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sheniqua
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #160 on: May 12, 2008, 03:37 PM »

Quote from: jay bee on May 12, 2008, 03:22 PM
Plus paying a "price" as it's meant to be some game now.
Too much significance attached to that act called sex sef

I said this earlier on the thread
sex is so over rated
for those us us with resident "abunnas" on our beds, it's not even everytime you want it Lips sealed
sometimes all you want to do is chat, cuddle, just hang out, period.
Sex is just a part of the relationship and not the foundation

@ Seun are you telling me you'll leave your wife if she's unable to have sex due to pregnancy or other gynecological issues?
jennykadry (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #161 on: May 12, 2008, 03:39 PM »

men should stop demanding for sex,let them change that their mentality of sex being d main thing,and wtout it the relationship wont work out?they feel its a favour they r rendering to the woman,the most annoying is that they give it out as if its a condition ,some will tell d girls "if u don't give me sex im going to get outside,so if u know u don't want to loose me lets do it" i advise d girls ,any man that come tells u that shit i highlighted ,please do me a favour and sandpaper his face wt atleast slaps that will last him a life time
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #162 on: May 12, 2008, 03:40 PM »

Quote from: jennykadry on May 12, 2008, 03:39 PM
men should stop demanding for sex,let them change that their mentality of sex being d main thing,and wtout it the relationship wont work out?they feel its a favour they r rendering to the woman,the most annoying is that they give it out as if its a condition ,some will tell d girls "if u don't give me sex im going to get outside,so if u know u don't want to loose me lets do it" i advise d girls ,any man that come tells u that shit i highlighted ,please do me a favour and sandpaper his face wt atleast slaps that will last him a life time

Thank you for your good advice Smiley Smiley Smiley
ibkaye (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #163 on: May 12, 2008, 03:40 PM »

Quote from: jennykadry on May 12, 2008, 03:39 PM
men should stop demanding for sex,let them change that their mentality of sex being d main thing,and wtout it the relationship wont work out?they feel its a favour they r rendering to the woman,the most annoying is that they give it out as if its a condition ,some will tell d girls "if u don't give me sex im going to get outside,so if u know u don't want to loose me lets do it" i advise d girls ,any man that come tells u that shit i highlighted ,please do me a favour and sandpaper his face wt atleast slaps that will last him a life time
will do! Cheesy
sheniqua
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #164 on: May 12, 2008, 03:42 PM »

Quote from: jennykadry on May 12, 2008, 03:39 PM
men should stop demanding for sex,let them change that their mentality of sex being d main thing,and wtout it the relationship wont work out?they feel its a favour they r rendering to the woman,the most annoying is that they give it out as if its a condition ,some will tell d girls "if u don't give me sex im going to get outside,so if u know u don't want to loose me lets do it" i advise d girls ,any man that come tells u that shit i highlighted ,please do me a favour and sandpaper his face wt atleast slaps that will last him a life time

ROFL
and whats' to say he won't go outside after that?
infact any man giving such ultimatum is already looking elsewhere or chopping elsewhere sef
the only one to be trusted is God
all humans are subject to falling.
jay bee (m)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #165 on: May 12, 2008, 03:42 PM »

Quote from: merge on May 12, 2008, 03:35 PM
You should just remain friends with her since you can't not wait.

She waited 22 years of her life so I don't pity you for waiting 5 years.

I am sure you will agree with me that a lot will definitely happen within d prospective five years. We are in a world full of temptations as such. Do you know girls literally throw 'emselves at some men this days so how he his going to be able to remain friends for five years without even sleeping with some other girl is left to be desired.

Nothing is impossible but we just ask our beloved sistas to be realistic most times
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #166 on: May 12, 2008, 03:43 PM »

Quote from: sheniqua on May 12, 2008, 03:42 PM
ROFL
and whats' to say he won't go outside after that?
infact any man giving such ultimatum is already looking elsewhere or chopping elsewhere sef
the only one to be trusted is God
all humans are subject to falling.

You are right !!!
vicade (m)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #167 on: May 12, 2008, 03:44 PM »

No disrespect meant but ,For all those by the way who think sex is over rated, they should go and figure. Maybe they are not just doing it right Smiley Smiley Smiley
ibkaye (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #168 on: May 12, 2008, 03:44 PM »

can you imagine, some men even have it in their minds that 'because i bought you recharge card we have must have sex', ridiculous  Undecided
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #169 on: May 12, 2008, 03:44 PM »

Quote from: jay bee on May 12, 2008, 03:42 PM
I am sure you will agree with me that a lot will definitely happen within d prospective five years. We are in a world full of temptations as such. Do you know girls literally throw 'emselves at some men this days so how he his going to be able to remain friends for five years without even sleeping with some other girl is left to be desired.

Nothing is impossible but we just ask our beloved sistas to be realistic most times

Do you know that men throw themselves at women these day?
jennykadry (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #170 on: May 12, 2008, 03:45 PM »

and some of them can't give u 400 naira mtn recharge card wtout asking for sex
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #171 on: May 12, 2008, 03:45 PM »

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"if u don't give me sex im going to get outside,so if u know u don't want to loose me lets do it" i advise d girls ,any man that come tells u that shit i highlighted ,please do me a favour and sandpaper his face

Trust me!!!
sheniqua
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #172 on: May 12, 2008, 03:45 PM »

infact jenny any man that says "if you don't give me sex,I'll go outside"
The woman should say ,"Go outside na, haba!!"
what type of threat is that
na only im sabi outside?
Am I disabled?
Uche2nna (m)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #173 on: May 12, 2008, 03:46 PM »

Quote from: merge on May 12, 2008, 03:44 PM
Do you know that men throw themselves at women these day?

How do You mean?  Undecided
ibkaye (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #174 on: May 12, 2008, 03:46 PM »

Quote from: jennykadry on May 12, 2008, 03:45 PM
and some of them can't give u 400 naira mtn recharge card wtout asking for sex
next they will be asking for sex in return for buying you a stick of gum
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #175 on: May 12, 2008, 03:47 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on May 12, 2008, 03:46 PM
next they will be asking for sex in return for buying you a stick of gum

LOL  Cheesy Grin
Uche2nna (m)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #176 on: May 12, 2008, 03:47 PM »

Quote from: jennykadry on May 12, 2008, 03:45 PM
and some of them can't give u 400 naira mtn recharge card wtout asking for sex

Well, it depends on the agreement between the collector and the collectee
jennykadry (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #177 on: May 12, 2008, 03:50 PM »

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infact jenny any man that says "if you don't give me sex,I'll go outside"
The woman should say ,"Go outside na, haba!!"
what type of threat is that
na only im sabi outside?
Am I disabled?


osisi you're too nice sef to say Go outside haba

i think d girl should personally help d guy and go outside look for a woman and  bring d woman to  him

then she should  tell him u don't need to go outside,ive done d going outside for u,just have fun, no stress
ibkaye (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #178 on: May 12, 2008, 03:52 PM »

Quote from: jennykadry on May 12, 2008, 03:50 PM

osisi you're too nice sef to say Go outside haba

i think d girl should personally help d guy and go outside look for a woman and bring d woman to him

then she should tell him u don't need to go outside,ive done d going outside for u,just have fun, no stress
hehehehe no stress  Cool
sheniqua
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #179 on: May 12, 2008, 03:52 PM »

Quote from: vicade on May 12, 2008, 03:44 PM
No disrespect meant but ,For all those by the way who think sex is over rated, they should go and figure. Maybe they are not just doing it right Smiley Smiley Smiley

I said it twice I'll say it again
SEX is overated

Any married person will tell you that
people think when they can morally have sex with a spouse, it goes on forever nonstop from the garage to the attic.
No way Jose!
IT's good don't get me wrong but there's a whole lot more to  a good marriage than sex.
Ask any married woman that works full time and raising a family ,she'll tell you sometimes sex is no way on her schedule for the day no matter what magical  acrobatic skills he may have.
jay bee (m)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #180 on: May 12, 2008, 03:53 PM »

Quote from: jennykadry on May 12, 2008, 03:45 PM
and some of them can't give u 400 naira mtn recharge card wtout asking for sex

As long has he ain't asking you out then he def ain't got the right to be demanding such.
What if he was, then why r u asking him to buy you recharge card?

You cannot blame men for demanding such 'because sistas have been known to abuse even good gestures by men (mugus et al)

Do u know our most of our lovely sistas will ask you for a drink before you dance with them (So isn't this double standard?).
sheniqua
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #181 on: May 12, 2008, 03:54 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on May 12, 2008, 03:46 PM
next they will be asking for sex in return for buying you a stick of gum

ROFL
sex for bazooka joe
vicade (m)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #182 on: May 12, 2008, 03:55 PM »

Quote from: sheniqua on May 12, 2008, 03:52 PM
I said it twice I'll say it again
SEX is overated

Any married person will tell you that
people think when they can morally have sex with a spouse, it goes on forever nonstop from the garage to the attic.
No way Jose!
IT's good don't get me wrong but there's a whole lot more to  a good marriage than sex.
Ask any married woman that works full time and raising a family ,she'll tell you sometimes sex is no way on her schedule for the day no matter what magical  acrobatic skills he may have.

maybe because i am not married it is difficult for me to comprehend.
Point taken. I am delaying my marriage by a couple of more years
ibkaye (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #183 on: May 12, 2008, 03:56 PM »

hah! not only will some of them threaten to 'search outside', they will even start to accuse you of not loving them  Lips sealed
saucekid (m)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #184 on: May 12, 2008, 03:58 PM »

minus me Grin
jennykadry (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #185 on: May 12, 2008, 03:58 PM »

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As long has he ain't asking you out then he def ain't got the right to be demanding such.
What if he was, then why r u asking him to buy you recharge card?

You cannot blame men for demanding such 'because sistas have been known to abuse even good gestures by men (mugus et al)

Do u know our most of our lovely sistas will ask you for a drink before you dance with them (So isn't this double standard?).

a woman doesnt have to beg a man for credit,read this

man:how come u havent called me for a long time

girl:hey i would have called ,but i don't have credit on my phone,don't worry i will load my phone soon and call u

man:oh no ,what line r u using,its mtn i know

girl:yes,why do u ask?

man:because i want to buy u credit

girl:but i told u i'll be loading my card today?

man:ah nay just let me do this one thing for u,why don't u come over to my place and collect the credit

girl:no i don't have time,y not send d pin

man:all this fraudsters this days,have a way of listening to conversatons between people,they might end up listening to me as i call d pin numbers


some men wont change
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #186 on: May 12, 2008, 03:59 PM »

Quote
As long has he ain't asking you out then he def ain't got the right to be demanding such.
What if he was, then why r u asking him to buy you recharge card?

You see why I don't collect gifts from men Cheesy
sheniqua
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #187 on: May 12, 2008, 04:00 PM »

Quote from: jennykadry on May 12, 2008, 03:50 PM

osisi you're too nice sef to say Go outside haba

i think d girl should personally help d guy and go outside look for a woman and bring d woman to him

then she should tell him u don't need to go outside,ive done d going outside for u,just have fun, no stress

mba jenny!!
that'll be suicidal
how you go take knack objects for im head and the girl's if na you bring am?
merge (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #188 on: May 12, 2008, 04:00 PM »

Quote from: stillwater on May 12, 2008, 03:59 PM
You see why I don't collect gifts from men Cheesy


I don't even too.  Cheesy Grin Cheesy
ibkaye (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #189 on: May 12, 2008, 04:01 PM »

Quote from: stillwater on May 12, 2008, 03:59 PM
You see why I don't collect gifts from men Cheesy
lol abi o because next thing you know  Lips sealed
saucekid (m)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #190 on: May 12, 2008, 04:03 PM »

next thing you know is nuffin
jennykadry (f)
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Put Sex Before Everything?
« #191 on: May 12, 2008, 04:04 PM »

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mba jenny!!
that'll be suicidal
how you go take knack objects for im head and the girl's if na you bring am?

mbanu osisi,a guy that threatens a girl because of her refusal to do wt him,does not deserve that girls hitting objects skills,if na husband fine but just boyfriend,haba when they r other reasonable guys to attend to,the only thing d girl has to do is kick both of them out of your way(that is if they r blocking u) and walk out
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