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bluenubian (f)
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hey y'all, i need some support right about now, im pretty much crying my heart out . how do u get over a someone that you thot was your soulmate and u guys were THE couple for 4 whole years.
well thats pretty much my story, i think i finally broken up with my boyfriend of 4 years. i say i think cause we have pretty much broken up at least 30 times the last 4 years. The relationship has been filled with mistrust, cheating, scandal and betrayal. he had 2 other relationships other than me the last 4 years, the first girl found out about me and broke up with him, but now, the second girl ( which is the obvious reason why we broke up) found out about me and she swears he loves her only and she says she' not going anywhere. i found out about her 6 months ago, but i stuck in the relationship pretty much to prove that i could change him and win him over, but she told me today she's waiting on him to leave me and is going to be with her so i figure i grant her her wish, let this game end, we even had a dog together which i lost cause the dog was a gift to him from a friend. but i had enough. now i really believe, once a cheater, always a cheater. i just pray to be strong and not get back in the relationship cause it was a very unhealthy one
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Zahymaka (m)
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hello blue, that guy's a complete jerk  . I know you're a tough girl and'll surely get over it. Don't listen to anyone who tells you not to cry -- it's a form of release. But don't wallow in self-pity. Go out, have some fun. You're in Tampa right? I went to Busch Gardens and Adventure Island -- they were super. Go on a shopping spree -- anything that'l take your mind of him. I hope this helps. |
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2cantango (f)
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Top advice Zah  I'm so sorry blue  I really feel your pain If I could I'd come and kick his dumb a$$ He doesn't deserve you!! What type of jerk cheats on his woman You are a beautiful person blue, you clearly have a lot to offer and that is what you deserve in return. Don't ever give anyone the power to affect your own happiness. If he loves you at all, he wouldn't be the one to make you cry. Let that skanky cow have him, and let your heart smile hun. We all know that there will come a day when she will be the one in tears when she finds out about his next victim. Know that we are all here for you - if you ever want to talk one on one, you know how to contact me Be strong sweetie You're in my prayers You know we love ya |
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bluenubian (f)
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thanks, i read this, this morning when i woke up, i really apprecaite your support, now i can go to work this am feeling a lot better, love u 2can, love u zahy
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eveseh (f)
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all am saying be stronge we guysm wasnt meant to be together if god said that u guys meant to be together all this wasnt gonna happend, just be stronge and u will find someone that will love and not to cheat on you,girl be stronge that's the world, LOVE GO LOVE COME |
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bolex (m)
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I had to check Blue's last posts on her profile to find this topic  tha's how much I care about your feelings and welfare Hey Blue , you know this thread aint complete without me  When I was feeling bad about such stuffs, you gave me exactly what I needed Now, it's time for me to pay you back hey Blue , guess what, You know when they say 'If it did not work out , Move on' I always say Don't Move on , MOVE UPAm sure your next boy - friend will make him(your ex) want to be with you again
You don't know the use of what you have until you loose itJust free your mind and move on well with your work and all Don't let your personal LOVE life affect your progress You got more than 50 more years in life No ring , in hand , No heart Break YetAll you doing now is feeling bad because It did not work out the way you thought it would be But why , Something's going to work out with you and someone else in future That's for shizzle You a great girl VERY VERY GREAT 1 AT THATWe all know it He is a tramp  ( did I just say that )  Yer , Proven and tested in The Engineer Bola's lab of Love and Lust and all other Relationship effectsThe nigga is a big tramp The day I spoke to him on phone , I knew , damn , yer he is Well , you know you can do better You can always get on with everything You got us all and we got you back We all Only me ( the rest are nuts ) love you dearly We even miss your presence on Nairaland We all know deep within you going to be fine with everything Gal , you just going to be fine Just be sure you eating well and getting on fine with everything 1 day , the angel of your dreams will find his way to your lifeLemme stop here for now
PS: I WAS THE ONE THAT TOLD DIDDY TO RING YOU LAST NITE, I HOPE HE DID OR AM GONNA MURDER HIM |
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yeencar (m)
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You also have some blame. What were you looking at all the while. You knew about the other women but still hung on. I am tellin you what i will tell my sis if she finds herself in a similar circumstance.
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bolex (m)
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yes o you are rite av promised maself not to ever get involved with 2 gals @ 1ce when the time comes just say ' It's over' Don't worry I'll be fine But hey blue You'll be fine Don't bother yourself |
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diddy4 (m)
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PS: I WAS THE ONE THAT TOLD DIDDY TO RING YOU LAST NITE, I HOPE HE DID OR AM GONNA MURDER HIM abeg, i rang her up yesterday. please dont kill me oooo. my head no plaster. hey blue. baby, u got what it takes to get another guy to ya side. you are nice and friendly, cute and sexy, caring and loving. u will meet a guy that will take care of u more than him. **loads his AK47*** where the fu*k is that asswipe? let me upload my clips on his stupid ass. baby u are tough. u gonna get over him faster than u tot. he aint worth your tears, dont worry, u are going to get another good nice dogg. i really feel your pains. i have been there and been treated same. people just dont know what they've got till its gone. take heart boo, its gonna be aiight. its difficult to break up with someone after 4 years but u will get over it u didnt even enjoy much in the relationship so just for get him and get jiggy with it. ok baby, lets dance.
move ya body make u shake that thing wey u get
make the music enter ya head
dancing bareje baby pls bend your waist go down
girl let me see that thing
let me see u shake it like am doing
shake that boothy
twist that boothy
snake that boothy
jiggle that booby
ok hun lets get jiggy with it. **moving his waist**
lets gooooooo.
love u baby girl, its gon be aiight. |
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bluenubian (f)
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you guys are sooo funny, i cant remember the last time i laugh this hard, and yes bolex, diddy called me and he caught me at the perfect time too, you guys are the best, as time passes i fell myself getting stronger
bolex, diddy and everyone that helped me, i owe u guys big time, love
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bolex (m)
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yer Blue
we I am always here for you anytime @ diddy, did I beg you to dance with her I will kill you soon ***loads his pistol*** You don dey trespass get way from this thread **Official order**** |
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diddy4 (m)
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yer Blue
we I am always here for you anytime @ diddy, did I beg you to dance with her I will kill you soon ***loads his pistol*** You don dey trespass get way from this thread **Official order**** **shining his double barrel** bring it on bolex. i will blow u sky high. |
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diddy4 (m)
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no she didnt cuzz she went to shop for your coffin. so which one do you want. **holding a shovel** |
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bolex (m)
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no she didnt cuzz she went to shop for your coffin.
so which one do you want. **holding a shovel**
haha boi I saw you dug your grave ***calls out to blue, hey baby , let's bury him off & let's get it over with *** |
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diddy4 (m)
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i dont think she will bury me. nahhhhhh she went to call the priest so u will confess your sins. **whispering** remember to tell the priest how many girls u have sexed, how many gave u head and how many kicked your ass. and dont forget to tell him you will be buried after the confession. **leans back and gets gun** oya start confessing cuzz am waiting. |
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bolex (m)
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am in blue's arms you dumbie you can;t shoot me when am with ma sweet heart go catch some butterflies ***sleeps confortably in blue's arms*** DUMB ASS DIDDY |
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bluenubian (f)
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omfg, rtflmao, u guys are really too much, both a match made in heaven, i swear i feel 1000 times better, bolex, diddy, bolex, diddy, bolex, diddy, bolex,   i can't thank u guys enough, i felt like i was in kung fu hustle or something, reading u guys post. diddy thanks for the song again, bolex, hope u call me soon, havent heard from u in a while, much love, respect, peace from the one and only blue |
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nike4luv (f)
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Blue, me am sorry, the guy is a horse humper, and i bet the girl aint half as wonderful as u are! as for bolex and big diddy, they jus want some bootie!  stay strong |
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bluenubian (f)
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cute one nike, thanks,
sade thanks too
much love
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bluenubian (f)
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im still laughing my ass off, everytime i hear somone say asswipe, that jus brings a big grin to ma face. thanks IBB.
PS even though my place was soo quiet i got the best sleep evr in years, feel so refreshed.
**yawns, get up to go brush ma teeth and wash ma a** for the day, its a new day**
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