Cowardly Break Up

My best friend wants to break up with her boyfriend of three years. We live in the Middle East and people here are generally conservative. She is only 19 years old and her dad has been pressuring her to get married for 2 years now becuase he doesn't want her disgrace the family. He told her that is she doesn't find someone in 4 months she will have to marry her first cousin, which we both think is gross. Especially since the cousin is an alcoholic and only finished up to sixth grade. The father is so serious about it he threatened to kill her and himself if she didn't comply. (He's very violent. He once beat her up badly for wearing make up in public even though she was fully covered, head to toe and then some.)
Anyway the thing is her current boyfriend she feels is too immature for her to marry and she needs to find someone who is older, has a job and is more responsible. She tried to break up with him by ignoring his phone calls and if she does speak with him she tries to rile him up. This hasn't worked. I told her this is a cowardly way to break up with someone, but she is afraid to hurt his feelings because she really cares for him. She even wants to keep contact with him after marriage.(she will probably get a nice beating for that)
So yeah, my friend keeps bothering me about how to tell her current boyfriend without hurting him. Any advice? Honestly the whole issue is very aggravating to me. 

Yea I agree she is a kid. The thing is in her family most people get married early. She has a cousin that is 15 years old, married and expecting her first baby already. Whenever some else in her family gets married they tease her and call her an old woman. LOL! Old woman at 19.

    this case is serious.what a father!

ROFL!!!! We don't live in Saudi 

Aint they alll the same ? My sista she better marry who them wan make she marry. The yawa that comes from disobeying family in those parts of the world is horrible. Saudi or dubai na de same tin, lol

for one in my life,i am dumfounded

how can a father be this useless and wicked,how can a father push his own flesh and blood daughter into the pit of destruction,or is he d real father abi step father?are they poor?is that y he is asking her to get married?let her leave d house for him joooo,doesnt she have friends/relatives that will take her in

He's her real father.Since the dad himself is a drunk he's sees nothing wrong with it. They are not poor but the dad spends a lot of money on drugs and prostitutes, so.The relatives she has will simply turn her over to her father who will then beat her senseless. She's trapped really.

Easier said than done

Short of words.

people have done it,like i said its a tough one and very difficult,bit its better off,or would u want her to all in d name of tradition useless her life,and when d life is useless will tradition amend it back?

If she lived in the western world then,  It will be easier to just leave but since she's there in Dubai,  I find it very hard to see how she's going to just up and leave.

in one word poster,answer my ques:is this post real?

@WELLI

I WAS ABOUT ASKING THE SAME THING,BCOS THE STORY IN IT ,IS BECOMING TOO MUCH

Alls am saying is that it is not uncommon to hear such things from people in the middle east. It is how they are( most of them anyways)