Woman Beater - How To Know Them

Excuse me. What women? You forget that I'm Yoruba. We have no problem with divorce in our society abi isnt that what you all say. We lead the pack of divorcees in Nigeria, no be so?  . No be you people that hate us for having guts to leave unfavorable situations? Abegi.
I don't have no problem with the word "divorce" at all ESPECIALLY in situations like this. Gerraway jo.


Did you read the thread at all?  I was the first person to aks why didnt she leave after 6 years especuially having the mother that she has. It's one thing if she had a mom that was soft and tolerated any kind of crap but from tboy's description, she doesnt seem liek the such so im surprised his sister stayed in that mess forever

care to quote where I said they SHOULD stay? I was just giving reasons on why I believe they DO feel the need to stay. I wish most of them wouldnt but they do and i was luisting reasons why they might stick with such BS. Personally I wouldnt and hope no one else would. I already explained why she probably never called the cops but you chose to ignore it. Na your own

what's the ratio of that compared to the reverse case? Yea there are women who beat up their husbands, who is disputing that? is that what the topic is about? Mr. OffTopic.

Are those women not living in the famous "society" you keep talking of? Where did they get their nerves from,I thought women had to endure everything because society says they must. 

Neither do western women leave abusive husbands at the first physical abuse.
I'm sure we all have countless examples.
reloaded I've come to the conclusion that all men are innately prone to physical abuse
but there are many who can control themselves.
Speak with any man about abuse his first statement will be "who knows what the woman did" ?
And the responses on this thread butress my point.

On one hand they say abuse is wrong and on the other hand the woman is blamed for pushing his buttons and for not having the spine to leave while the underlying question should be why a man would hit and kick his own wife?

My "fellow" inmate of the island of denial,welcome.  Atleast,I have gotten you to admit that in yorubaland,women don't face criticism for leaving their husband. Any abused Yoruba woman is only staying because she is spineless not because of societal pressures.Thank you for your honesty.

@Sheniqua,over to you.Are you going to admit that there are many no-nonsense divorced Igbo women living back home who won't tolerate abuse or are you going to continue insisting that most women have no choice?

I-man 

The main reason she wanted to stay with him was because of the kid, she was worried she wont get any one who will want to marry her because she already had a kid.

The question i have to the single ladies without any child involved is why do they stay in this type of relationship because i don't think it has anything to do with them being spineless, most of these ladies in abusive relationship are hardworking and you'll even be surprised that some of them are the ones supporting the family or supporting the punk ass dude.

Those ones are held by the shackles of Religion which is probably even worse.

*flies over the island* 

is there a way to look at a man and know
if he is a rapist?
is there a way to look at an individual and know his/her
temperament?
the answer to both question is "No"
and as such it is impossible to look at a man and knw if he beats women.

whateva, u know what im talking about 

Who bloody knows. Blind Love, Parents, Desperation, Low Self Esteem

Really, the whole situation in general is quite depressing when you think about it fully.

to leave or not to leave depends on the situation. If the husband is not known to be violent or this is a one off then that can be easily worked out between the two or with counseling.
But 6 years of constant abuse? Go to the police.

Maybe the beatings and bashings are massages to their bodies, you never can tell

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Police on failing to locate Mr. Emeruwa and the children at their home, commenced a manhunt for the suspect and issued an Amber Alert on the missing children. The children who share the last name Emeruwa, are Elijah(4), Antinnoe(6) and Jachi(. Amber Alert is a US. voluntary partnership program between law-enforcement agencies, broadcasters, and transportation agencies to activate an urgent bulletin in the most serious child-abduction cases. Broadcasters use the Emergency Alert System (EAS) to air a description of the abducted child and suspected abductor.

The deceased had filed domestic violence complaints with authorities in the past, also called the police to their home on several occasions Emeruwa was abusive to her. In January 2006, Emeruwa was charged with second-degree assault for head-butting his wife twice in the lip, according to court documents filed in Prince George’s County. The troubled relationship made Emeruwa’s family members concerned of Ochulo's safety.

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I am still too bitter to pity you women.Lets discuss why women like to resort to violence instead  One threw a mobile phone on me while I was driving and you people want me to shut up.

ha . .  thats serious oh

question: What did u do to them to warrant that assult?

@4him
are u sure u did not try putting your hands in her local government area,and that was y she flinged d phone your way,i guess she did that to protect herself