Nigeria Girls See Evry Guy That Ask 4 Or Time B4 Marriage As Not Being Serious.why?

I am 27, I finished my NYSC about a year ago and I ve worked 4 about a year also. My girl friend is 23 and in her 3rd yr in the university.
She asked me what my plan for marriage is and I told her in all sinceerity that I will need 3 more years to put things in order. She simpy worked away saying that I am not serious. I wonder why. should I marry when my girl friend wants it or when I am reay to. Also why does she see me a not being serious?

Omo. You guffed o. But there is remedy. Go back to her and tell her that u are ready to marry her today, today. Then keep telling her that till u are actually ready. Which could be in 3, 5, 7, 10 years time or ,  never.

If u fail to do then, the girl will treat u like scum when u are eventually ready. Till u regret ever making her feel like she was not Hilary Clinton!

sit her down and make her to see reasons with you.