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merge (f)
Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« on: May 12, 2008, 01:25 AM »

For example if he with a nice woman and she is a virgin. She educated and God fearing. She wants to remain a virgin still marriage. He pressures her to lose it. If she does not give it up, then he gets a ho !!! He impregnate her before he marries her.   Huh Undecided Sad

Agbon21
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #1 on: May 12, 2008, 02:56 AM »

I think women were made to nurture, men mate,   Wink
Busta (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #2 on: May 12, 2008, 03:01 AM »

because they only think with their D**K!!!
Agbon21
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #3 on: May 12, 2008, 03:07 AM »

Alot of the time, unfortunately, they do think that way. Women have a more caring soul. They have more emotion than men on a natural level I think and men have to work at it.
Cadet (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #4 on: May 12, 2008, 03:10 AM »

@post
'Cuz their mind is full of cotton candyand becuz most of the oxygenated blood that goes to the  brain travels to their d^ck, in another word, their d^ck is doing the thinking
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #5 on: May 12, 2008, 03:26 AM »

@ Agbon21

I understand that. 

But why throw away a good woman just for sex.
Busta (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #6 on: May 12, 2008, 03:29 AM »

Quote from: merge on May 12, 2008, 03:26 AM
@ Agbon21

I understand that.

But why throw away a good woman just for sex.


because that 5mins of pleasure is what alot of them are all after.
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #7 on: May 12, 2008, 03:37 AM »

@ Busta

I agree with you but they would stay with a girl who opens her legs to them and impregnate her. Then marry. 
sheniqua
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #8 on: May 12, 2008, 03:38 AM »

Quote from: Busta on May 12, 2008, 03:29 AM
because that 5mins of pleasure is what alot of them are all after.

some are done before the minute rice is cooked Grin
sheniqua
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #9 on: May 12, 2008, 03:40 AM »

Quote from: merge on May 12, 2008, 03:37 AM
@ Busta

I agree with you but they would stay with a girl who opens her legs to them and impregnate her. Then marry.

how about the ones that'll leave the ones they impregnate to go and marry "virginia"
They even have threads on nairaland Shocked Shocked asking us what they should do?
Cadet (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #10 on: May 12, 2008, 03:41 AM »

Quote from: merge on May 12, 2008, 03:37 AM
@ Busta

I agree with you but they would stay with a girl who opens her legs to them and impregnate her. Then marry. 

That's why it's better to know the man you're dating before having unprotected sex with him. to be 100% he'll be responsible for the baby, marry him before having his child
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #11 on: May 12, 2008, 03:43 AM »

@ sheniquia

That for discussion for another thread.
Agbon21
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #12 on: May 12, 2008, 03:44 AM »

Quote from: Busta on May 12, 2008, 03:29 AM
because that 5mins of pleasure is what alot of them are all after.
If you’re a woman, you probably think “When two people understand each other, trust each other, and love each other, then the sex is the best.” If you’re a man, you probably“I love sex.”
I think alot of men have an inflated head at times and they feel they can get another "good girl" any other time. They feel like pleasure now settling down later.
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #13 on: May 12, 2008, 03:46 AM »

@ Cadet

I am not talking about that. 

I mean Nigerian men that leave a good women because she wants to remain a virgin until marriage.
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #14 on: May 12, 2008, 03:47 AM »

@ Agbon21

That what I mean. Smiley
Cadet (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #15 on: May 12, 2008, 03:50 AM »

Quote from: merge on May 12, 2008, 03:46 AM
@ Cadet

I am not talking about that. 

I mean Nigerian men that leave a good women because she wants to remain a virgin until marriage.
Becuz most of them just want bang-bang. They want to taste the food before they buy it.
They want to make sure it's working.
If she does not want sex, it gets into their head that she doesn't want him that way. . bla bla. . they get irrational (typical)
Agbon21
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #16 on: May 12, 2008, 03:52 AM »

Males, at least young males, seem more avidly interested in sex in nearly every species in the animal kingdom, because they have everything to gain.Pleasure, hot girl, and an orgasm  Lips sealed Men invest less in sexual promiscuity, they’re free to pursue opportunities for sex. The female, who will be required to invest more, does well to go slowly and choose carefully, because she is going to have to put a lot of resources into each offspring.

That is why most women are angry at this forum Wink
Tonim (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #17 on: May 12, 2008, 03:52 AM »

This is not unique to Nigerian men, all men are this way.

They are all opportunists  Grin


Quote

That is why most women are angry at this forum Wink

oh really ?
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #18 on: May 12, 2008, 03:53 AM »

What age is considered a young male? Guys that are 28 and early  30 do this.
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #19 on: May 12, 2008, 03:54 AM »

Well we are discussing about just Nigerian men only.


To throw away a good women is not an opportunist a dummy is the better term. 

Uche2nna (m)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #20 on: May 12, 2008, 03:56 AM »

Quote from: Tonim on May 12, 2008, 03:52 AM
This is not unique to Nigerian men


Thank You!!!!! Finally, a sista to the rescue  Grin

Quote from: Tonim on May 12, 2008, 03:52 AM
all men are this way.

They are all opportunists

Not true  Tongue
Cadet (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #21 on: May 12, 2008, 03:57 AM »

Quote from: Uche2nna on May 12, 2008, 03:56 AM

Thank You!!!!! Finally, a sista to the rescue  Grin
me nko? I've been rescuing you guys
Agbon21
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #22 on: May 12, 2008, 03:58 AM »

Quote from: merge on May 12, 2008, 03:54 AM
Well we are discussing about just Nigerian men only.


Teenage years 17 and on,

Quote from: merge on May 12, 2008, 03:54 AM
Well we are discussing about just Nigerian men only.


To throw away a good women is not an opportunist a dummy is the better term.



True but for all men, this is the same story that is all I am bringing to your attn. I have buddies of all colors and races and it is about the same.

For women there is a need for a plot . It is more about the anticipation, how you get there- it is the longing that is the fuel for desire.
Men, on the other hand, don’t need to have nearly as much imagination, since sex is simpler and more straightforward for them.

That does not mean that men do not seek intimacy, love and connection in a relationship --- they do, just as women do. They just view the role sex plays in that relationship differently. Women want to talk first, connect first, then have sex. For men, sex IS the connection. Sex is the language men use to express their tender loving vulnerable side. It is their language of intimacy.

The Sly
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #23 on: May 12, 2008, 03:59 AM »

Thanks Cadet. .  Busta and madam sheniqua for using the words ''Most of them or some''
All you others that are generalizing can smack your thick heads on the wall.
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #24 on: May 12, 2008, 03:59 AM »

@ Uche

I don't care if all men do this I discussing about only Nigerian men

Just because the majority does something it does not make it right !!!

She has not rescued you !!!
sheniqua
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #25 on: May 12, 2008, 04:00 AM »

Now seriously, there are some real good men out there that don't think with their privates only.

I lied, sex is like food to them. Cheesy
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #26 on: May 12, 2008, 04:03 AM »

@ Sheniqua

Lol
Uche2nna (m)
Re: Why Do Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #27 on: May 12, 2008, 04:04 AM »


It does not make sense to single out a particular group of men because of some tendencies that are supposed to be general.

Kind of like asking why do "Nigerian women have breasts"   Huh
Cadet (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #28 on: May 12, 2008, 04:05 AM »

Quote from: sheniqua on May 12, 2008, 04:00 AM
Now seriously, there are some real good men out there that don't think with their privates only.

I lied, sex is like food to them. Cheesy

You're right, there are really good ones around. . . Smiley

Quote from: The Sly on May 12, 2008, 03:59 AM
Thanks Cadet. .  Busta and madam sheniqua for using the words ''Most of them or some''
All you others that are generalizing can smack your thick heads on the wall.
hehehehhee, you're welcome na
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #29 on: May 12, 2008, 04:06 AM »



There is a lot of bad ones too.  Smiley
Cadet (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #30 on: May 12, 2008, 04:07 AM »

Quote from: merge on May 12, 2008, 04:06 AM

There is a lot of bad ones too.  Smiley
Too much of them around
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #31 on: May 12, 2008, 04:09 AM »

@ Uche

Would you leave your woman because of this?
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