Girls! Would You Collect A Gift From A Man You don't Want?

lol. so much 4 understanding.

fine in here

yeeeeeeeepaaaaaaaa, Kolov i am prayng for u where i am now. kai oh boy from d way gem dey talk, it seems like its only God's grace that can save u.

try me rhodalyn

Hell Yeah, There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with collecting gifts from guys you don't want or fancy,  I do it all da time!!

lol

even when you know his intentions? that to me seem like a 419 act

If the girl has made it clear that she wont date you but u still go ahead to buy her gift dhe no do wrong. But most times they know they wont date you and yet they go ahead to make demands .

4 real there is nothing wrong in collecting gift from a guy, 4 d fact u know there is no string attached to it, abeg omo go ahead and collect it o jare

4 me i think it would be wrong for a lady 2 accept a gift from a guy she knows she will not date because by accepting it n saying i wont date u, she's just saying emm let me think about it _{una sabi women n shakara now}

A guy comes n chat u up, telling u he wants 2 date u n all that n u know u don't like him enough 2 date him, yet when he come with a gift to thaw da ice 2 ur heart u accepted it knowing u wont date him , then u don't hv a conscience because the simple truth is that u r leading him on.4 d guy he is saying _{he who fights  n run away must live 2 fight another day}
God gave the woman da rite 2 say no, if u exercise that rite every daft man will understand.
and they say ask a woman twice just in case da first one na shakara
no be that soft no, no wey men dey think say na yes da definte NO go do da trick make we c if after that one e go still dey carry gift come

nope, but then it's kindda impossible to refuse when he offers u on your B-day when you're reciving gifts from everyone else  . . . and even adds : " oh, it's just an ordinary B-day gift bla bla bla" ,  how do u refuse that one?


but normally I don't, it doesn't make sense to accept a gift from someone u don't want, it's almost as good as tellin em you're intressted.

 . ,  ,  ,  . But let's wait till my popsi stops filling my pocket first    lol, but naah,  --- uncomfortable

No

Maybe you should ask Nigerian men that make you feel you are indebted to them because you took a gift from them. Once beaten twice shy.

If you collect anything at all from a man who's sorta asking you out, you automatically owe him your body.
They will make sure to hold that gift over your head as if the gift s the sole reason why the girl is living.
Till today, i can't bring myself to accept gifts from guys just as friends.

My African people. . . . .please wake up!!
This aint 1600. . . .dammit! 

Taking gifts is nothing. . . . .Thats why i like some of my female friends sha. . . .They are very smart!!!

What do you mean by me again?

We are from the planet of reality.
How many naija guys here can honestly say that they will take a woman out to dinner or lunch without expecting something in return?
It doesn't happen. Naija guys, no matter how rich, are not that generous.
They buy you meatpie - they expect you in their bed sometime. . . . .
They buy you a car, they expect the same.
As long as a gift is given by a man, he thinks of you as owing him.

I suggest you go back and get your money's worth. 

@ Sly - don't say that! You know how your brains work.

@ Still - are you minding them? They're just trying to sound 'modern'. It's an innate thing for them.