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Agbon21
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I think women were made to nurture, men mate, 
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Busta (f)
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because they only think with their D**K!!!
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Agbon21
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Alot of the time, unfortunately, they do think that way. Women have a more caring soul. They have more emotion than men on a natural level I think and men have to work at it.
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Cadet (f)
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@post 'Cuz their mind is full of cotton candyand becuz most of the oxygenated blood that goes to the brain travels to their d^ck, in another word, their d^ck is doing the thinking
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merge (f)
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@ Agbon21
I understand that.
But why throw away a good woman just for sex.
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Busta (f)
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@ Agbon21
I understand that.
But why throw away a good woman just for sex.
because that 5mins of pleasure is what alot of them are all after.
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merge (f)
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@ Busta
I agree with you but they would stay with a girl who opens her legs to them and impregnate her. Then marry.
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sheniqua
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because that 5mins of pleasure is what alot of them are all after.
some are done before the minute rice is cooked 
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sheniqua
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@ Busta
I agree with you but they would stay with a girl who opens her legs to them and impregnate her. Then marry.
how about the ones that'll leave the ones they impregnate to go and marry "virginia" They even have threads on nairaland  asking us what they should do?
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Cadet (f)
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@ Busta
I agree with you but they would stay with a girl who opens her legs to them and impregnate her. Then marry.
That's why it's better to know the man you're dating before having unprotected sex with him. to be 100% he'll be responsible for the baby, marry him before having his child
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merge (f)
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@ sheniquia
That for discussion for another thread.
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Agbon21
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because that 5mins of pleasure is what alot of them are all after.
If you’re a woman, you probably think “When two people understand each other, trust each other, and love each other, then the sex is the best.” If you’re a man, you probably“I love sex.” I think alot of men have an inflated head at times and they feel they can get another "good girl" any other time. They feel like pleasure now settling down later.
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merge (f)
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@ Cadet
I am not talking about that.
I mean Nigerian men that leave a good women because she wants to remain a virgin until marriage.
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merge (f)
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@ Agbon21 That what I mean. 
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Cadet (f)
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@ Cadet
I am not talking about that.
I mean Nigerian men that leave a good women because she wants to remain a virgin until marriage.
Becuz most of them just want bang-bang. They want to taste the food before they buy it. They want to make sure it's working. If she does not want sex, it gets into their head that she doesn't want him that way. . bla bla. . they get irrational (typical)
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Agbon21
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Males, at least young males, seem more avidly interested in sex in nearly every species in the animal kingdom, because they have everything to gain.Pleasure, hot girl, and an orgasm  Men invest less in sexual promiscuity, they’re free to pursue opportunities for sex. The female, who will be required to invest more, does well to go slowly and choose carefully, because she is going to have to put a lot of resources into each offspring. That is why most women are angry at this forum 
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Tonim (f)
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This is not unique to Nigerian men, all men are this way. They are all opportunists  That is why most women are angry at this forum  oh really ?
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merge (f)
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What age is considered a young male? Guys that are 28 and early 30 do this.
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merge (f)
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Well we are discussing about just Nigerian men only.
To throw away a good women is not an opportunist a dummy is the better term.
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Uche2nna (m)
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This is not unique to Nigerian men
Thank You!!!!! Finally, a sista to the rescue  all men are this way.
They are all opportunists
Not true 
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Cadet (f)
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Thank You!!!!! Finally, a sista to the rescue  me nko? I've been rescuing you guys
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Agbon21
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Well we are discussing about just Nigerian men only.
Teenage years 17 and on, Well we are discussing about just Nigerian men only.
To throw away a good women is not an opportunist a dummy is the better term.
True but for all men, this is the same story that is all I am bringing to your attn. I have buddies of all colors and races and it is about the same. For women there is a need for a plot . It is more about the anticipation, how you get there- it is the longing that is the fuel for desire. Men, on the other hand, don’t need to have nearly as much imagination, since sex is simpler and more straightforward for them. That does not mean that men do not seek intimacy, love and connection in a relationship --- they do, just as women do. They just view the role sex plays in that relationship differently. Women want to talk first, connect first, then have sex. For men, sex IS the connection. Sex is the language men use to express their tender loving vulnerable side. It is their language of intimacy.
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The Sly
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Thanks Cadet. . Busta and madam sheniqua for using the words ''Most of them or some'' All you others that are generalizing can smack your thick heads on the wall.
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merge (f)
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@ Uche
I don't care if all men do this I discussing about only Nigerian men
Just because the majority does something it does not make it right !!!
She has not rescued you !!!
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sheniqua
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Now seriously, there are some real good men out there that don't think with their privates only. I lied, sex is like food to them. 
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Uche2nna (m)
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It does not make sense to single out a particular group of men because of some tendencies that are supposed to be general. Kind of like asking why do "Nigerian women have breasts" 
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Cadet (f)
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Now seriously, there are some real good men out there that don't think with their privates only. I lied, sex is like food to them.  You're right, there are really good ones around. . .  Thanks Cadet. . Busta and madam sheniqua for using the words ''Most of them or some'' All you others that are generalizing can smack your thick heads on the wall.
hehehehhee, you're welcome na
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merge (f)
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There is a lot of bad ones too. 
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Cadet (f)
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There is a lot of bad ones too.  Too much of them around
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merge (f)
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@ Uche
Would you leave your woman because of this?
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