If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?

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Kliplemet (m)
If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« on: May 11, 2008, 06:47 PM »

Or does she just want children? I wonder, she talks about when she will be pregnant and when she will her first baby this and that all the time.
spoilt (f)
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #1 on: May 11, 2008, 08:53 PM »

No.
Also Depends on where you live. In some parts of the world its a meal ticket. They get child support for each child they have so they go around popping out kids. Love has nothing to do with it.
Siena (m)
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #2 on: May 11, 2008, 09:20 PM »

No. She could merely see you as a sperm donor.

Any man could father a child.
But, it takes a real man to be a DAD.
clemcykul
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #3 on: May 12, 2008, 10:53 AM »

hmmm siena am thinking
Riskie (f)
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #4 on: May 12, 2008, 08:01 PM »

No, it just means she wants children  Tongue if she keeps stressing the wanting children part and doesn't talk about other future plans like marriage or whatever then the child is just to trap u.
tine
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #5 on: May 12, 2008, 08:23 PM »

Nope
tpia
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #6 on: May 12, 2008, 10:42 PM »

hard to tell.

She could love you but at the same time not know if you'll stay with her.ie if you're committed to her.

Having a kid is the next best thing.

Weird kind of reasoning, but some women do it when they're fed up, in a way. Like for example if they want to settle down but the b/friend is still sowing his wild oats everywhere.

of course if she's a golddigger, then none of this applies.

My opinion. Undecided
frank 3.16 (m)
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #7 on: May 13, 2008, 11:42 AM »

love has got nothing with the desire to have kids
frank 3.16 (m)
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #8 on: May 13, 2008, 11:45 AM »

love has got nothing with the desire to have kids
tngtech (m)
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #9 on: May 13, 2008, 12:18 PM »

Quote from: frank 3.16 on May 13, 2008, 11:45 AM
love has got nothing with the desire to have kids

exactly.

@poster

She might just want to have the kids without having any lover.
tpia
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #10 on: May 13, 2008, 08:24 PM »

Quote from: frank 3.16 on May 13, 2008, 11:45 AM
love has got nothing with the desire to have kids

oh really?

so a woman will put herself through a lot of pain and inconvenience for what reason exactly?

Some of you males on nairaland must be moving with extremely weird and nasty females.  You don't seem to know what a normal woman looks or acts like. Undecided
spoilt (f)
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #11 on: May 13, 2008, 10:43 PM »

Quote from: tpia on May 13, 2008, 08:24 PM
oh really?

so a woman will put herself through a lot of pain and inconvenience for what reason exactly?

Some of you males on nairaland must be moving with extremely weird and nasty females.  You don't seem to know what a normal woman looks or acts like. Undecided

Love has nothing to do with anything. a woman can have 12 children for a man and not love him. Whether she loves or doesnt love him there will be pain so there!
tpia
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #12 on: May 13, 2008, 10:50 PM »

Quote from: spoilt on May 13, 2008, 10:43 PM
Love has nothing to do with anything. a woman can have 12 children for a man and not love him. Whether she loves or doesnt love him there will be pain so there!


as regards the topic itself- this is a boyfriend girlfriend situation, I believe.

Who's to say for sure that the girl isnt in love.

her wanting a baby doesnt mean she's not in love.

The lovey dovey feeling will fade anyway- regardless if someone has 12 children, only one child or even no kids at all. Given time.

The honeymoon phase isnt forever.
ikamefa (f)
Re: If A Woman Wants Children Of You, Does It Necessarily Mean She Loves You?
« #13 on: May 13, 2008, 11:05 PM »



n o p e! she prolly wants your tiny likkle soldiers

and not have to pay for it at a fertility clinic  Grin Grin Grin Grin
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