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ibkaye (f)
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next thing you know is nuffin
in some cases   |
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sheniqua
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lol abi o because next thing you know  good job girls. The average naija man thinks as long as you accept his gifts he has a right to your "Jericho" Gladly decline the gifts. Many girls ought to be doing this. |
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vicade (m)
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I just want to clear something. Does no sex also mean no smooching, no kissing and no sucking  |
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saucekid (m)
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anyways shathats the average naija man who thinks with his balls
i aint the average naija man
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jay bee (m)
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a woman doesn't have to beg a man for credit,read this
man:how come u haven't called me for a long time
girl:hey i would have called ,but i don't have credit on my phone,don't worry i will load my phone soon and call u
man:oh no ,what line r u using,its mtn i know
girl:yes,why do u ask?
man:because i want to buy u credit
girl:but i told u i'll be loading my card today?
man:ah nay just let me do this one thing for u,why don't u come over to my place and collect the credit
girl:no i don't have time,y not send d pin
man:all this fraudsters this days,have a way of listening to conversatons between people,they might end up listening to me as i call d pin numbers
some men wont change
I c, his thinking might be leaning towards: "I have to make her believe i have nuff Cheddars in ma pocket" Okay i am not making any excuse for such behaviour but believe me he would have only tried it because some other random chick has giving in to such behaviour in the past. Check this out, I am on a 2 wks hols in naija and i get introduced to this chick. Took everyone out (d girl even invited her firends plus the introducer) to an all expense paid dinner. Straight after the dinner she started asking for money for her hair and stuffs (Please bear in mind that i have only met or spoken to her once in ma life) So what da heck am i suppose to think (all she wants is money and all i will probably get from her is sex) or do in that instance?. |
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merge (f)
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anyways shathats the average naija man who thinks with his balls
i aint the average naija man
Thanks god there are some with sense.  |
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ibkaye (f)
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good job girls.
The average naija man thinks as long as you accept his gifts he has a right to your "Jericho"
Gladly decline the gifts.
Many girls ought to be doing this.
infact don't even just decline it, spit on it, nonsense |
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Tattooboy (m)
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@poster u all are crazy, all u think about is SEX SEX SEX, damn am not going to reply this damn thread  |
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merge (f)
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I c, his thinking might be leaning towards: "I have to make her believe i have nuff Cheddars in ma pocket"
Okay i am not making any excuse for such behaviour but believe me he would have only tried it because some other random chick has giving in to such behaviour in the past.
Check this out,
I am on a 2 wks hols in naija and i get introduced to this chick.
Took everyone out (d girl even invited her firends plus the introducer) to an all expense paid dinner.
Straight after the dinner she started asking for money for her hair and stuffs (Please bear in mind that i have only met or spoken to her once in ma life)
So what da heck am i suppose to think (all she wants is money and all i will probably get from her is sex) or do in that instance?.
You will throw away a good woman for a cheap one. |
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merge (f)
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@poster u all are crazy, all u think about is SEX SEX SEX, damn am not going to reply this damn thread I figured out your game LOL !!! You know it is true. |
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vicade (m)
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No need for you girls to get fancy. Some of the female nairalanders here are married and independent
Go to Olabisi Onabajo University, you see a girl iand offer her credit(100 naira) and free lunch she will do anything(70% of them ) and thank you. In UNILAG, take a girl to the cinemas and ask her and see if she wont succumb
My point is some girls are dignifed and don't succumb to such but such girls using a sample of girls in higher institutions in Nigeria are less than 10%
You can't compare thoughts of a working class lady or married ladies like we have on nairaland to that of an undergraduate in UNILAG or OSU. Most of these girls offer themselves and i think such girls should also be given criticsim instead of blaming only the guys.
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merge (f)
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No need for you girls to get fancy. Some of the female nairalanders here are married and independent
Go to Olabisi Onabajo University, you see a girl iand offer her credit(100 naira) and free lunch she will do anything(70% of them ) and thank you. In UNILAG, take a girl to the cinemas and ask her and see if she wont succumb
My point is some girls are dignifed and don't succumb to such but such girls using a sample of girls in higher institutions in Nigeria are less than 10%
You can't compare thoughts of a working class lady or married ladies like we have on nairaland to that of an undergraduate in UNILAG or OSU. Most of these girls offer themselves and i think such girls should also be given criticsim instead of blaming only the guys.
Just like men are willing to sleep with a woman but she still remains a virgin !!! There is no difference Both are accountable for their action. |
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sheniqua
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I c, his thinking might be leaning towards: "I have to make her believe i have nuff Cheddars in ma pocket"
Okay i am not making any excuse for such behaviour but believe me he would have only tried it because some other random chick has giving in to such behaviour in the past.
Check this out,
I am on a 2 wks hols in naija and i get introduced to this chick.
Took everyone out (d girl even invited her firends plus the introducer) to an all expense paid dinner.
Straight after the dinner she started asking for money for her hair and stuffs (Please bear in mind that i have only met or spoken to her once in ma life)
So what da heck am i suppose to think (all she wants is money and all i will probably get from her is sex) or do in that instance?.
sad but it's true A girl on this forum made a claim of getting gifts from men she didn't even like and when I rebuked her,she got all "sheniqua " on me  I don't know if it's poverty or just plain stupidity what she didn't tell us are the gifts she's been giving them |
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vicade (m)
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@merge
try and think of it from a perspective of girls in higher institutions. There is alot of peer pressure and other factors.
You can't compare actions of a girl who is 28 and an undergraduate to the one who is 28 and independent with a nice job. Different priorities and different actions.
I have seen these things happen especially in OSU and they happen for real. it is a 50-50 scenario.In the higher institution both guys and ladies are to blame. AS for marriage and advanced relationships, i am yet to get there
as a 50-50 scenario, another topic can also be:
WHY DO OSU GIRLS THINK WITH SEX THEY CAN GET EVERYTHING ?
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Busta (f)
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@poster u all are crazy, all u think about is SEX SEX SEX, damn am not going to reply this damn thread LOL . . .too late, u already did |
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jay bee (m)
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@sheniqua
Thanks for concurring
Sad but through. I am just very lucky that i am the only boy last born with x senior sistas whom r all married.
God knows what i would have done if i had a younger sis like that.
I do treat women with respect and most importantly respect their choice. I have dated (please note the date as i am not confirming more than that) more than 4 virgins in the past
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stillwater (f)
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WHY DO OSU GIRLS THINK WITH SEX THEY CAN GET EVERYTHING ? Because the men have proven that with sex, get ready to be showered with gifts. |
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sheniqua
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@merge
try and think of it from a perspective of girls in higher institutions. There is alot of peer pressure and other factors.
You can't compare actions of a girl who is 28 and an undergraduate to the one who is 28 and independent with a nice job. Different priorities and different actions.
I have seen these things happen especially in OSU and they happen for real. it is a 50-50 scenario.In the higher institution both guys and ladies are to blame. AS for marriage and advanced relationships, i am yet to get there
as a 50-50 scenario, another topic can also be:
WHEN DO OSU GIRLS THINK WITH SEX THEY CAN GET EVERYTHING ?
I was once an undergraduate too. good morals don't creep up on people after marriage a girl who ran around with men for money will probably be running around on her husband. It's as simple as that. a whore is a whore,married or single unless a miracle happens. but that 70% figure I disagree with |
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merge (f)
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@merge
try and think of it from a perspective of girls in higher institutions. There is alot of peer pressure and other factors.
You can't compare actions of a girl who is 28 and an undergraduate to the one who is 28 and independent with a nice job. Different priorities and different actions.
I have seen these things happen especially in OSU and they happen for real. it is a 50-50 scenario.In the higher institution both guys and ladies are to blame. AS for marriage and advanced relationships, i am yet to get there
as a 50-50 scenario, another topic can also be:
WHY DO OSU GIRLS THINK WITH SEX THEY CAN GET EVERYTHING ?
It still does not make it right for a man to leave a woman because she wants to remain a virgin until marriage. |
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Busta (f)
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which one is OSU girls again? |
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merge (f)
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Because the men have proven that with sex, get ready to be showered with gifts.
True !!! |
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ibkaye (f)
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@Busta
Ogun State University Girls
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saucekid (m)
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hehehehe
what abour LASU,UNILAG,UNICAL,UNIABUJA,UNIPORT,UNIBEN girls?
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Busta (f)
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@Busta
Ogun State University Girls
thx hun . . OSU girls lol. . . not a good acroynm is u ask me |
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vicade (m)
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dOES A MAN OFFER MONEY BECAUSE HE WANTS SEX OR DOES A GIRL OFFER HER BODY BECAUSE SHE WANTS MONEY?
I think it is both so ladies and guys are both to blame.
I am not talking about marriage now. I am talking about relationships among youths so our married aunties and independent sisters should come down to our level. It will be hard for an undegraduate to wait six years to have sex with his girlfirend during marriage-That is just the truth.
For the older bunch, 6 years may be chickenfeed.
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merge (f)
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dOES A MAN OFFER MONEY BECAUSE HE WANTS SEX OR DOES A GIRL OFFER HER BODY BECAUSE SHE WANTS MONEY?
I think it is both so ladies and guys are both to blame.
I am not talking about marriage now. I am talking about relationships among youths so our married aunties and independent sisters should come down to our level. It will be hard for an undegraduate to wait six years to have sex with his girlfirend during marriage-That is just the truth.
For the older bunch, 6 years may be chickenfeed.
What level are you talking about? |
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sheniqua
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It is sad how low some girls really sink.
Thank God I was in Christian union and serving God on campus
who knows what I would have done
I have witnessed girls come back to the hostels after a weekend and start counting their naira bills unashamedly
Village girls probably being sponsored by the community change overnight,their clothings change,they come back with refrigerators,stereo sets and rugs
I'm talking girls who couldn't even afford lux soap a semester earlier and of course the stream of men coming in and picking them up.
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ibkaye (f)
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It is sad how low some girls really sink.
Thank God I was in Christian union and serving God on campus
who knows what I would have done
I have witnessed girls come back to the hostels after a weekend and start counting their naira bills unashamedly
Village girls probably being sponsored by the community change overnight,their clothings change,they come back with refrigerators,stereo sets and rugs
I'm talking girls who couldn't even afford lux soap a semester earlier and of course the stream of men coming in and picking them up.
lol |
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stillwater (f)
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I am talking about relationships among youths so our married aunties and independent sisters should come down to our level. It will be hard for an undegraduate to wait six years to have sex with his girlfirend during marriage-That is just the truth. Better to face your studies than pursue meaningless relationships. I wonder why people go to school and having a relationship becomes their number one priority. Is that what you came to school to do? |
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vicade (m)
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The level i mean is the level of students. SIngle,young and Youthful Students. As a student my thinking ,actions and orientationare different from that of a married man or a working class lady
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sheniqua
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Better to face your studies than pursue meaningless relationships. I wonder why people go to school and having a relationship becomes their number one priority. Is that what you came to school to do?
ask him o shouldn't he be studying for the quizzes,midterms and finals and leave the girls alone |
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