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kizzle (m)
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He's 31, she's 28,
they happen to be in love(as they claim). Few weeks to their wedding,he finds out that she was once a prostitute(BIG TIME),
He's confused as people tell him to forget about her past life and carry on with the marriage,
Great Nairalanders,if it were you, would you marry her?
please post your comments
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9ja boi (m)
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Y not?
they r more xperienced sexually,
what else r u looking for in a woman?
if not sex.
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kizzle (m)
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@Nigeria boy
this is a very serious issue as the marriage is at stake here,
this is not an issue of sex.the dude is scared,
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clemcykul
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@topic hell no!
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omekele (m)
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[[i]i]Behold OLD THINGS are passed away, EVERYTHING becomes NEW
The devil you know today is better than the angel you have not seen
enjoy, life goes on.
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ibkaye (f)
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Y not?
they r more xperienced sexually,
what else r u looking for in a woman?
if not sex.
nawa o  |
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tngtech (m)
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Yea i will marry her, because her past doesn't matter to her neither to me.
But one thing i will be angry about is that she refuse to tell me about her past life which could lead to the end of that relationship.
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Agbon21
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Past is past. Get tested, make sure she is clean and go on about life. If she tries it again, Throw her in a well somewhere  (just kidding) |
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9ja boi (m)
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nawa o What is with d nawa? Can't u marry a porn star? |
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ibkaye (f)
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What is with d nawa?
Can't u marry a porn star?
Hmmm, well, maybe But i was 'nawa o'ing' at your 'what else r u looking for in a woman? if not sex' comment  |
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welli (f)
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Y not?
they r more xperienced sexually,
what else r u looking for in a woman if not sex
der are more tins u need in a woman oda dan sex |
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ibkaye (f)
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der are more tins u need in a woman oda dan sex
Thankyou jare  |
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tngtech (m)
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der are more tins u need in a woman oda dan sex
things like, ? |
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9ja boi (m)
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What differentiates a prostitute from an ordinary girl?
A whore sexes 4 money,
We have sex with an ordinary girl(chic) and pay her indirectly by paying for her hair do, buy her things, recharge her phone, she lives on my salary.
please,
is there any difference?
Men, I don't think so,
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HR.hotness (f)
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I wouldn't expect it should be a problem (with some men u never know)
If they are both sure that part of her life is over then why not
prostitutes are realists, worldly and streetwise
they have no illusions of romance and fairlytales,,, they've experienced life at its worsts and i expect any one who willingly retires would be ready to live out the rest of her life in peaceful existence.
for this reason, i think they would make good wives as they have years of experience in pleasing men plus they would have mastered the art of thinkin with their heads rather than their heart.
perhaps my view is very optimistic but it makes sense to me
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HR.hotness (f)
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What differentiates a prostitute from an ordinary girl?
A whore sexes 4 money,
We have sex with an ordinary girl(chic) and pay her indirectly by paying for her hair do, buy her things, recharge her phone, she lives on my salary.
please,
is there any difference?
Men, I don't think so,
that statement says alot about the kind of person you are,,, if u think of all women in this light, i expect u think of your mother and sisters in the same way, no? |
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ibkaye (f)
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What differentiates a prostitute from an ordinary girl?
A whore sexes 4 money,
We have sex with an ordinary girl(chic) and pay her indirectly by paying for her hair do, buy her things, recharge her phone, she lives on my salary.please,
is there any difference?
Men, I don't think so,
what happened to providing these things for her out of the goodness of your heart and not just for sex even still, who told you you must spend so much money on her? by the way, not all girls are like that |
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welli (f)
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Nigeria boi,i did nt say der was a big diff between an ordinary girl nd a pros,i only said women are of alotta use oda dan sex. besides i can only marry a pros if i were a male on one condition nd that is if she's willing to giv up d act. @ tngtech, oda dan sex,u need a woman strength to lean on @ times,u need smone to play a mother role @ times outside your mum,u need smone u can care for life is actually useless witout sm1 to care for,above all ,u need sm1 to tell u about jesus  |
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ztyle (m)
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*Still Watching*
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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not a problem. . . . , . . . . she should go get tested tho
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ztyle (m)
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. . .what kind of test? u didn't stated it.
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kayowalemi (m)
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If thou not be a sinner cast the first STONE. YOU SAID ONCE A PROSITITUTE AND NOW NOT ANYMORE, I WILL MARRY HER.
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kizzle (m)
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you guys don't seem to understand what we are talking about here, we are talkting about marriage to a "WHORE"
think about it, imagine going down to an ASHAWO motel and asking for one of the ASHAWO's hand in marriage!!!!
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ibkaye (f)
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you guys don't seem to understand what we are talking about here, we are talkting about marriage to a "WHORE"
think about it, imagine going down to an ASHAWO motel and asking for one of the WHORE hand in marriage!!!!
but if i can recall your post stated that 'Few weeks to their wedding,he finds out that she was once a prostitute(BIG TIME), He's confused as people tell him to forget about her past life and carry on with the marriage' There's a difference between the past and present |
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uspry1 (f)
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Yes, there is nothing wrong with getting married to girl, who used to be prostitute in the past, now not anymore!
Same reason some people married to ex-convict spouse!
Some married to ex-exotic dancer spouse!
Some married to ex-drug addict spouse!
Some married to ex-bad boy/girl spouse!
Some married to ex-militant spouse!
Some married to ex-sport players spouse!
Goes on. . .
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kizzle (m)
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@ibkaye
look im dead serious about this,
he found out weeks to his marriage, THEY AINT MARRIED YET !!
He feels he is still getting married to a fresh prostitute.
Ibkaye, i need your help on this and not you trying to tackle me ,
please,Render your help and stop reading inbetween the lines of my post !.
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outlaws (m)
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 Every guy should know her girl's past first before talking about marriage, I guess the guy in question is not smart enough to figure out what he is in for. I am guessing the guy in question is the poster. I have come to a situation like that with one lady, I suspected she was one of those, for what ever reason I don't know, I might be wrong, but I decided not to deal with her. It wasn't easy but that's what I had to do. Would you like to drink from a bottle of beer that have touched lips with many strangers in different health conditions?
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ibkaye (f)
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@ibkaye
look im dead serious about this,
he found out weeks to his marriage, THEY AINT MARRIED YET !!
He feels he is still getting married to a fresh prostitute.
Ibkaye, i need your help on this and not you trying to tackle me ,
please,Render your help and stop reading inbetween the lines of my post !.
I wasn't trying to tackle you o, but sorry if i sounded that way  Well, If he loves her he should try to look past her past life on 'Ashewo Lane', feel me? |
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9ja boi (m)
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wats d fuss about?
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stillwater (f)
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What differentiates a prostitute from an ordinary girl?
A whore sexes 4 money,
We have sex with an ordinary girl(chic) and pay her indirectly by paying for her hair do, buy her things, recharge her phone, she lives on my salary.
please,
is there any difference?
Men, I don't think so, Perfect reason I don't take things from men!!!!!! |
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ibkaye (f)
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Perfect reason I don't take things from men!!!!!!
exactly! can you imagine, they buy you a few recharge cards so because of that you owe them sex, nonsense  |
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jay bee (m)
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I don't know if i can (simply because i think one has to be in such situation to be able to judge properly) but i guess if she is free from any sort of STD one should be able to overlook the past.
I don't expect a virgin as a wife as i strongly believe every human being have their own past.
So because the girl as slept with x numbers of men in the past, probably collected money along the line equates to her not adopting that magic word CHANGE.
Men have also prostituted/abused their bodies along the line only that most don't collect money and the nature of our environment make it acceptable so i hate that world double standard.
Everyone has something very unique about 'em so we should hopefully be able to overlook past and just look damn forward
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