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Akinagirl (f)
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mamaput, why should she have to shut her mouth? She was only doing what the others were doing, its not her fault that he took it WAY personally. Hes a freakin psycho in my opinion.
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Seun (m)
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In addition to that, you can "take things personally" without assaulting people. It is not acceptable.
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Akinagirl (f)
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thats right seun.
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NubianQ (f)
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hey thnx for your responses,
mamaput, since u believe a person should be hit! good for you. as long as you get hit till u are killed then thats fine and acceptable by me .
secondly yes, i must have provocked him but if u read my post it was general gist thrown around and i said what i felt and other girls did as well. so if he attacked me based on personal issues then i don't think it made any sense because he was obviously enjoying the gist and if you read my post i stated that WE hung out after the arguement.
you can justify him hitting me all you can and personally, yes, maybe i hung out with the wrong crowd. i can accept that and accept my talking but i never made it seeem like it was him i was tlking about. well, i don't expect women like you to understand because its in your culture for men to hit you and you thank him, so sorry hun, ignore me while i try to say we should be respected. and also if you want to sleep with every availble privates then by all means do. i have choice and i took it.well, i guess you thank your man for hitting you all the time
AND YOU ARE A MOTHER? WHAT A FUCKING LAUGH!!!
4HIM,
I like you and u can say what you want its fine. i know where i went wrong and i can accept it. to be honest i never ever, directed it at him and from my post you will see that i made the reference to his willy not to him during the argument but just within myself. he knew he had a small one and it was just gist and other ladies did talk as well. for him it was personal for me. and you fell i got hit and i deserved it. cool with me. i just make up my mind that if anyone touches me and going to kill him and the only problem was i didnt have anything to kill him there because it would have been defending myself from someone. n for the record, YES i got into a fight not justyfying it and he did try to touch me several times in front of his girl and i had to get someone to tell him to leave me alone. so its not just about willy but rejection as well. be honest with me its ok. u are an opinionated person and i can respect that.
Bamolowo,
OH please hun, mind your words because u are beggining to sound really funny! if u hate me because we argue on nairaland say it and stop acting like you just read this post and concluded. since you think i deserved it. coooooooooool, i am not fightin, i am not hating. it just shows that men like you are out there hitting women and you think its ok. why do men attach penises to their egos. i have had enough tlking to the likes of you because u think u have it all in your head. i did say i know where i pissed the guy off and for stating my friends are talking about genitalia, beat yourself in the chest and say you have never spoken about genitalia before? i hate people who obviously lie but its ok hun.
and for your sisters, i just hope you find out something that hurts and the man who hits him or assaults them runs free and wild because he is a man and should be respected. Thats one problem i have with people like you is you pretend to be all good but your lifes are messed up.
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NubianQ (f)
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AND FOR THE RECORD, I SAID HE HAD A SMALL THING AND NEVER SAID IT TO THE PEOPLE IN THE ROOM.
I MENTIONED IT HERE CUZ I WAS ARRIVING AT POSSIBLE REASONS FOR HITTING ME. LOOK I DONT KISS AND TELL, SOME GUYS DO BUT WHO HITS THEM?
NO PROBLEM GUYS, I CAN ACCEPT WHAT YOU SAY CUZ I CAN ACCEPT WHAT COMES TO ME. MAMAPUT FOR SAYING I GOT WHAT I DESERVED I CAN ONLY SAY TO YOU, WOW YOU MUST BE A VERY VERY SAD PERSON AND YOU ARE AN EXAMPLE OF A MUM WHO WOULD SEE HER DAUGHTER BEING ABUSED AND TELL HER TO KEEP QUIET, HMMMM
I NEVER SAID YOU SHOULD SUPPORT ME AND PEOPLE HAVE TOLD ME NOT TO HAVE TLKED AND I CAN TAKE MY FAULTS BUT FOR YOU TO OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND SAY I DESERVED TO BE HIT. ITS BEYOND ME. WELL ITS TOO LATE FOR YOU, You LIKE BEING BEATEN
N WHEN I SAID I TOLD HIM A PIECE OF MY MIND I NEVER TLKED ABOUT HIS WILLY, FOR GODSAKE HIS WOMAN WAS THERE.
AND TO THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE SAINTS WHO CLAIM NOT TO BE VULGAR, I NOW KNOW WHY I SAY SOME NAIJA PEOPLE ARE HYPOCRITES WHO HIDE UNDER SAINTHOOD AND OTHER THINGS.SO NONE OF YOU HAVE EVER TLK ABOUT SIZES OR SEX? HMMMM
Mamaput if you Enjoy being beaten and were brought up in a domestic violent home no be my fault oh! i guess u are replying to make all the men in nairaland respect you but i stand and i speak my mind. no fear that they might want to beat me up. i never ever ever, made reference to him and he joined in the arguement and several times i tried to end it he kept saying we were adults so what are you on about?
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OMO IBO (m)
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na who dey justify hitting/beating a woman? that is so wrong and uncalled for. hitting a woman because of rejection screams imaturity. i don't care whether she swear for u or whatever. u just don't hit a woman for whatever reason. some nigerians just love notoriety and some can't seem to handle the 2 letter word NO
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mamaput (f)
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NubianQ Question what were you doing in bed with a man you do not know and that is not your boy friend. what were you doing with the wrong crowd. i come from a culture and tradition of powerful women. The women in my family are known to be strong.and they know how to treat a man. a man can never beat me i will never bring myself in that situation. my daughters can also never bring themselves in that situation. they do not talk to people anyhow a situation to insult a man or a situation to find themselves in a strangers bed. my big daughter is 19 today her boyfriend is a gentleman she knows that she cannot bring an anyhow wrong crowd man home because i will fight it to the bitter end. be4 that she had had a date that told her "in joke" that if she dances with another guy he will beat her" that was an expensive joke because she never gave him a Chance to even explain it. do you know the first thing the police will ask you. how do you know this man. Mamaput if you Enjoy being beaten and were brought up in a domestic violent home same way you say my dad beat up my mum. my mum is dead she died a terrible painful long death. it took 17 years before god had mercy on her. my dad is over 70 and you are here insulting him but seun will clapp for you your answer will be a **** that went wrong. |
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mamaput (f)
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Sly,
to be honest my head hurts like shit. i was actually hurting so bad earlier. i called the cops and i feel i could report the MF but something tells me to let it go because he has to live with himself and his tiny willy for the rest of his life. well, i feel so ill and i hope i can just put this behind me. you did not go to the police because you know you have no case and because you do not want your people to find out. i have had enough to do with police and court (for many women cases) to know that your case will be dismissed without getting to court. go and ask a lawyer he will advise you to find an outside court settlement if at all. try going to court his lawyer will tear you apart. |
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4 Him (m)
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NubianQ
Question what were you doing in bed with a man you do not know and that is not your boy friend.
what were you doing with the wrong crowd.
There is no justifying rape or assault on a woman, from a man's point of view that is just wrong. BUT I feel we are grossing over the REAL questions here and i have quoted from mamaput. What were you doing in bed with a man who isnt your boyfriend? Why are you hobnobbing with people of so low character that they don't mind discussing the size of a man's yekini with other couples? I can't imagine doing so in the presence of my closest friends and their gfs. There is something called dignity. Mamaput also asked a relevant question . . . what if a man suddenly walks out on you because he feels you smell down there, what would be your reaction? A lot of people are focused on the assault (good thing) but we need to kill a tree from the roots instead of plucking at the leaves. |
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Seun (m)
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I find the lady unwise partly because of what everyone else is saying, but mostly because of her decision not to press charges. Makes no sense. Why are you disturbing us here if you have no intention of doing what you can to re-educate the brute? What stops him from hitting someone else tomorrow? That's why I don't really care anymore when women are assaulted or treated bad. It's a waste of time trying to help people who will never lift a finger to help themselves. Feel free to continue suffering intimidation and accepting it with lots of meaningless, actionless 'outrage'
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LASIEFAIRE (m)
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the Fact of the matter is The dude was total out of line and wrong.
She must have said something wrong, but she didnt touch him - He should have either cursed her out or just simply lay back, smile and take it in like a man. I guess is wakijojo wasnt the only small thing, is dignity, pride and composure was even smaller.
@ Poster
Next time watch the topics you choose to partake in.
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mamaput (f)
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this is what will happen at the police.
question one were do you know him from.
how many days did you know him before you tried to get intimate with him
do you usually get intimate with people you do not know.
did he touch you before or after you talked about willies.
he touched you and you went on to talk about willies.
if it was uncomfortable for you why did you not just get up and go.
you spoke to his girlfriend what did you speak about.
of cause there will be many in between questions that the poster will answer with i do not know.
like surnames,.how many dirnks were had,
i cannot see myself talking about willies with man that is making unwanted passes at me.
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mamaput (f)
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mamaput, why should she have to shut her mouth? She was only doing what the others were doing, its not her fault that he took it WAY personally. Hes a freakin psycho in my opinion.
when you see a mad man do you not cross the road? my mistake she should have left. if i go to a party and it gets nasty i go. the next day i phone my host and tell him off. |
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NubianQ (f)
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mamaput,
never meant to insult your mum, apologies ok, but mind your bleeping mouth.
as for the guy yes i went to the police and yes i had a case so mind your business and shut it, and please don't pretend that u don't shag other men. so when u are tlking decency shut your pee hole.
yes i have never declared myself a saint and never will. yes i was in bed with a man get over yourself and Zip it.i can deal with the critisizm but when u come as Mother theresa i get pissed. besides madam holy married woman i don't have anything to say to the likes of you.
you time spent on nairaland can show how happy you are in your relationship
now, like i said. sorry for the reference made to your mum and dad but don't ever ever ever ever, insult me. its not your body
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NubianQ (f)
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and for you thing saying i had no case, yes i was hurt and i went to complain and it was not a party but how the toss am i going to explain it to you?
look if you have problem with the post then go, i am not going to tlk to you anymore. yes i got hurt and yes i deserved it because i was with the wrong crowd and i have said it plainly.
if in your own part of the world you don't defend any sort of assault and if you claim to know the law , madam, no assault is justifiable and i wasnt going to tke him to court. you claim i don't want my people to know. do you think i actually am scared of anyone? OR Maybe u think am ashamed. woman i do what i want where i want and how i want. its people that pretend like you that i can't stand!!
use your head! the people here on this section did critisize me alot for doing what i did but for you to start directing things to me as a person. i wont tk it at all.
How dare you speak and say all those things like i am hiding being in bed with a man? what is your issue? people like you are trapped in the old ages. yes i can speak when i do things and yes maybe if a man hurt my feelings i will feel bad but i will not resort to punching him till he almost loses it.
Add some maturity to your thinking and besides the police don't ask the stupid questions you just mentioned so if you are located in the ends of the earth were the police ask silly flimsy questions. is that my problem?
and since you think i deserve it FINE!!! BUT DONT EVER CLAIM YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DONT OK? SO IF A MAN HITS ME IN EGNALD JUST BECAUSE OF HIS WILLY AND BECAUSE I TRIED TO RESPECT HIS GIRL THATS JUSTIFIABLE, ARRRRGGG
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NubianQ (f)
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AND FOR THE RECORD I PRESSED CHARGES ON THE IDIOT WHO HIT ME. SO STOP INSINUATING SHIT TO ME .
YES YES YES , I WAS IN BED WITH A MAN I HARDLY KNOW
OK OOOOO I AM A BAD GIRL ACCEPTED,
SOME OF YOU PRETEND AS IF YOU WERE BORN BY SAINTS AND LIVE SAINTLY LIVES.
I DONT DENY NOTHING.
AND MAMAPUT,
YOUR 19 YEAR OLD KID HAS A MAN, HMMMMMMMMMMMM WELL I HAVE NO COMMENT FOR THAT SINCE AT 19 SHE IS ROCKING. ANYWAY SINCE YOU ARE THE BEST ROLE MODEL MAYBE SHE SHOULD DO SCHOOL BEFORE BOYS AT 19. A TRUE STRICT PARENT WOULD WANT HER TO BE OLDER BUT YOU LET IT BE.
I HAVE NOTHING AGAINTS A 19 YEAR OLD HAVING A MAN BUT THE FACT THAT You THINK YOU WROTE THE CODE OF MORALS MAKES ME THINK AGAIN. DONT DIRECT THINGS AT ME.
4HIM,
I knew you were going to finish me on nairaland. well i was in bed with some guy because i am single and i just didint sleep with him because i went crazy and found the package wasnt good and i never told him to his face so don't quote me wrong its really unfair, sue me honey! i am nuts so no biggies. i have since learnt my hard lesson, reported to the cops and moved on, maybe i should have acted more mature point taken.now cut me some slack
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NubianQ (f)
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this is what will happen at the police.
question one were do you know him from.
how many days did you know him before you tried to get intimate with him
do you usually get intimate with people you do not know.
did he touch you before or after you talked about willies.
he touched you and you went on to talk about willies.
if it was uncomfortable for you why did you not just get up and go.
you spoke to his girlfriend what did you speak about.
of cause there will be many in between questions that the poster will answer with i do not know.
like surnames,.how many dirnks were had,
i cannot see myself talking about willies with man that is making unwanted passes at me.
Madam Police investigator, i wasnt asked those things. c'mon hun, go back and read your books. you make it sound like i am filing a murder case, woman, as for me and you on this Nairaland, i never ever ever want to be on the same thread with you. you are outrightly disgusting. read the post and understand it. so the man is innocent. i am guilty so eat your heart out. I can apologise for disrespecting your parents because i really didnt mean it that way but i can't apologise for your lack of knowledge. you have to live with yourself. simple. any replies from u will either be ignored or if i am in a good mood i will probably reply. Madam 007 |
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mamaput (f)
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now you are telling lies. it will take some days to find out if you had a case. and what you said about my mum i will not forget. she was over 17 years in a worse than coma state you wag your mouth go on you call me old you are getting there How dare you speak and say all those things l i dear speak them because you wrote it in a public forum. i do not care who you land in bed with you are not one getting married into my family. women have fought for so many rights then people like you come and tread them with your feet. the truth is painful you acted stupid. a man torches you you get up and go call the police if you want and not go on to talk about willies. if you had gone to the police before talking willies you would have had a case even after the bed story. but you goofed nothing wrong with sex but no reason to come expose yourself nothing wrong with one night stands but do not expose your self- and stay away from small men then they are dangerous |
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mamaput (f)
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if they did not ask a lot of questions then your case is landing in the bin.
its not a good sign.
ho yes i have escorted a lot of African women to police, hospital,childwealfare and court . i know what m talking about
go and googel your German calender you will see that we are jampacked with a lot of public holidays and school holidays.
that makes me jobless.
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NubianQ (f)
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YES AM I TELLING LIES.
so now shut up and go and give your husband attention and if you don't think i meant the apology for your mum then go to blazes.
in this forum we have fights and when we are wrong we do apologise. since you are over sentimental i wont discuss this with you anymore. you sound like your level of thinking is from the gutter.
if you don't accept an apology madam, then go and thorw yourself off a building. call me what you want and yes its a publci forum but i can comment if i feel something.
you think you know all the things with regard to enforcement. my God you are the worst liar.
please stay on nairaland so another woman can help you with your man. since na me you wan fight continue.
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mamaput (f)
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i can Scan up my daughters results and awards here her average is a 1,6 and she is going for A levels. in biz administration
yes she has a boyfriend . .
boyfriend is with respect she knows his parents they know me we all know each other.
they come to our occasions we attend their. and she is going with his parents to Spain for a wedding this month,
what ever happens they cannot say they do not know us.
even sex is with respect.
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NubianQ (f)
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Germany,
hahahahahahahahaaha
my dear i am talkin anymore. you are just a local champion that helps all the whores make a case so deal with it.
i know your kind, u think you are better than everyone and u have the best life.
only a local bred person doesnt know what an apology means because we don't know each other and i mentioned your parents because i was dissing u. i don't know them so if you think i insulted them na you sabi. if you are taking the forum like one of your local german court cases, go ahead.
i am not BOTHERED.
I APOLOGISED. YOU SAID NO SO WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO?
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NubianQ (f)
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WHILE SCANNING YOUR DAUGHTERS RESULTS PLS SCAN UR BRIAN WITH IT SO I CAN CHECK FOR YOUR MENTAL DISABILITY.
WOMAN, I NO GET TIME TO FIGHT, I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST YOU PERSONALLY OR YOUR KID. IF YOU CHILD WANTS TO GO TO THE ATLANTIC OCEAN WITH A MAN NA SHE SABI.
SINCE YOU WANT TO TLK INTELLIGENCE, I AM SURE I BEAT YOU HANDS DOWN.
MRS TEACHER TRAINNING COLLEGE
MY DEAR GOODNIGHT.
YES I AM A LIAR, BIG DEAL!
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mamaput (f)
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husband what husband . did i not tell you the women in our family take no shit from men.
the difference between me and you is that i can have sex in my house. and my what ever
and not on the back sit of a friends car or the back room of a friend house.
go and have you sex with respect and find out the surname of the men you are sleeping with.
you will want to know the father of your children
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stillwater (f)
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@ OP Geez, what kind of guys do you roll with?  |
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mamaput (f)
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hey everyone on this forum knows am a mad woman that did not go to school you are not the first to find out but now we know you better too WHILE SCANNING YOUR DAUGHTERS RESULTS PLS SCAN UR BRIAN WITH IT SO I CAN CHECK FOR YOUR MENTAL DISABILITY.
WOMAN, I NO GET TIME TO FIGHT, I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST YOU PERSONALLY OR YOUR KID. IF YOU CHILD WANTS TO GO TO THE ATLANTIC OCEAN WITH A MAN NA SHE SABI.
SINCE YOU WANT TO TLK INTELLIGENCE, I AM SURE I BEAT YOU HANDS DOWN.
MRS TEACHER TRAINNING COLLEGE
MY DEAR GOODNIGHT.
YES I AM A LIAR, BIG DEAL! |
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mamaput (f)
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YES AM I TELLING LIES.
so now shut up and go and give your husband attention and if you don't think i meant the apology for your mum then go to blazes.
in this forum we have fights and when we are wrong we do apologise. since you are over sentimental i wont discuss this with you anymore. you sound like your level of thinking is from the gutter.
if you don't accept an apology madam, then go and thorw yourself off a building. call me what you want and yes its a publci forum but i can comment if i feel something.
you think you know all the things with regard to enforcement. my God you are the worst liar.
please stay on nairaland so another woman can help you with your man. since na me you wan fight continue.
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NubianQ (f)
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husband what husband . did i not tell you the women in our family take no shit from men.
the difference between me and you is that i can have sex in my house. and my what ever
and not on the back sit of a friends car or the back room of a friend house.
go and have you sex with respect and find out the surname of the men you are sleeping with.
you will want to know the father of your children
OH MADAM SO YOU HAD KIDS AS A RESULT OF YOUR PROSTITUTION, MY DEAR NOW I UNDERSTAND WHY YOU ARE A WIMP. WHY DO I NEED TO KNOW THE LAST NAMES OF THE MEN. YES I HAVE SEX IN CARS, BUSES, ON TREEEES AND POLES AND EVEN IN YOUR BACKYARD! YES, I DONT DENY. SEX AT HOME IS BORING SO You ARE JUST A DRAG. GET A LIFE!!! |
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NubianQ (f)
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i get it that you are not married. sorry my dear frustrated spinster. how many father does your daughter have?
am sure she is MIX-SPEARMED!
sex is with respect yeah right. KEEP SLAVING FOR GERMANY
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Roscodaddy (m)
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Mamaput forget this Nubianq,no wonder them beat am.
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HR.hotness (f)
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i can Scan up my daughters results and awards here her average is a 1,6 and she is going for A levels. in biz administration
yes she has a boyfriend . .
boyfriend is with respect she knows his parents they know me we all know each other.
they come to our occasions we attend their. and she is going with his parents to Spain for a wedding this month,
what ever happens they cannot say they do not know us.
even sex is with respect.
 thats a new one,,, there is nothing u wont hear on nairaland please Nubi has apologised why r u insisting on fighting d girl has said she knew she was wrong why e still dey pain u,,,,, abi na because she dey talk her own and u no fit talk your own? please everyone has sex,,, i don't understand what your problem is,,, she is living her life with no apologies abeg let us hear word with your daughter and her results, what has that got to do with anything |
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mamaput (f)
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and that is why you feel so dirty you felt used. and now you are running mad.
my kids are mixes because i am mixed too what do you say to that
want to insult the dead again.
and sorry to disappoint they all have the same father and what more i was even married to him.
what do you think i am a fat frustrated white woman.
and by the way any prostitute will tell you at least she got money for it. you are giving it away free not even for love.
just for the fun of it.
do you not love yourself.
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