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nan-na (m)
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hey hotty, hook me up, want to know what it entails
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HR.hotness (f)
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 hr hotness , u must be a yeye person , because u don dey england nai u wan bone your naija men , ok make u dey find slave for your self na your papa and mama be slave , infact you're the main slave because you're there to suck white men privates , ok i wann help you out but u never wanted a naija person emailing you , TO HELL WITH UR THREAD  Nevr said i didnt want a nigerian, what use is someone in nigeria to me when i'm here?  I want someone who can be at my door immediately I call i don't uunderstand all this your animosity, I don't even know u? If something about me annoys u, then please stay off my thread. its that simple. , . . . your insults are tastelss, classless and very uncalled for  Na wa o.  Wetin my eye no go see. what do u expect me to do, when intelligent guys like you don't have time for opinionated women sitting on high horses like me   hey hotty, hook me up, want to know what it entails
you hav to be at my beck and call, obey my every command only speak when i ask your opinions and willing to do anything to please me if you r in nigeria, it will only work if u're willing to relocate |
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4 Him (m)
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what do u expect me to do, when intelligent guys like you don't have time for opinionated women sitting on high horses like me You make it difficult for us. Who doesnt like an opinionated woman? |
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HR.hotness (f)
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You make it difficult for us.
Who doesnt like an opinionated woman?
no i don't! Nigerian men don't like opinionated women (yes i generalised. . . sue me!) My ideal man is someone I can hav an intelligent conversation with, someone who sees me as an equal and will treat me as such since I can't have that, i will only settle for the other end of the scale someone who will do as I say when i say and live only to please me  i don't do the inbetweens who want to control or dominate me |
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4 Him (m)
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someone who will do as I say when i say and live only to please me i don't do the inbetweens who want to control or dominate me its funny that these are the exact attributes you don't like a man to have. don't you think that would be treating the fellow as your subordinate? Some Nigerian men do like opinionated women (at least i do) but women tend to forget that there is a difference between being opinionated and being unecessarily aggressive. |
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HR.hotness (f)
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its funny that these are the exact attributes you don't like a man to have. don't you think that would be treating the fellow as your subordinate?
Some Nigerian men do like opinionated women (at least i do) but women tend to forget that there is a difference between being opinionated and being unecessarily aggressive.
On the contrary, these are the attribute i desire, the problem is that when they see thay can't dominate me the name callings begin, . . (and i've been called all sorts) I am not aggresssive, never have been, I get very passionate about things but I abhor violence and abuse of any kind since all they want is to dominate, i choose to flip d coin and serve a dose of their own medicine please point me to the man can handle an opinionated woman and this thread is history |
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debosky (m)
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On the contrary, these are the attribute i desire, the problem is that when they see thay can't dominate me the name callings begin, . . (and i've been called all sorts) I am not aggresssive, never have been, I get very passionate about things but I abhor violence and abuse of any kind since all they want is to dominate, i choose to flip d coin and serve a dose of their own medicine please point me to the man can handle an opinionated woman and this thread is history I declare this thread HISTORY. |
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HR.hotness (f)
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where is he? I hope its not you oh, u want a virgin that will call u daddy! I am not a virgin and I don't even call my father daddy |
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4 Him (m)
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since all they want is to dominate, i choose to flip d coin and serve a dose of their own medicine please point me to the man can handle an opinionated woman and this thread is history first you have to understand that the average nigerian man is raised with a huge ego. Sorry about that, it aint going to change. Many are raised in an environment were women are seen but not heard so that typically rubs off on their own relationships where they expect a docile partner. But the world has since changed, seriously no one wants to stick with a partner who has no opinions or life of her own. You want a woman who can challenge you positively, keep you on your toes and put a spark or two in the relationship. Men don't always seek to dominate women, you people read too much into simple things. If he says "i don't like that shirt u're wearing" wahala don start be that - he's trying to dominate my wardrobe whereas the fellow is just leaving his 2cents. Looking for men who can handle opinionated women? Look no further than your immediate surroundings . . . a man who kowtows to your every demand wont be a good match for you. |
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4 Him (m)
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I declare this thread HISTORY. Is that because you were pointing at me? |
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HR.hotness (f)
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first you have to understand that the average nigerian man is raised with a huge ego. Sorry about that, it aint going to change. Many are raised in an environment were women are seen but not heard so that typically rubs off on their own relationships where they expect a docile partner. But the world has since changed, seriously no one wants to stick with a partner who has no opinions or life of her own. You want a woman who can challenge you positively, keep you on your toes and put a spark or two in the relationship. Men don't always seek to dominate women, you people read too much into simple things. If he says "i don't like that shirt u're wearing" wahala don start be that - he's trying to dominate my wardrobe whereas the fellow is just leaving his 2cents. Looking for men who can handle opinionated women? Look no further than your immediate surroundings . . . a man who kowtows to your every demand wont be a good match for you. I love a man with an ego, i'm happy to play to a mans ego because i know it comes with the package but I know what I'm talking about when i say there are guys who just want to dominate and run your life A guy once threw my toothbrush out because he didnt like it (i was sentimentally attched to it but he didnt care or understand), he went shopping and bought stuff he thot i SHOULD be using, kept trying to get me to take a job i didnt like or want, decided the best way to get me to quit smoking was throwing out my fags whenever i bought a new pack, decided i should quit drinking because he didnt drink. . . . . what will you call that? the dude was trying to run my life! and I keep bumping into his type, they like to show me off to their friends as an intelligent woman who they can dominate, i really don't get it. I know a love slave isnt a match for me  but I'll be getting what i want without the hassle of putting up with bullshit. whenever i need converstaion, I'll log on to Nairaland and chat with the likes of you |
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HR.hotness (f)
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Is that because you were pointing at me? so u putting yourself foward or what? |
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Uche2nna (m)
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I love a man with an ego, i'm happy to play to a mans ego because i know it comes with the package but I know what I'm talking about when i say there are guys who just want to dominate and run your life A guy once threw my toothbrush out because he didnt like it (i was sentimentally attched to it but he didnt care or understand), he went shopping and bought stuff he thot i SHOULD be using, kept trying to get me to take a job i didnt like or want. . . . . what will you call that? the dude was trying to run my life! and I keep bumping into his type, they like to show me off to their friends as an intelligent woman who they can dominate, i really don't get it. I know a love slave isnt a match for me but I'll be getting what i want without the hassle of putting up with bullshit. whenever i need converstaion, I'll log on t :(o Nairaland and chat with the likes of you I guess U need to change either/both of these Ur location Ur attitude |
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HR.hotness (f)
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I guess You need to change either/both of these
your location
your attitude
and what is wrong with my attitute? what is it about me that says i need a man to dominte me? |
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4 Him (m)
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so u putting yourself foward or what? you bet. A guy once threw my toothbrush out because he didnt like it (i was sentimentally attched to it but he didnt care or understand), he went shopping and bought stuff he thot i SHOULD be using, kept trying to get me to take a job i didnt like or want, decided the best way to get me to quit smoking was throwing out my fags whenever i bought a new pack, decided i should quit drinking because he didnt drink. . . . . what will you call that? the dude was trying to run my life! and I keep bumping into his type, they like to show me off to their friends as an intelligent woman who they can dominate, i really don't get it. Did you ever try talking to them about this? Sometimes women assume the best way to approach a domineering guy is to "show my own muscle" . . . that is a big waste of time, it only makes the guy much more pigheaded. If you keep bumping into such men it might be that you're indirectly attracted to them and are in denial about that. Such men can be fun in the early stages of the relationship until you start feeling like the life is being choked out of you. . . I know a love slave isnt a match for me but I'll be getting what i want without the hassle of putting up with bullshit. whenever i need converstaion, I'll log on to Nairaland and chat with the likes of you You'll be doing this till u're 70 and toothless? |
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Uche2nna (m)
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and what is wrong with my attitute?
U tell me. Thats the reason for the "either/both". It could be just ur attitude or just ur location. U should know better than me. |
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Bensoul (m)
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would have love to assist u mess ur pussy black and blue,but sorry i will pass.dnt want to kill another man daughter with sex.best of luck in ur search though.
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HR.hotness (f)
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you bet. Did you ever try talking to them about this? Sometimes women assume the best way to approach a domineering guy is to "show my own muscle" . . . that is a big waste of time, it only makes the guy much more pigheaded. If you keep bumping into such men it might be that you're indirectly attracted to them and are in denial about that. Such men can be fun in the early stages of the relationship until you start feeling like the life is being choked out of you. . . You'll be doing this till u're 70 and toothless? we talked all the time and his excuse was that he wanted the best for me. . , . . . by humiliating me at every opportunity? i am attracted to intelligent people, the most important part of a relationship for me (apart from sex  ) is converstaion. Any guy who can hold his end of a debate as well as pointless banter, is an instant turn on, I guess thats my failing. . . . because they always turn out to be freaks who make it their life's aim to "put me in my place". it always turns out they are insecure about being with someone who is successful in her own right And by the time i'm 70 and toothless, i will be able to afford logging on from the comfort of my yacht |
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4 Him (m)
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we talked all the time and his excuse was that he wanted the best for me. . , . . . by humiliating me at every opportunity? i am attracted to intelligent people, the most important part of a relationship for me (apart from sex ) is converstaion. Any guy who can hold his end of a debate as well as pointless banter, is an instant turn on, I guess thats my failing. . . . because they always turn out to be freaks who make it their life's aim to "put me in my place". Doesnt sound like a bad guy to me, just your typical "i'm in charge" kind of Nigerian man. I would frown at the "humiliating you" part though, perhaps you encourage them to do so? Once a guy does so the first time and you don't put up a fight be prepared to live with it for the rest of your life. give a guy a yard he's going to take a yard (at least i know i will). Perhaps you shld rea-evaluate what you want in a guy beyond how well he can hold a conversation. You bet ahmedinejad can hold a conversation, you don't want to be in a burqa the rest of your life though. it always turns out they are insecure about being with someone who is successful in her own right Its not always because they are insecure . . . most times men could care less how successful you are so long as you bow to them. Its a matter of attitude. If i see a woman as an equal you wont have the need to always want to make her feel like she's below you. And by the time i'm 70 and toothless, i will be able to afford logging on from the comfort of my yacht What a sad life that would have panned out to be. Ya better start looking for the few good men now. |
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HR.hotness (f)
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Doesnt sound like a bad guy to me, just your typical "i'm in charge" kind of Nigerian man. I would frown at the "humiliating you" part though, perhaps you encourage them to do so? Once a guy does so the first time and you don't put up a fight be prepared to live with it for the rest of your life. give a guy a yard he's going to take a yard (at least i know i will). Perhaps you shld rea-evaluate what you want in a guy beyond how well he can hold a conversation. You bet ahmedinejad can hold a conversation, you don't want to be in a burqa the rest of your life though. Its not always because they are insecure . . . most times men could care less how successful you are so long as you bow to them. Its a matter of attitude. If i see a woman as an equal you wont have the need to always want to make her feel like she's below you. Oh but I didnt and still don't put up with it thats why I'm still single I'm of the belief that love can only get u so far, for a relationship to last you must be friends, thats where converstaion comes in I like to pride my self in not asking for too much in a man, conversation and humour are basically it, all the other stuff i can compromise on since thats not working, maybe i need to make a long list like most girls i know I don't like to dwell on the fact that i can't find a man I like, afterall not everyone gets the happily ever after, If my Mr Right comes along fine, if not, shit happens! I'll travel the world and live in luxury, buy myself a couple of love slaves Now, you sir have been giving all the right signals so r u going to get intouch or what? What a sad life that would have panned out to be. Ya better start looking for the few good men now. I'm looking. . . . I'm looking. . . . . |
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saucekid (m)
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@ topic
my brova is available
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banni
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I have a friend somewhere in liverpool i think who is lonely too .Very smart and good looking (not sure if he is hung like a bull though!) but i am worried that he is the sweet kind and you will be too rough for him.
If you want to be gentle with him then i fit release his details to you sha.Na Nigerian dude.I not fit explain to e family i give am woman who destroy am !
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4 Him (m)
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Now, you sir have been giving all the right signals so r u going to get intouch or what? As a love slave certainly no! As the average naija guy who also happens to have an ego  sure. |
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HR.hotness (f)
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I have a friend somewhere in liverpool i think who is lonely too .Very smart and good looking (not sure if he is hung like a bull though!) but i am worried that he is the sweet kind and you will be too rough for him.
If you want to be gentle with him then i fit release his details to you sha.Na Nigerian dude.I not fit explain to e family i give am woman who destroy am !
LOL who me? I'm very gentle, I promise  As a love slave certainly no! As the average naija guy who also happens to have an ego sure. ok not a love slave i would love to stroke your *coughs* ego |
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Siena
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Wow, HR! Your thread's still going strong. |
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HR.hotness (f)
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Wow, HR! Your thread's still going strong. Are you applying? I promise I will be gentle as long as u let me take ur car out for one lap |
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debosky (m)
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@ HR the being a virgin and calling me daddy can be arranged - it all comes as part of my de-whoring recipe |
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jejelolatu (f)
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well u guys can begin act one scene one now.
u sure have an audience .
[/i]picks up a soda and leans back[i]
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HR.hotness (f)
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@ HR the being a virgin and calling me daddy can be arranged - it all comes as part of my de-whoring recipe errrr, . . . . . thanx but no thanx don't want to call u or anyone daddy, I'm loving being a whore |
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akpeteshi (m)
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Na f**k up be this hotness, for say you dey US, I for demolish your (cough, cough). He dey pain me say I no dey your end, by the time I am finished with you WALAHI, TALAHI(finger touches tongue and goes up) na you go come post another thread say Na Human being you want, No be Horse.
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RampantT (f)
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Na f**k up be this hotness, for say you dey US, I for demolish your (cough, cough). He dey pain me say I no dey your end, by the time I am finished with you WALAHI, TALAHI(finger touches tongue and goes up) na you go come post another thread say Na Human being you want, No be Horse.
Why can't you morons shut up for oncejeeez! annoying motherfcukers!! |
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akpeteshi (m)
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Why can't you morons shut up for oncejeeez! annoying motherfcukers!! Oh girl, wetin be ur own? pesin no follow u talk now. hold ur levels abeg. |
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