I've Got A Man Problem!

You need to understand that there is no perfect person on this planet earth. Relationships work out because one needs to accomodate and tolerate one another. I guess you should focus on the good sides of people you meet rather than on their bad sides. I am sure with time you will find true love. Happy hunting!!

u have a funny complex, it certainly is related to the superiority one
The problem is psychological and lies with u.
The earlier u get a grip on it, the better for your relationships.

_{No offence meant}

relationship is all about patience, you must learn to understand other people's faults and tolorate them. Also know that you are not perfect therefore other people must not be perfect

if you can't tolorate other, do you wonder how difficult it must be for people to tolorate you? give them credit for even appreciating and tolorating you.

all d best.

well it would seem we all want that but at the end its the other things that get to us,
I think i can relate to what u're going through, there are some character traits I really can't stand (like a man who chews with his mouth open. . . .  lol)

seriously tho, u have to focus on the things u knw u can't live with, like he might not be as educated as u might like but he can make up for it in intelligence and the drive to succeed,
 or

he may not have the kind of money u'd expect him  to have but if he's hardworking u knw he'll get there

and

some guys just need the right environment for them to be faithful, if u treat him right and show him u appreciate trust him u may get a faithful man (the Key word here is may as there are jerks out there whole break your heart anyway, u just have to learn to let go and be willing to take the leap)

Basically, try to be more flexible in your choices, stop trying to find the perfect man. If u pick the most important characteristics, for me its a sense of humour. . . .  in other words, I will give anyone with a sense of humour a chance and work with that, you might find there other things that you actually like. ( be ready to kiss quite a few toads  )

@poster

maybe u need deliverance

I have 3 words for you "you need jesus" .  On a serious note, you need to stop the "serial" dating and take some time off to analize yourself.  Get a piece of paper and write down all your faults and the faults of your many men.  If your list outnumbers your many men list, then something is wrong with you

I guess the kind who only wants her "purrrr, Meow"

The name of the game is patience, understanding, tolerance, compromise. Unfortunately, u do not seem to have any of these.

I think you should set yourself free. Women love to criticize men without looking into their own faults, thats why every divorced woman today will always come and defend the action by painting the man black but turns around to wed again three more times with no success. It'ss largely because she hasn't solved her issues. Women loves to hear soft sweet stories and how nice they are even though they know they are really awful. If you look within, ask yourself what you do that pisses people off . Check your platonic relationships in your early years especially with fellow girls and try looking for what made you people fall apart. If you can list your flaws, work on them, try humility, you'll surely land a handsome boo.


Again, you talked about lack of interest after a couple of weeks, that is a big problem because that charasteristics is normally associated with men. Women get more attached by the day in a good relationship and not detached. You may try prayers and exorcism to make sure you are not dealing with spirits from wicked places.

Good luck in your man googling. Your solution lies within.

 Posted by: JaneNwaham


pardon me my sister,but what exactly do u mean by spiritual connection ?

i know that,but i asked a question,what do u mean by spiritual connection?that part really caught my fancy that is y i asked

ubwa ki biaranu(na now u dey talk)

of course ive heard of it,and i knew that,that was where u  were going i just needed confirmation,like i suggested earlier on go ´for a serious deliverance,i had a friend who was once in this kind of situation,it only takes prayers

nay why will i bite your head off,i wont do that,but which one is native/traditional way,ive not heard of it

welli cool down

@jane
my dear explain d traditional way

where is d poster?jane u asked for help,we r trying to give it to u,and you're nowhere to be found

i need to give u a good advise

Poster, you are inviting spirits into your head oh, but is simple you might have character problem, you know must of us are bad, it could be genetic or etc. Like they said you can go for deliverance, but assuming is character problem, it willl not solve the problem. You just needs to adjust your character a little bit, How? follow the ten commandments, i know you might not leave without sex but leave without other sins. Again, you may have been chasing the correct guys with your hard to get of a thing, remember your hard to get plays on your character and it might have been repelling another character that fits you, just try be your self and Godly