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LadyB (f)
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This is for the nigerians in da house. If you're in abroad and yet to marry, will you consider a trip home to search for that husband or wife?
Some people do go back home because they couldn't find their ideal person of their choice to marry. It is like the ladies or men abroad aint just their type for marriage. so going home to find a spouse has been a true success for some.
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Badman888 (m)
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Probably it mite be better that way, a number of people do it and turns out successful or bad, since maybe they don't know each other for too long and just jump into marriage.
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edatika (m)
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I think it is a matter of Divine favor
it works at times and never does at times
i know of a family friend whom his father posted a wife to all because they want a "home-made" wife. Now she shows them hell when they go visiting
while the younger one who was the "disobedient child" married a white lady
she's the "angel" now,
she would kneel to greet (yoruba tradition)
and , she's generally very homely.
so i think it's a matter of Divine favor.
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Rhodalyn (f)
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nope! U marry the one U truly love not the one who's ''home''
so therefore, the one U love could be anywhere and not necessarily ''home''
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kimba (m)
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How can my dad "post" me a wife?
God forbid bad thing,
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LadyB (f)
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 @kimba. but am sure an agreement was made between the man and the lady before her arrival. so it turns sour. it has turn beautiful for some.
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eveseh (f)
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wish u da best
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lioness (f)
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 ;d
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Badman888 (m)
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But if its someone you know, maybe when you were back home it would be better that way,
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Bright2 (m)
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Well if u are a christian,we christian do believe that where ever God plant ur husband,there u will go and get him some good spiritual fathers can tell u where ur God given husband is,in this case, ur migration has meaning,but when u are migrating blindly from 1 place 2 de other, u might run out of direction & at last come back 2 de former place wit nothing. Those that are there b/for you left has already achieved what u have been jumping from place 2 place searching 4,because what there God prepare 4 them are right there wit them.
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lioness (f)
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So you mean one prophet will prophesy me into one mans live as my husband?  Am a christain and i believe God can reveal to me who my husband is. yes, he can use a pastor but its not a criterium. When i was in phc, a pastor told me the yoruba guy i was dating was my husband and another prophet said he was nt the real one.  The funny part is that i was dating the guy as a rebound and i didnt love him. So i got pretty confused. So i started forcing  myself to love him just to fullfill prophesy but i still didnt love him so i left. My advise to me is that i will pray to God and make a decision and take responsibility for whatever that decision results into. Bible say the steps of the righteous are ordered by God. Even in the days of the bible tell me how many people got married by the prophesy of elijah, isaiah, etc. They only gave guidlines. Well if u are a christian,we christian do believe that where ever God plant your husband,there u will go and get him some good spiritual fathers can tell u where your God given husband is,in this case, your migration has meaning,but when u are migrating blindly from 1 place 2 de other, u might run out of direction & at last come back 2 de former place wit nothing. Those that are there b/for you left has already achieved what u have been jumping from place 2 place searching 4,because what there God prepare 4 them are right there wit them.
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Bright2 (m)
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NOTE, a good spiritual father i said ,i did not specify for you a prophet.Prophets are not de only spiritual fathers.what i am saying is that if u are residing in london & ur real husband 2 be is also in that same london,u might miss him while u are migrating from place 2 place .
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lioness (f)
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Bros, how do i know my REAL husband abeg |
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mamaput (f)
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Its so funny.
Men that go home to get a "Clean" wife that has not yet open eye.
These women are the worst. When the open their eyes
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kimba (m)
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A bird in the hand is of more worth than 2 in the bush,
an enemy you know might be better than someone who you might not be able to classify as a friend or an enemy.
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desiree (f)
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The thing is that most of these home brewed wifeys have a very high and obscure expectations of men that live abroad, they think they earn cool cash that they don’t have to lift a finger for and when they finally arrive and they are juggling part-time schooling with 2 part time jobs, they turn sour on their hubbies…. not a pretty sight at all  |
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mamaput (f)
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These women are survival exparts.
The best gamblers.
A man goes home looking for a wife sleeps with a woman and conciders her.
Getting back to Europe a phone call comes "i get belly" he sends his people to go and carry the wine. The wine is carried and a few weeks later ."i Lost the baby" "So when are you bringing me to Europe."
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Bright2 (m)
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Ha mama put, uv'e finished them.
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Hotstepper (f)
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I personally will marry someone in Nigeria
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mamaput (f)
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I personally will marry someone in Nigeria
As in going going home with a man to get married ? or as in going home to look for a Husband |
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zionchic (f)
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@ hotstepper
i don't blame you jare guess you don't want no akata murdering you one day.
On a more serious note though, love doesn't know nationality, when you fall in love the song changes and you go with your heart, home made or abroad made. like my other sistas i don't care who it is, so long as the flame of love is burning bright. who cares!
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Hotstepper (f)
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am going to marry a nigerian base man period because datz where i lan 2 live and ain't feeling no naija men here, datz just me ohhhhhhh personally  , unless there is a miracle but, |
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kimba (m)
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anyway, now that uve arrived back in Nnewi?, all things can and will begin to unfold, abi but really, i don't think it will be that easy for a lady to go back to Nija "and begin" to look for a man, except you know him before, or perhaps, hes one of the faithfuls whose going back to re-settle, or u might have to wait a couple of years so you could fit-in, u know |
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Hotstepper (f)
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get ur point but everything is okay, lol
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whoknoxluv (m)
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All life reqiures is prayer in every step you take in life some don't even go home to find there choice but with God intervention their choice meet them from home so what do you see to this ? just be prayerful
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Hotstepper (f)
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am very prayerful but u gotta tell God wa u want off front and have faith and see wt happens |
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LadyB (f)
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i feel u jare  @hotstepper |
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JosBoy4Lif (m)
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It is hard to plan for marriage because love can happen @ anytime
But ya i wouldnt mind to marry a women from home, time will tell i guess
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Hotstepper (f)
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yes ooo LADYB, i dey say ma own as e dey ma mind
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