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hannydarl (f)
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Hm I wonder why guys link virginity to goodness in girls.True its a good thing when a lady keps her legs closed from all the wayward boys who are up to no good but it doesnt mean the girl is a saint and will be the best of wife cos she was a virgin when you married her. There are lots of decent ladies who fell in love with players and gave up their virginity to keep him now they realize how wrong they were and can handle relationships well it doesnt mean they are bad or thay are bitches they may give a man more joy as wives than a virgin bride. virginity is lost the first night you guys do it and then the man is left with the personality of the woman thats what matters if a bro can find a virgin bride with good character fine but its better to marry a none virgin whom you know her character than to marry one that will give you headach the rest of your life.
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tlops (m)
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this is a question that is mostly asked by guys that are virgins.Being one its difficult to think you will end with a someone who is not a virgin.I think following threads like this may be discouraging as u find out that the thing u cherish others take as worthless.
Being a virgin is a choice and it could be a hard one too.if a guy could execise self control, i don't think a lady should not do even more.it does not mean the guy is antisocial or shy but its just a principle.while in university in Bremen I had a friend (german-female) that I told of I was a virgin and do not wish to loose it.she said she'll take from me,and it was a bet.well I just got cautios around her till I left,we are still friends because she's very lively and cool.to me i think its just being principled, but its not easy.
yes there are but rare,I pray to find one too.
As for experience (or bedroom antic) as some1 said, you'll learn on the job.Marriage is not a one night stand so u have a whole lifetime to perfect it.
Analogy:
Know that the cost of experience is always higher (having to cope wt some1 that has been wt several men or women, there may be some suspicion/distrust as a result of past lifestyle, STI, etc). its why companies prefers to take trainees,u only hire a professional or experienced staff as a matter of urgency. The professional is most likely intersted in his/her lot.But the onces trained within the coy will after a while be well experienced in every area of the organisation and you will have little haedaches.
dont know if its really d same wt marriage.but I am not looking for a sexually experinced wife.we'll both learn.
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Obirin0521
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Of course there are still virgins out there. They may not be plentiful as in days of yore, but I know several professional ladies still saving themselves for marriage.
The questions I have for you are these:
1 - What is the thrust of your search for one?
2 - Whatever you are looking for, you must bring the same or better to the bargaining table. Are you a virgin?
If yes,Pax tecum. If no, Bros, make you no let person vex for this forum. 'Nuff said
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hannydarl (f)
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@ OBIRIN
NO bro is a typical player who sees women as matress he has eaten the forbidden fruit a zillion times o he just wants a fresh matress to sleep on that no man hes slept on before. He is loking for a lady in white silk to stain with his danshiki he has used to roll in every kind of mud.
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kilode se (m)
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It possible, this insanity (Neglect of moral santity) has not reached everyone. I am a VIRGIN guy.its not lack of opportunity or slackness, its just something I cant afford to throw away.I schooled in europe and now in Canada (in thses places sex is easy to get) d ladies are not demanding, I mean on campus, infact while in bremen white chick fall 4 black anyhow.so its a choice and I dont expect anything less from any lady I'll marry.PERIOD.
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Mandora (f)
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It's not an impossible feat but wat is your point? Dont tell me u r trying 2 claim holy
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afolayangs (m)
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Yeah it is possible but rare. I met one lady in january which claim she's a virgin and i have every cause to believe her cos she told me many things about her past that made me to believe her.
So it's possible
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hamabra (m)
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virgin still dey, i have some very close pals thah are virgin and they are graduates, like begget like u will find if only u are one,but they are to come by
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ziziblue
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Not in todays world. Girls are so spoilt now. You should ask if its possible to find a secondary school leaver thats still a virgin.
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uyai (f)
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i wonder who is sleeping with those secondary school girls
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Macutie (f)
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@ topic
yes its very possible
i know a few virgin graduates.
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$ammy (m)
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YEAH,this days girls graduate at 21 and few of them are still virgins at this age
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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@ topic of course it is possible, but that does not mean that she'll be the best wife afterwards. i've seen cases of married virgins, who after tasting the forbidden fruit became unsatisfied, and the rest is history, the case of being good in bed should be non-existent because there;s the possibility that you might not be good enough for her thereby making her go outside, even if she's a very good wife. i wonder who is sleeping with those secondary school girls
i wonder who  perhaps we should ask the owner of this post  |
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ClimieNH89
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Who fcuking cares if she is a virgin or not.
Na the hymen you go marry?
Ignorant goats!
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Dr. Lorenz (m)
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Who fcuking cares if she is a virgin or not.
Na the hymen you go marry?
Ignorant goats!
abi? tell 'em |
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sagacious (f)
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Why not ? but the ratio we be 1 in 1000.
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sanmius (m)
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@ topic
hmmm, its possible but with lots of luck. just make sure you have your biology text books available when you find one. goodluck!
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akins4 (m)
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it is possible to find a graduate virgin girl; but if u r looking for one, i r making a lifetime mistake. cos u r not a motherfu cking virgin.
u can only see one if all your sisters and female cousins are al virgin.
take care
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Sexyuhlala (f)
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@ thoniaslim
WORD.
NONSENSE.
IF your NOT A VIRGIN,Y DO U WANT TO MARRY ONE?
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yimiton (f)
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Of course there are lots of virgin graduates on the street.
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angelwrite (f)
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Yes i have a girlfriend who is a virgin she graduated about 3 years back and she is 26 years old. She is really a good lady. But there is no way i can introduce u to her, she has many suitors who want her
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degubi (m)
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is this topic still on?
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Merez (f)
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Yes, I am!  |
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tundewoods (m)
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Why are you searching for a Graduate Virgin ?
It's either you need a virgin regardless of the educational background or settle for a Graduate despite the virginity level.
You seem to want to eat your cake and have it .
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xtranatura
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It is very possible to find a virgin graduate,but the truth of the matter is that the Lady will be very ugly & may be a book worm too.
Without that ,
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fellis
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I think finding a pretty one is also possible.Just search, hard.
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edihospita
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It is very possible.I married my wife a virgin this year, guess what, she has a masters degree from a university in the uk. If i can find one why cant there be others.
The onky thing is that i had to buy her mother a gift as is the tradition when i was financially drained cos of the wedding but it was worth it.
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Bosdem (f)
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Of course yes, why not, i have a cousin like that
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bisii (f)
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@ the poster, r u a virgin urself??
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iya aje (m)
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yes,just like me i am 42 and still a virgin,come see how men dey die for me,but i dey take dem do yanga,i dont want any man to touch me until i am 50.
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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I think you're an idiot.
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