Girls! Would You Collect A Gift From A Man You Dont Want?

Girls! Would You Collect A Gift From A Man You Dont Like For A Relationship?

This is for ladies.

I want to know

Would you collect a gift from a guy you don't like for a relationship?
If you do, what could be your motive? to encourage him or just slap his face and reject his proposal?

Just curious.

as long as it's just a ''gift'', then no probs, afterall friends do give out gifts innit??

Guys I need to get your views too.
How do you view the scenario?

Well I'm talking about a guy still in the process of convincing a girl
who has been playing hard to get.

got d gist now?

Speaking for myself i do collect gifts from a guy after i let them know that it make me fall for him, but  i find it uncomfortable sha. Most girls find it easy to collect stuff from guys, seems like d girls are the ones using guys now too bad

Support taiwo completely

defoly do.

Now you are talkin

Girls are quite greedy sets of people , they like to eat their cake and also have it, they say they collect the gifts with no strings attached, because the guy is father christmas abi,please lets be honest he gives u a gift and you know where he is heading, and u know collecting it will only send the wrong signal but because of greed you collect it, thats what i call OJUKOKORO, they want to enjoy without paying the price, wellladies should learn to be principled if you don't like the guy then don't like his gifts also, or is that too difficult,

In the nigerian context, if the gift was heavy enough, even the girls mamma will press her to accept. We are materialistic by default  and tend not to see the finer things of life.

I gave a very close friend of mine a painted egg once. I spent hours blowing out the yolk and drying it,  paiinting the designs on it. You know what she did? she said "What is this?" and crushed the egg. She crushed my heart that day, but i said nothing. If they were car keys now - we know where the story will end. Needless to say, i never asked her out - she didnt value my gift.

footnote: about 5% of nigerian girls are not materialistic by nature and upbringing. 40% will love to say they are not, but OnTantalize(), they will return true. roughly 40% have been taught its ok to be slightly materialistic and will proclaim it, while the remaining 5% believe in "highest bidder takes all - registration fees non-refundable"

@Nosa Hmmm Ojukokoro/Greedy indeed! When it's not like I asked for it! Please what are guys giving us that we can't afford? It's not about greed, just appreciating the efforts of an Oluse.

@Gridlock, I think it's materialistic when a girl has eyes only for big big things, whether it's a painted egg or a car key, I will accept it with thanks.  

Thank you ToyM28! That's what I meant to say.

What say you, Mochafella? Or are you watching?

i am not a girl but i have been hearing stuff like this from my closest friends who are girls,


boy to girl-- i love you

girl to boy-- i don't love u, leave me alone , **walks out**



boy buys gifts for the girl, girl throws them back at him and walks out and yells leave me alone.


boy buys diamonds, girl keeps it and sends the boy a text saying thanks for the diamond but stay the fu*k away from me.


my point, if a girl tells u to leave her alone times without number and u still continue showering her with gifts, i wont blame the girl for accepting them and still kicking u out. she has said leave me alone, just respect her decision if u truely like her and back the fu*k off.


don't tell her but u have been accepting some of my gifts cuzz she told u from the start she no want and u gave the gifts out of your own generousity.



but a girl that wants to set the records straight like baba did after the failed third term bid, should not accept anything at all. that way, it will be obvious to the boy u don't want him or his bloody gift. then, the boy can turn around and start going straight to hell.

@didy4dt, exactly.

Of course i would collect a gift from a guy i would not date, he isnt the devil so why should i refuse it. to me it would sem like i am collecting a gift from my friend and many guys think it is insulting when you don't accept their gifts. Girls please collect it well oh!!

gawsh, i wont, because i have this notion that accepting something from a guy makes u kind of look ;ike a gold digger hereby u demand stuff. But ma friend try to educate me on that one, so i had no choice because he said if i accept it he'l be the happiest man in the world so i had too. but i told him it meant nun and this was the first and last time [which he didnt agree with]