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viogirl (f)
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@poster
the truth is bitter but it must be told,poster leave that man,and move on,he is just deceiving u,u better find your way now before he delays u for another 15 years,that man has someone else he wants to marry,take it or leave it
A s for the fat issue,u said he is d cause of your size,that left for him he wants u to be bigger than d house,my dear i pity u,because d man is only making u useless by making u put on so much weight,and im sure he starves d right girl that he wants to marry just for her to keep fit,and look good,but in your case he is making u blow like blom-blom so that no other person will pick u up after he has dumped u in d gutter
its painful though,but its d truth,so wake up from that sleep and face reality
that is what I was trying to say but I guess I said it in a wrong way. there is every possibility that the guy has been fooling her for five years: afterall the guys parents did not openly tell her off, that could be a cock and bull story cooked up by the guy just to get the girl off his back. So OMO IBO and LadyT FREE ME!!! |
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judymiller
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Yes we go to church, i told him he should find another place im even willing to pay for his first three months rent. I have wasted 5 years of my life i wont waste another. At first i was depressed by this.But now im doing better God must have a reason for all of this.
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omoovie (f)
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Sweetie if he gave a hootenany he'd be married to you. Nigerians and Africans in general are not stereotypically backward as most news like to protray. Nigerian men were marrying women from all races and creeds as far back as the 50s and 60s. They are the grand orchestrators of "viva la white girl" and even the Igbos are the most notorious for marrying foreign women because they like fair women (unlike what someone said earlier). Trust me. If he wanted to marry you there's nothing! not a damn thing his family can do. There might be a few evil eyes here and there, his mum might not warm up to you at first (speaking of which, if he were asian - Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Indian, whatever - or black or latino or british or french or pink you'd get the same reactions too) but you'd be welcomed and accepted. Fact is he probably met someone he fell in love with or prefers when he went home and feels like playing with your heart. Dump the guy or have fun with him with your eyes open. Whichever floats your boat.
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prince_onx
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Una still dey here dey talk about this? person no wan marry person una dey tell am say him get all the power to marry her if him like/want (which him no like/want) so I no want again don be crime for una? but 5yrs too much oh make I no liewell I get breaking news for una! The bobo don marry for him village  so poster you might want to start applying for a second wife's position! |
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jennykadry (f)
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Una still dey here dey talk about this? person no wan marry person una dey tell am say him get all the power to marry her if him like/want (which him no like/want) so I no want again don be crime for una? but 5yrs too much oh make I no lie
well I get breaking news for una! The bobo don marry for him village so poster you might want to start applying for a second wife's position! roflmao  prince oga information minister who tell u say d bobo don marry for village |
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judymiller
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Well it seems we are getting married after all  |
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janami (f)
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that is music to ma ears . |
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jennykadry (f)
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oh janami i love u,u just took those words out of my mind,can i buy a drink,u deserve one  |
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judymiller
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@jennykadry Hey im the wedding girl lol Were's my drink lol  Thank god for this site He even read the things everyone wrote on here. |
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judymiller
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It took for me to put my foot down.
Before he woke up.
I'll be putting my foot down alot more.
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buzyDiva (f)
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@poster,
u sure he ain't got no wife back home?
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judymiller
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@jennykadry im fine gurlie July 5th is the big day My parents want to pay for everything as a gift to us. |
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judymiller
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@ buzyDiva
Thats something i don't know.But thats when legal paper work come in.
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sheniqua
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judymiller I wish you well. I read through the whole thing and it looks like the guy does love you but is concerned about you mixing well with his family. That is only human. But 5 years and the bells are just ringing now? women have patience,I tell ya my limit was 6 months. I didn't have time to hang around while my eggs calcified by the minute no marriage,no love was my motto Happy married life to you. please disregard that his prince and royal family heritage story almost every yoruba man in America is a prince  |
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D-reloaded (f)
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lol only to those tyhat don't know the difference between a prince and a mere common rat.
It's all in the name
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sheniqua
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you can't imagine how many Americans that have told me of their Nigerian friend whose father was a king and they've all turned out to be yoruba when I ask for the last names.
Me I don't get that korokoro lying
unless the alafin of oyo,ooni of Ife and alake of Egbaland are married to all the women in western Nigeria.
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RampantT (f)
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Did I reply this thread with my other I.D or not? hmmm. . needs to recheck!
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buzyDiva (f)
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@sheniqua, Girl, u ain't kidding o . . 6 months or nothing??  you can't imagine how many Americans that have told me of their Nigerian friend whose father was a king and they've all turned out to be yoruba when I ask for the last names.
Me I don't get that korokoro lying
unless the alafin of oyo and alake of Egbaland are married to all the women in western Nigeria.
My great grandfather's uncle's father's senior brother's nephew was a king o . . which automatically makes me royalty too. those guys watched too "Coming to America" |
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jennykadry (f)
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@sheniqua osisi 6 months too much naaa  me im not sure i lasted two months sef,d guy just said its better we continue d dating in marriage  |
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judymiller
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oh i he claims his uncle is a king lol
even said his uncle has a palace.
Is there a way i can get a list of the kings?
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buzyDiva (f)
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oh i he claims his uncle is a king lol
even said his uncle has a palace.
Is there a way i can get a list of the kings?
lol . . the list is endless sweetie. u'll be growing grey hairs by the time u done compiling the list |
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judymiller
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lol thanks
but why so many kings for one tribe?
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sheniqua
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lol thanks
but why so many kings for one tribe?
she was just making fun with the whole kingdom, palace stuff. Nigerian "royalty" means absolutely nothing. You'll be surprised the "palaces" are a ranch house( bungalow) with 3 rooms,an outback toilet and a ricketty large chair called a "throne" in the living room from where he commands his wife/wives and other members of his household That's about where his kingdom starts and ends.He may have one or 2 hangings of leopard skin on the wall and floor. Virtually any nincompoop can attach a title to his name and call himself whatever he wants. Just get some nollywood movies and see the "kings" called Igwe. That'll give you a fair idea. |
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sheniqua
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@sheniqua osisi 6 months too much naaa me im not sure i lasted two months sef,d guy just said its better we continue d dating in marriage LOL 6 months was the limit I gave myself I can't understand how women at the prime of their lives would date a man for 2,3,4,5 sometimes 10 years and she calls him boyfriend. Tufiakwa. For the patient ones (not me) I'll say if any girl is above the age of 24 and if after a whopping 12 months, he's not talking about going to see your people to start Igbankwu arrangements, please start looking elsewhere for a more serious fellow. We have limited time to spare. ROFL |
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prince_onx
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eeeeehhh? July 5th is the D-day ba? are you telling us or inviting us? my friend abeg make you post more info. about the wedding jo! where be the place? cux me I wan come take my two eyes see and I need to make sure say na "I DO" the bobo dey answer to the question!
one last thing poster, getting in and out of marriage seems very very easy in this Country! so, hope say you never wahala the guy so tay him finaly decide to do the thing for some years or even months before him waka? shine your eyes Ohh cux I no understand this he can't marry you last week and this week/today you dey give us date!
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LadyT (f)
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When will you meet his family???
Are they coming to the wedding?
I would worry he may have another wife back home!
look before you jump honey all the best!
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Akpeno
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He is lying to you dump him!
Yorubas are not that strict in who they can marry and being a male he can more or less pick who he wants to marry even if he family don't like it.
I know our Igbo brothers and sisters are a bit more strict in who and what they marry but still if they choose to be strong headed they too will marry whoever they chose.
So please quite wasting your time get rid of the guy! I totally Agree! |
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janami (f)
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@jenny i never turn down a drink as long as i am not doin the paying @judy please tread cautiously |
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jennykadry (f)
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@ buzyDiva
Thats something i don't know.But thats when legal paper work come in. @judy u need to open your eyes,i go wt what prince said in d begining ,d guy might be married in nigeria to a nigerian girl,so even if u get married to him ,legally or not legally,d fact still remains that d wife in nigeria(that is if he has one) is d first wife,and will beat u to it in any court case ,i wish u well though i trust my naija babes |
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zignor (m)
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@poster,
stop wasting your time . . .come let me marry you
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jennykadry (f)
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buahahahahahah zignor u no well ,can u handle her?i mean can u manage? d babe buru ezigbo ibu |
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