Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?

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idrismuna
Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« on: May 12, 2008, 09:45 PM »

In the cause of searching for greener pastures, men/women leave their spouses behind and live in different cities of the world.
I know a woman whose husband left in Nigeria for eight years before she could join him in London.
She never had an affair with any other man until she eventually joined her husband.
Do you think this is real?
Can you do it?
This is for the married only please.
jennykadry (f)
Re: Can this be true?
« #1 on: May 12, 2008, 10:06 PM »

8 years  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked leave me for 8 years  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked hell no,hey it doesnt mean i'll go astray,but its better we both stay back in nigeria and work our way through
4 Him (m)
Re: Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« #2 on: May 13, 2008, 02:03 AM »

8 weeks is stretching it. Its not about cheating or not, its about companionship.
mohawkchic (f)
Re: Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« #3 on: May 13, 2008, 12:45 PM »

~NoOooooooo I CANNOT and WILL NOT for that period of time!! End of!!


~I cudnt possibly be that understanding!! bsides me lek body tooOOo much to be seperated that long!!
coolier (f)
Re: Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« #4 on: May 13, 2008, 12:59 PM »

Quote from: idrismuna on May 12, 2008, 09:45 PM
I know a woman whose husband left in Nigeria for eight years before she could join him in London.
She never had an affair with any other man until she eventually joined her husband.

How can you be so sure about that. You only see what people want you to see.

Quote from: idrismuna on May 12, 2008, 09:45 PM
Can you do it?
This is for the married only please.

Now what exactly is your question: Can you do what? Leave ones spouse behind for a long time to live in a foreign land? or remain faithful to ones spouse after so many years apart?
elizabetta (f)
Re: Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« #5 on: May 13, 2008, 03:54 PM »

why can't i stay,what of if he was jail for 8yrs,does that mean i will leave him.HELL NO
idrismuna
Re: Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« #6 on: May 13, 2008, 04:41 PM »


"How can you be so sure about that. You only see what people want you to see"

You are kind of right. I may not be so sure about this woman. But I can be sure of myself doing it. I can do it.


When I asked 'Can u do it', I meant, can u stay without being with him/her for 8 years, and not having an affair?



ima1 (f)
Re: Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« #7 on: May 14, 2008, 07:03 AM »

Yes if i actually love him, n can trust him not to cheat on me, it will be hard but it can be done.
Siena (m)
Re: Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« #8 on: May 14, 2008, 07:27 AM »

Honestly no, I can't.
coolier (f)
Re: Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« #9 on: May 14, 2008, 01:07 PM »

No.
stillwater (f)
Re: Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« #10 on: May 14, 2008, 03:16 PM »

hmmmh
OpeLovely (f)
Re: Can you 'sincerely' stay without being with your spouse for 8 years?
« #11 on: May 14, 2008, 06:09 PM »

Why tempt the devil? Embarrassed
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