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     Re: Why do boys act weird to their girls after getting what they want

for those that want the full link, this is it http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3011.32.html#msg372602

this was my reply to the question above.

u just said; why do guys act weird to their girls after getting what dey want?


u answered the question. they have gotten what they want thats why they act weird.

guess u have seen why girls are told to close legs. if he doesnt get it. he will not leave u or treat u badly. u guys think sex in a relationship seals it up well it doesnt

many guys just want sex and please don't get deceived during the first 4 weeks of sex cuzz u think eerthing its going well. nahhhh it aint. he just hasnt gotten enough of u. wait till he gets enough of u and then u will see what will happen.   refuse sexing your guy and if he complains, ask him if he loves u or the sex. make him choose one. if he says u and u notice he has changed, just kick his ass out of your apartment and tell him to go fu*k himself. trust me ladies, he aint worth the hair on your female orifice. sex shouldnt be the priority in a relationship cuzz it does the opposite of what people think it should do. it spoiles it. u keep your legs closed and any guy that comes, tell him straight up what u want and if he agrees, y'all can date. even if he later brings it up, just tell him to shut the fu*k up or leave before you kick his ass out of earth.


be yourself ladies, even if u have a crush on him. don't give him what he wants or expects from u. he aint worth it. only your husband is worth you .

i got a friend that has been with his girl for 5 years and they never broke up for ones. what do u think is the secret, well let me tell u. they never had sex. not for once. u people might think is impossible but believe me it is possible. 
they are getting married this august and i was given an invitation so i will be heading back to naija very soon.
sex is not important in a relationship. it is the love and care you have for each other that is important.


don't say but if i don't sex him, he will leave me. my girl, go and bring your AK and shoot him out of your house. only u thinking of that should tell u what he wants.

this is what i got to say. hope i helped shaa.

thanks ladies.


you guys can add to the posting, subtract or ask me questions about the postings. or comment on it

thanks for being the first to reply hun.

i appreciate it. 

Diddy you gave me another reason to love you 

diddy is a man, not a boy

that is where u are wrong man.  we dont get chicks. we get ladies. u know the difference right?

and secondly, i aint looking for chicks cuzz i can get who i want.

3rdly, i am enjoying every minute of being single cuzz am single but no alon or lonely.

i am the happiest guy and i dont need to be in a relationship to be happy.

i know i am spoiling show for u guys but the ladies have feelings and y'all hurt them a lot. i gotta call a spade a spade.

thanks a lot girls for your support. people always hate even when u do good.

nawa for them.

You, diddy, is what this world needs more of.

diddy u are real.
yes i will dance like u for the second time

hmmm diidy

wise talk @diddy

Diddy, i want to ask you a question, what if you get horny???

Is that how you handle yourself when you get horny diddy?

Hmmmm, dildos and stuff like that. . would you care to educate the rest of us with your knowledge?

Lmao diddy

Cos dey got wat dey want already.

u r welcome girl