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shayman (m)
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The way u guys re telling her to move on isnt so easy! She said they ve been 2geda for 5 YEARS! that aint a joke at all, she must have invested a lot financial, emotional, she's probably not seeing anyone except the guy in question. Nw the guy doesnt wnt marriage but still claims to be in love, Judy's heart is prolly telln her its easier to convince this guy than startin your whole life again
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jennykadry (f)
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 Who gave you access to the computer? buahahahahaha ladyT abeg take am easy,no vex too much |
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LadyT (f)
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Jenny I think she is in the wrong topic!
Lasiefaire I see you O!!!
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LadyT (f)
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Shayman he will not marry her?
SO what is she waiting for?
Yes its painful she has wasted 5years with this guy but why waste more?
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LASIEFAIRE (m)
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Jenny I think she is in the wrong topic!
Lasiefaire I see you O!!!
peek- a- booooooooooooooo |
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shayman (m)
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@lady T
you are right, I was only saying that out of pity. But i guess judy has to move on, shit happens! Life goes on!
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LadyT (f)
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I'm sure she will be depressed for a while. She will cry she will feel worthless. But I promise you in she will look back and laugh because she will see that she can still be happy!!!
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ibkaye (f)
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I'm sure she will be depressed for a while. She will cry she will feel worthless. But I promise you in she will look back and laugh because she will see that she can still be happy!!!
Aww, almost brought tears to my eyes   |
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jennykadry (f)
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LadyT, we love chubby women when it comes to casual sex.
When it comes to serious issues like marriage no one wants to enter a life commitment knowing issues like diabetes, cardiac problems and obesity are just round the corner.
5yrs, 10 . . . don't mean a thing! Grin When a man is ready to get married he will marry that woman he loves AND believes is the most rational choice for him. for once i disagree wt u 4him,there are chubby women and they are chubby women(get it?) i have a married female friend who is chubby but wt a very sweet shape and height,not to talk of d flat tummy,that even me wey no chubby dey envy her,because even lepa's can't compete wt her when it comes to shape,men don't just date chubby women for sex,they r some of them that have gat everything anyman wants,shape wise and so on,so don't make it sound as if ,guys date every chubby woman just to have casual sex wt her,u seem to have forgotten that even slim people suffer from diabetes,athriatis,romantism and so on,d only thing is that fat people are more exposed to it than slim people,but it doesnt mean that they(slim people)are free from diabetes and so on like is pointed earlier on,there are chubby women(wt good phsyique and so on)and they are chubby women(wt shapeless body and very big tummy) so maybe d poster falls into the category of shapeless women wt big tummy,and that is y d guy is trying to run 4 40 but y should d guy waste her time for 5 good years,that is bad |
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judymiller
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I told him maybe we should be friends.
Life does go on.
He says it will kill him to see another man with me.
He claims he is royalty and that y we can't marry.
His family wont allow him to marry an American.
As for my weight he's the reason im this big.
If it was up to him i would be bigger then a house.
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LadyT (f)
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See hes a chubby chaser! He can stick his royal crown up his bum bum if he can't bare to see you with another man! Hissssssss |
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jennykadry (f)
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u've said it all ladyT
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chinda3
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what a terrible man
judy move on wt your life,he is just wasting your time,and deceiving u
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shayman (m)
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Oh my gawd, LADY T IS A TALKATIVE!!!
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LadyT (f)
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You berra sharrap there Shayman! 
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morenike09 (f)
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@post
I have to agree with 4Him on SOME points.
Why can't he marry you? Hmmmmmm! Ask him! If he doesn't answer, tie him up and put pepper in his mouth. Dnt give him water unless he answer you
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LadyT (f)
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LMAO@Morenike only a real man will ever be able tomarry you!!!
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morenike09 (f)
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LMAO@Morenike only a real man will ever be able to marry you!!! Are you trying to say I won't find a Nigerian man to marry?  |
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LadyT (f)
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no comment  |
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morenike09 (f)
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lmao!!!! |
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shayman (m)
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@lady T
AINT You A TALKATIVE? See your response long! Reminds me of those dry lectures in school.
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jennykadry (f)
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is this thread still on,anyway i give my final answer
judy move on,that guy does not like u not to talk of love,and don't be surprised if he sends u his wedding card one day,im sure then you will learn your lessons,till then keep living in the world of fantasies and deceit
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whitelexi (m)
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is this thread still on,anyway i give my final answer
judy move on,that guy does not like u not to talk of love,and don't be surprised if he sends u his wedding card one day,im sure then you will learn your lessons,till then keep living in the world of fantasies and deceit
You no dey go church? |
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jennykadry (f)
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@whitelexi
wetin concern u if i dey go church or not,u nko u no dey go church?
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Tattooboy (m)
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@poster if he can't marry u come to me baby  |
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whitelexi (m)
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@whitelexi
wetin concern u if i dey go church or not,u nko u no dey go church?
It concerns me! |
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janami (f)
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talk is cheap.everybody is saying "move on, move on". shouldnt she be given the chance to save her relationship atleast? Talk is soooo cheap! i wonder what all of u would actually do if you were in her shoes. Judy girl, the ball is in your court. do what u think is best |
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LadyT (f)
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I'm sorry Janami but can you actually read?
What relationship is there left to save?
He said he can't marry her so she should wait another 5 years until he finds the person he wants to and is allowed to marry???
Talk maybe be cheap and yes none of us are in her shoes!
But we would be lying to her if we gave her the advise you just did!
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janami (f)
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obviously, i can read and wot i read in judymiller's post is very vague. u don't know what is really going on in their relationship. u are not there. You have no business telling someone else to dump her boyfriend *sigh* and they always ask me why i dnt share my personal problems with my girlfriends
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LadyT (f)
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What is vague in him telling her I WILL NOT MARRY YOU!!!
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janami (f)
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is dt what he said? i thot she said "he can't" not "he will not" and do u really know why he said "he can't?" dump him? hmmmm . . . . who gives up on love that easily?  |
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jennykadry (f)
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@poster
the truth is bitter but it must be told,poster leave that man,and move on,he is just deceiving u,u better find your way now before he delays u for another 15 years,that man has someone else he wants to marry,take it or leave it
A s for the fat issue,u said he is d cause of your size,that left for him he wants u to be bigger than d house,my dear i pity u,because d man is only making u useless by making u put on so much weight,and im sure he starves d right girl that he wants to marry just for her to keep fit,and look good,but in your case he is making u blow like blom-blom so that no other person will pick u up after he has dumped u in d gutter
its painful though,but its d truth,so wake up from that sleep and face reality
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