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vivaladiva (f)
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i find it highly irritating when after not speaking to your girl friend in nigeria in a long while, they often ask u if your married.
or they email or phone u to say they are getting married
what is so freaking wonderful about marriage and why is it a do or die situation for nija girls?
is mrs man more appealing than miss girl?[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]
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uspry1 (f)
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Because they watch soap opera, nollywood, and reading romance novels too much to have fantasy about marriage without sitting down to analyze and study their own partner's characteristics, habits, etc finding the compatible mate.
Also because most of young Nigerian girls are materistic type seeking for rich guys who has MONEY, MONEY, MONEY!!!
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keybu (m)
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Must Nigerian girls are materialistic ,and once they see a made guy
the next step is mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmarriageeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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vivaladiva (f)
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surely a girl should be able to differenciate between the idealised romantic worlds of these books or films and the realities of the real world
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ztyle (m)
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. , .Common American Womann come even know them sef, Nna this is wonderful. lol
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jennykadry (f)
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my life will be very boring if i did not have d opposite sex beside me as a husband
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Cadet (f)
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Why do Nigerian men look ugly as hell?  |
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vivaladiva (f)
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but don't u think the nigerian society puts a lot of pressure on these girls
besides a single thirty year old woman is often said to have gone past her sell by date
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ztyle (m)
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@Cadet plz create a thread 4 that. @ hater i don't like you posting under me.  |
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jennykadry (f)
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but don't u think the nigerian society puts a lot of pressure on these girls
besides a single thirty year old woman is often said to have gone past her sell by date yea yea d nigerian society puts pressure on those girls because they believe a woman should be in her husbands house by that time bUT I BELIEVE IT ALL DEPENDS ON WEN D WOMAN IN QUESTION IS INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE |
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vivaladiva (f)
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cadet maybe the ones uve met
F*** me nigeria has its fair share of hansome men
not to mention their long thick privates
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uspry1 (f)
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@keybu No thank for sending my email to you! Welcome to Nairaland! Have a good weekend! |
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Cadet (f)
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cadet maybe the ones uve met
F*** me nigeria has its fair share of hansome men
not to mention their long thick privates
The men I've met so far are fine, except for one. The men I see on Nairaland and in Nigeria, Lord help our population from being branded as the ugliest in Africa, if we don't have the title yet As for their "privates", na you sabi.  |
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michelin89 (f)
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They don't love it but they see it as a necessity and a maximum priority.
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Cadet (f)
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They don't love it but they see it as a necessity and a maximum priority.
Michelin, welcome backloving your profile pix  |
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squirrel20 (f)
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It's not about loving marriage. i think it gets to a stage in life whereby the next thing to look up to is marriage. it's just a normal thing.
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michelin89 (f)
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Michelin, welcome backloving your profile pix Hey darling! Thank you, as soon I finish this post I go check your profile and make a comment.   I'll make you happy and add a post to my already existing ones!  |
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Cadet (f)
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Hey darling! Thank you, as soon I finish this post I go check your profile and make a comment. I'll make you happy and add a post to my already existing ones! LOL!! |
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michelin89 (f)
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@ Cadet My comment: love your picture. No homo but you have nice lips. I wanted to visit your website but I couldn't access it. I think there are too many www. My computer is confused! I have never seen it having so many convulsions at once! |
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vivaladiva (f)
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very blurry picture if u ask me. some one is in need of a 12million mega pixile camera
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Cadet (f)
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@ Cadet My comment: love your picture. No homo but you have nice lips. I wanted to visit your website but I couldn't access it. I think there are too many www. My computer is confused! I have never seen it having so many convulsions at once! LOL!! thanks. ehrrrm, that's a fake website |
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Cadet (f)
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very blurry picture if u ask me. some one is in need of a 12million mega pixile camera
I made it blurry |
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vivaladiva (f)
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why would u do that, u don't want any one to recognise u abi
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Cadet (f)
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why would u do that, u don't want any one to recognise u abi
hmmm. Now that you've mentioned it, that does seem like a good idea. I hate paparazzi |
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sparkandy (m)
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Lol, I have three younger sisters and when there's anything on TV regarding weddings they put on their whole concentration until its over. They look forward to their wedding day so much that it sometimes irritate me. But I can't help but think that they are girls and ladies and emotional beings. Like uspry1 said, they watch to much movies and being emotional creatures who allow their emotion to guard them in their every decision making, they are bound to be moved by what they see and what they hear, I really don't think its because of MONEY, if that is the reason, alot of girls will not get married but rather date as many men as posible to get money or become a 100 percent independent woman who is independent in all aspect of her life including emotional aspects thereby creating a standard too high for any man to cope with.  |
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vivaladiva (f)
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@ cadet, remind me again what you're famous for
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Cadet (f)
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@ cadet, remind me again what you're famous for
For being a Nigerian. We have enough reputations as it is |
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prince_onx
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Come to think of it though!  Is it only Nigerian girls/women? Which girl in her late 20s, early or mid 30s that won't want to get marry? You guys should stop all this naija guys this, naija girls that shit!  And for the poster: I've almost never read anything positive about naija men from you since I first saw your name on Nairaland! now you don face girls! busy body!! Yes I have my vest on and helment! go get you gun![i][/i] |
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stillwater (f)
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Lmao |
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Sisikill
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I don’t get the question?
Aren’t we supposed to like marriage?
Isn’t it the womanly thing to do?
From the moment we are born our purpose in life is to get married. Oh sure we go to schoolnursery school, primary school, secondary school, 4 years of undergrad, 2 years of graduate studies, Yes we get jobs afterwards but all of that are just diversionary activities until we achieve our ultimate goal in lifeto be married! And now you make it sound like it’s a bad thing. Sister Puh-leaze!
Whatever would we do without a man by our side? Oh dear! Thought just send a chill down my spine.
*Swooning*
A life without a man? I’d die I tell you, Die!
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JoyceAgim (f)
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which kind ? be this?u want make we no marry,make all of us come sit don your house dey look?Guy take time ooooooo |
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