Woman Beater - How To Know Them

Controlling - Remember most abuse whether sexual, verbal, or etc is all about CONTROL
* They want to prove that they are stronger than you or they want to be in control of anything that is weaker than them. That is why they slap you down, push you down and belittle you

Because of this control they will usually want you all to themselves
-They don't want you spending so much time with friends and family
-They might act very JEALOUS and some people confuse this for love (thinking OH he/she is SO cute, they are acting jealous, aww, they love me)
-They WILL I REPEAT play mind games (if they hit you or yell at you, they will quickly apologize saying I DID NOT MEAN THIS, THIS IS NOT ME) and act like its not their character
-They will DO ANYTHING for you to stay in their circle of games, especially after they have abused you, they will beg, coax, bribe, anything!!!

Abuse is serious, they is a real life example of things, everyone is different, also ASK ABOUT OTHER RELATIONSHIPS and WHY they ENDED, it is really important, people say it doesn't matter BUT IT DOES. If he says my ex girlfriend is in the hospital from falling down the stairs, BEWARE!!

Ma sister's got this friend who is a punchin bag to her husband. She’s lost a tooth but stil lives wit d monster.  ^{imagine that}

We went to visit her once (ma sis n i) n d gorilla-woman-beatin husband was in one of his foul moods. . Not minding we were there he slapped Saliha (ma sis friend) threatened to beat d livin daylight out of her n tear her cloths into pieces, if she delays his dinner ever again! n he was lik. . ."u kno i've done it before"  D IDIOT  rite there in our presence   i felt lik turnin in2 ‘the thing’ n knocking all his teeth out 

Some of thez demented biological organisms     actually glorify in d act

Saliha ofcus said he was d perfect Gorillagentleman when they were datin.aint they all she added probably to tak side wit him that he does that cus he loves her lov ma A** i ain't havin none o that sh*t   


Yeah some u can tel immediately they gon mess u up good but loads r wolves in sheep clothin,you're deep in before u kno. May God in his infinite mercy guide us good women n give us the best of real men. Not biological anomalies who think they r men

N for ma ladies out dia who's gat d strength / power, abegy beat them bac wel wel.Beat them black, blue pink n yellow ;Dbeat them til they yell Mummmy i shall never hurt a woman ever again.  Awon olodo.

@poster,

There is no define way to tell them apart. One can only enter the marriage with prayers and hope for the best.

But my advice is; one a guy raises his hands on u, the respect is gone . . pack your kaya and disappear.
because if I did it once, he will do it again and again and again.

i just saw the post myself. a consenter to violent behaviour is just as likely to be a violent person. if the girl in question had been his sister, his reply woulda been very different.

PUNK!!

The one u do yesterday never belleful u?

OK o . . by God's grace . . u will marry a husband beater. The one that will beat the living daylight outtta u.
Oloriburuku, omo ale oshi

tboy1

I must say I APPLAUD your mother. Awon Yoruba kin ba nonsense lowo anybody.

Rubbish. That's exactly what my mother would have done and the whole thing withs soliders is what my dad would have done then again, child or no child I don't believe I would have dealt with that for so long. 6 years? Man she tried. I'm glad you told your mom ehen she told you not too, what if he ended up kiilling her? Most mothers would have been like "grin and bear it". Pathetic disgraces to humanity.

Can you imagine, her kid's first words in native tongue is words used in the abuse of his mother. That's so disgusting. 

stillwater, please ignore that lunatic. Apparenrtly he's an example of the kind of monsters people should avoid.

Idupaul,
I am not even going to exchange words with u today . .its obvious u want attention since u were deprived from it your entire life. . . after being dropped to the floor at birth, its obvious u gat no brain and u're retarded from staring at booty.
I will refrain from responding to u after this . .I gat a life and u ain't got shit.

Kiss my big, round, black BUM!!!

These men are great pretenders . My aunt used to work in a hospital in naija, and she told me they had case like this where a woman was hospitalized (with bruises all over her body) for "falling down the stairs." Check out the husband when he comes visiting his wife--all smiles and with gifts. His wife would tell the nurses to lie that she's sleeping. My aunt said you'ld never know the man's a monster with the way he acts around the doctor, as if he cares .

Hehehehe . . and are your parents still together?

To answer your question,
Once u're in love . . u automatically signed to be a fool to the person.
But honestly . . if u love someone, why would u raise your hands on them in the first place? the love don die be that now.

No they are not - after what she did to him 

na so  ,  we de hear u,  its not only drinker what of crack head, 

oh lawdy!! 

very easy to say, prolly works in movies not in real life,

by being violent in return? i beg to disagree. A right can never two wrongs make.

says who?


i wonder o

because abuse of 6 years in the eyes of a toodler was necessary