insecure. |
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jennykadry (f)
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Thanks Jenny, the money is not actually there yet, but we are planning toward mid next year, but still we feel insecure. ok,but i think u guys should take away that negative feelings called insecurity,believe me insecurity is one feeling that shouldnt be in a relationship,so many people r like u wt their partners far away from them,and d feelings of insecurity is natural but shouldnt be d basic foundation in a relationship,if not that relationship is going to crumble,believe me |
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ievbuomw (f)
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I was long distance from my husband for 2 years before we married. One thing about relationships my friend is being able to trust one another. If you are feeling insecure, you need to find within yourself what is bothering you, then talk with your fiance and see what is bothering her (in reguards to insecurities) A relationship is based on compromise and working together to achieve common ground. If you do not address these issues now, you too will be too worried about things that do not matter (ie thinking each other is doing things they should not be) and severing the trust that you two should already have. Just like Jenny said, your relationship will crumble if not. It is tough, I know first hand but if you can make it through this part of your lives FAITHFULLY, there is NOTHING that you and your future wife won't be able to handle. I hope that helps!!! Good luck and God bless you and your family  |
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Busta (f)
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@nikekenny,
as long as u both love each . . then trust comes in . . there's nothing to be scared of.
then again, unless am not getting this right. You are already engaged and u obviously love each other so what is the insecurity about? You fear someone might snatch her away from u? or u away from her? because really. . the distance ain't that far and all u have to do is make out enough time for each other.
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idupaul
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Quote from: idupaul on Today at 12:40:04 PM
What is separated from you, is it your dog?
don't be funny its my fiancee
Am truly sorry,,,, i did not actually know what was separated. cheers |
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nikekenny (m)
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ok,but i think u guys should take away that negative feelings called insecurity,believe me insecurity is one feeling that shouldnt be in a relationship,so many people r like u wt their partners far away from them,and d feelings of insecurity is natural but shouldnt be d basic foundation in a relationship,if not that relationship is going to crumble,believe me
Thanks About that, God bless your family too. @nikekenny,
as long as u both love each . . then trust comes in . . there's nothing to be scared of.
then again, unless am not getting this right. You are already engaged and u obviously love each other so what is the insecurity about? You fear someone might snatch her away from u? or u away from her? because really. . the distance ain't that far and all u have to do is make out enough time for each other.
that is my fear dear friend, even when we are close lots of guys call her, try to date her u know, even her close brother don't really like the relationship, sometime ago he was trying to introduce her to someone else, is scaring me if am not with her something much more can actually happen to her, and u know girls have a fragile height and they can change there mind at any time, u know that BUT I LOVE HER. |
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Busta (f)
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that is my fear dear friend, even when we are close lots of guys call her, try to date her u know, even her close brother don't really like the relationship, sometime ago he was trying to introduce her to someone else, is scaring me if am not with her something much more can actually happen to her, and u know girls have a fragile height and they can change there mind at any time, u know that BUT I LOVE HER.
Just answer this question with all sincerity:
DOES SHE LOVE You BACK??? |
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jennykadry (f)
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that is my fear dear friend, even when we are close lots of guys call her, try to date her u know, even her close brother don't really like the relationship, sometime ago he was trying to introduce her to someone else, is scaring me if am not with her something much more can actually happen to her, and u know girls have a fragile height and they can change there mind at any time, u know that BUT I LOVE HER. d fact is,u should try and find out if she also loves u and one thing u shpuld know is,if shes truly yours u guy will end up together,but if shes not urs there is nothing u will do to make her stay with u |
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nikekenny (m)
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Thanks About that, God bless your family too.
that is my fear dear friend, even when we are close lots of guys call her, try to date her u know, even her close brother don't really like the relationship, sometime ago he was trying to introduce her to someone else, is scaring me if am not with her something much more can actually happen to her, and u know girls have a fragile height and they can change there mind at any time, u know that BUT I LOVE HER.
YES WITH ALL SINCERETY SHE DOES, but u know u can't predict ladies mind, and she is still very young. we round up studies in COE next year june |
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tngtech (m)
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the truth is that both you don't trust each other.
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nikekenny (m)
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I still have the opportunity of not taken up the job, someone say i shouldnt take up the job, but everyone is hoping for a better opportunity, so that we can all take care of our family. this is difficult.
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nikekenny (m)
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the truth is that both you don't trust each other.
we do, just a problem with changing of environment that is all. |
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Busta (f)
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we do, just a problem with changing of environment that is all.
That is not the issue.
u guys are lacking "TRUST".
if u love her and she loves u back . . thats all u need to pull through the distance and any other obstacles |
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tngtech (m)
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we do, just a problem with changing of environment that is all.
Then you complaining? or is it your 1st time fall in love   |
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nikekenny (m)
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3rd sir just that i love this one more than the other |
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jennykadry (f)
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@poster
the problem wt u is that,you are highly confused
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tngtech (m)
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3rd sir just that i love this one more than the other na so love they start, my brother shun.  |
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