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Kliplemet (m)
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Or does she just want children? I wonder, she talks about when she will be pregnant and when she will her first baby this and that all the time.
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spoilt (f)
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No. Also Depends on where you live. In some parts of the world its a meal ticket. They get child support for each child they have so they go around popping out kids. Love has nothing to do with it.
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Siena (m)
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No. She could merely see you as a sperm donor.
Any man could father a child. But, it takes a real man to be a DAD.
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clemcykul
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hmmm siena am thinking
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Riskie (f)
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No, it just means she wants children  if she keeps stressing the wanting children part and doesn't talk about other future plans like marriage or whatever then the child is just to trap u.
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tpia
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hard to tell. She could love you but at the same time not know if you'll stay with her.ie if you're committed to her. Having a kid is the next best thing. Weird kind of reasoning, but some women do it when they're fed up, in a way. Like for example if they want to settle down but the b/friend is still sowing his wild oats everywhere. of course if she's a golddigger, then none of this applies. My opinion. 
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frank 3.16 (m)
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love has got nothing with the desire to have kids
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frank 3.16 (m)
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love has got nothing with the desire to have kids
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tngtech (m)
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love has got nothing with the desire to have kids
exactly. @poster She might just want to have the kids without having any lover.
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tpia
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love has got nothing with the desire to have kids
oh really? so a woman will put herself through a lot of pain and inconvenience for what reason exactly? Some of you males on nairaland must be moving with extremely weird and nasty females. You don't seem to know what a normal woman looks or acts like. 
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spoilt (f)
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oh really? so a woman will put herself through a lot of pain and inconvenience for what reason exactly? Some of you males on nairaland must be moving with extremely weird and nasty females. You don't seem to know what a normal woman looks or acts like.  Love has nothing to do with anything. a woman can have 12 children for a man and not love him. Whether she loves or doesnt love him there will be pain so there!
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tpia
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Love has nothing to do with anything. a woman can have 12 children for a man and not love him. Whether she loves or doesnt love him there will be pain so there!
as regards the topic itself- this is a boyfriend girlfriend situation, I believe. Who's to say for sure that the girl isnt in love. her wanting a baby doesnt mean she's not in love. The lovey dovey feeling will fade anyway- regardless if someone has 12 children, only one child or even no kids at all. Given time. The honeymoon phase isnt forever.
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