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nairaguy (m)
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omo forget the dating for a long time thing, it does work, don't get me wrong - but if someone was getting nookie outside but seemed to be 'waiting' then its not really waiting.
that is why guys see some girls as fish brains because dey aint keeping it real. I once dated a chic whom i slept with about a week after i asked her out. afterwards we had it countless time. for the records i made her a woman. she has been holding on for a long time. u wont say she was cheap because no oda guy succeeded in taking her to bed until i did. d day i made love to her , we both dint plan it. it just happened. i told her i dint want to pretend that i don't like sex but that i was a one-woman man. and that is d truth. she bilivd me and dint fail to tell me she dint know how i did it. why she had to trust me when she's weary of oda guys. today we are apart for some complicated reason but guess what "i wish we werent both AS, i would av married her". for us, it was real love.i guess we connected fast and when we hit it she discovered i respected her d more and felt relaxd in d relation to d point that she cud undress infront of me and did not hesitate to make love wenever we were in the mood. today she is my best friend and am finding it difficult to let go. it's even worse now because am thinking of settling down and am yet to see a girl with that level of trust. am not saying u should jump into bed with any guy just after one week of sying yes. all am saying is, just be pragmatic. a guy can "wait" for 3 years just to get a piece of your thing while cutting shows outside and afterwards he's gone. If i have one wish i will make either or both of us AA and marry her straitaway for seeing through me and surrendering her all. To be honest, i don't blame d chics. its hard to find a guy who will respect them after seeing dia nakedness tho she was sceptical after d first time but today she is using me as a yard stick for oda guys. she keeps telling me am so different |
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spoilt (f)
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Some guys are obsessed with sex. One date and they are already all over you like hot honey. During my dating years, it got to a point where if a guy so much as mentioned sex, i would delete his name from my phone. I had had it. Couldnt they see me for me? I had so much to offer but they only wanted to see spoilt naked. If a guy leaves you because you didnt 'drop', my sister kneel down and thank your Jesus for doing away with the enemy for you!  Sex does not pay the bills, it does not put porridge in your bowls. It is just one tiny aspect of marriage. Its true that experience truly is the best teacher.  |
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acidrop (f)
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sex make u more ugly, that y majority of them a NIgerian men are u****y
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sheniqua
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Some guys are obsessed with sex. One date and they are already all over you like hot honey. During my dating years, it got to a point where if a guy so much as mentioned sex, i would delete his name from my phone. I had had it. Couldnt they see me for me? I had so much to offer but they only wanted to see spoilt naked. If a guy leaves you because you didnt 'drop', my sister kneel down and thank your Jesus for doing away with the enemy for you! Sex does not pay the bills, it does not put porridge in your bowls. It is just one tiny aspect of marriage. Its true that experience truly is the best teacher. LOL |
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debosky (m)
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na wa oh! sex before everything? does that mean they try to have sex with you before knowing your name? |
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nairaguy (m)
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sex make u more ugly, that y majority of them a NIgerian men are u****y so what are u trying to say? as soon as u get married and your husband starts having sex with u, he will become uglier  if yes, why did God put that thing dia if it makes a man uglier as he performs his role? if no, does sex know when a guy is married? A guy of 27 can be married and be having sex constantly until he is 30. while also another guy of same age bracket can have constant sex with his girlfriend for the same period. Marriage just makes it official. it doesnt stop d effect on d body whether u are married or not. Sex before Marriage is just a moral issue. i wish i cud do without it before marriage but hey! I can't.  ;)The only thing i ensure is that I love her enough to marry her. so for me if i do it before i marry her , no qualms. Sex is not the in-thing for me but it's one sweet ingredient for TRUE LOVERS. come to think of it, love making should b 4 Lovers. after alls they are only living it up as the name implies-LOVERS. The question should be "Why make love to a girl/guy u don't love? " |
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spoilt (f)
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@debosky sometimes. bizarre but true. I got into some sticky situations fending off randy toads! |
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4 Him (m)
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sex make u more ugly, that y majority of them a NIgerian men are u****y
certainly you've never had sex before. |
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nairaguy (m)
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i hate to sound like am advocating for pre-marital sex. if u know me very well, i don't like encouraging such but i feel like i can manage myself and am only being real afteralls this platforms provides for anonymity. guys stop all this fronting  if u must know. i hate guys who force chics to have sex with them against dia wish. to me, its a sign of weakness and cheapness. if you're sure of ursef , u don't av to force her. it's ok to make advances and if she feels like it , fine. otherwise let her be. I respect ladies a lot. i mean a lotttttttttttttt. i once tried to make love to my chic but all she wanted was a romance without sex. she dint say so until i was about penetrating.  and i let her be, even though we were both NAKED!!!!!!!  |
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acidrop (f)
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yes now. u will become uglier datz y God put it there, so that the men wont go off @ another women since he is now uglier, but people has changed everything. certainly you've never had sex before. n y u say that? |
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4 Him (m)
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naijaguy, no one is fronting . . . you want to have sex before marriage fine. Some others would rather honor the woman and let her call the shots when it comes to if she wants to give herself before marriage or not . . . fine too. Different strokes for different folks.
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acidrop (f)
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so what are u trying to say? as soon as u get married and your husband starts having sex with u, he will become uglier if yes, why did God put that thing dia if it makes a man uglier as he performs his role? if no, does sex know when a guy is married? A guy of 27 can be married and be having sex constantly until he is 30. while also another guy of same age bracket can have constant sex with his girlfriend for the same period. Marriage just makes it official. it doesnt stop d effect on d body whether u are married or not. Sex before Marriage is just a moral issue. i wish i cud do without it before marriage but hey! I can't. ;)The only thing i ensure is that I love her enough to marry her. so for me if i do it before i marry her , no qualms. Sex is not the in-thing for me but it's one sweet ingredient for TRUE LOVERS. come to think of it, love making should b 4 Lovers. after alls they are only living it up as the name implies-LOVERS. The question should be "Why make love to a girl/guy u don't love? " so u will rather have sex before marriage. so how do u love the woman then? |
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spoilt (f)
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You don't have to physically force a man or woman.When you whine and whine and grovel and pressurize that person it makes the person give in against their will and that is not cool.
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D-reloaded (f)
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*sighs* children.
anyway naijaguy, sorry to hear about the health issue between you and your girl
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nairaguy (m)
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quote]so u will rather have sex before marriage. so how do u love the woman then? Helloooooooo! what are trying to say for so long, By the way, how old are u? because am beginning to doubt your IQ  |
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D-reloaded (f)
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alot of children in the thread, dude.
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4 Him (m)
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o boy take am easy o, na pikin.
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nairaguy (m)
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quote]You don't have to physically force a man or woman.When you whine and whine and grovel and pressurize that person it makes the person give in against their will and that is not cool. Exactly my point! As soon as u notice she doesnt want to do it but may give in just to please u , don't do it! Her willingness to do it against her will, for me, its enough to demonstrate her love. why not appreciate that bitter truth and act maturedly to reciprocate her respect and love for u |
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The Sly
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hmmmmmmmmm na wah!. . .Children plenty for hia. . . Back to my charts. |
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nairaguy (m)
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anyway naijaguy, sorry to hear about the health issue between you and your girl
Thanks a great deal It's one of those things in life, Sometimes, i wish i dint meet her because it's really hard to say goodbye she was a bundle of support and encouragement The love making thing was just a way of expression. Our friendship was even stronger than the love making |
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D-reloaded (f)
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naijaguy, as much as I respect the fact that you were still close with your girl despite evrything, you have to consider that alot of them feel the need to o the whole "wait for 8 years" bullshit because they believe if they don't, the guy will do a "hit a run", and really you can't blame them
Guys like you are sincerely 1 in 10,000. You didnt jdge or look down on yours despite how soon you two got together but most Nigerian males are the complete opposite in that aspect thus the mindset of the women
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nkc (m)
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sex pays d bills  |
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nairaguy (m)
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naijaguy, as much as I respect the fact that you were still close with your girl despite evrything, you have to consider that alot of them feel the need to o the whole "wait for 8 years" bullshit because they believe if they don't, the guy will do a "hit a run", and really you can't blame them
Guys like you are sincerely 1 in 10,000. You didnt jdge or look down on yours despite how soon you two got together but most Nigerian males are the complete opposite in that aspect thus the mindset of the women D-reloaded, i completely agree with u. i said that at the end of my first post To be honest, i don't blame d chics. its hard to find a guy who will respect them after seeing dia nakedness You didnt jdge or look down on yours despite how soon you two got together Why should i ? when all she did was to trust me and give in But do u know it takes a lot of energy trying to play the "deceit game" when u can just settle for one sweet and nice girl that drives u crazy and peace of mind. |
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acidrop (f)
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sex pays d bills are u a male prostitute |
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t0kunb0 (m)
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SEX is over-rated It's a social activity like drinking or smoking, we all can't agree because we see & respect it differently. Stop condemming those who "do it more often" than u, it don't make u any better than them keep it real  |
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hanksgirl (f)
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@ the topic: i think the reason this happens is because guys think 'sex' all the time. i feel its our job to keep them thinking straight from time to time!!!! |
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Busta (f)
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SEX is over-rated It's a social activity like drinking or smoking, we all can't agree because we see & respect it differently. Stop condemming those who "do it more often" than u, it don't make u any better than them keep it real Abegthank u oh. if I open mouth they will condemn. Its all mentality. |
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Busta (f)
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are u a male prostitute LMAO |
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Tattooboy (m)
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hi busty baby |
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Tattooboy (m)
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hanksgirl
@ the topic: i think the reason this happens is because guys think 'sex' all the time. hi newcomer, please don't generalize use some guys instead. u're welcome |
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Busta (f)
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Hey tattooboi  |
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Mugabe (m)
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Well i think it is natural that men are moved by what they see while the ladies are moved by what they hear.so by nature men posses a higher libido than the ladies.That is why sex means a lot to us the guys.so sorry if am hurting anybody
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