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mayorde (m)
I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« on: May 21, 2008, 02:40 PM »

hi nairalanders  i think i am the shyest guy on earth can any girl fall in love with me
tpia
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #1 on: May 21, 2008, 02:43 PM »

not with this attitude.

maybe you should try loving first, instead of waiting for someone to love you.

welli (f)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #2 on: May 21, 2008, 02:46 PM »

i hope you are not proud of your shy attitude.u berra take away dat "shy"thing b4 berra tins pass you by.due to lack of confidence
Seun (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #3 on: May 21, 2008, 02:48 PM »

Attacking him will definitely make him less shy.  Better still, why not insult and debase him?
buzyDiva (f)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #4 on: May 21, 2008, 02:51 PM »

U need to over come your shyness. . .
Try hanging out with more pple.
mingle and socialize a lot more
Ziggy_mama
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #5 on: May 21, 2008, 02:54 PM »

yes.There is always someone out dia 4 everyone. Kiss
Oscar J (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #6 on: May 21, 2008, 02:56 PM »

@tpia

Quote
not with this attitude.

maybe you should try loving first, instead of waiting for someone to love you.

sometime i wonder how some pple think, can u pls read the post again n again b4 posting pls?

This guy says he is a shy person n he is asking if its possible for any girl to luv him simple.
how can someone who is shy luv 1st, where is the gut / confidence going to come from?

@mayorde

i think u should just try n build your confidence gradually, take your time on this just mix with ladies often ok.

1 more thing always ask urself this qtion anytime ''WHAT WILL I DO IF I WERE'NT AFRAID?'' this is not only applicable to luv matters alone ok, it works alot.

I am part of this.
tytylayor
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #7 on: May 21, 2008, 02:59 PM »

Quote from: mayorde on May 21, 2008, 02:40 PM
hi nairalanders i think i am the shyest guy on earth can any girl fall in love with me

hi nairalanders i think i am the shyest babe on earth can any guy fall in love witn me Undecided Lips sealed Sad

 Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin
Oscar J (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #8 on: May 21, 2008, 03:00 PM »

Attacking him will definitely make him less shy.  

Good, only if its in a costructive manner

Better still, why not insult and debase him?

its not gud enuf , it will only bring him down dat same lane.(shyness)
tpia
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #9 on: May 21, 2008, 03:08 PM »

Quote from: Oscar J on May 21, 2008, 02:56 PM
@tpia

sometime i wonder how some people think, can u please read the post again n again before posting please?

This guy says he is a shy person n he is asking if its possible for any girl to love him simple.

how can someone who is shy love 1st, where is the gut / confidence going to come from?

@mayorde

i think u should just try n build your confidence gradually, take your time on this just mix with ladies often ok.

1 more thing always ask yourself this qtion anytime ''WHAT WILL I DO IF I WERE'NT AFRAID?'' this is not only applicable to love matters alone ok, it works alot.

I am part of this.

someone asking if its possible for any girl to love him, has serious self confidence issues.
 
he is a man- you feel he needs to be mollycoddled like a woman?

maybe na woman sha.

besides, check the thread title- he said he wants to be loved. Sometimes its better to give love first, then you receive it. Even if you're starting a business, you invest something first, not to mention matters of the heart.

If I ask someone this kind of question, i hope i'd receive the same answer i myself gave.

he has to build his self worth first or else he'll never get out of the rut.

at least my own comment will spark a definite reaction in him. Yours will help him feel more sorry for himself.



sage_ (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #10 on: May 21, 2008, 03:12 PM »

Quote from: Seun on May 21, 2008, 02:48 PM
Attacking him will definitely make him less shy. Better still, why not insult and debase him?

Seun, I am of the opinion that you came down too hard on our "Mr. Shyguy". I know of fellas who have travelled down that route b4 and i can tell you that brother has got a big issue @hand. Lets rally round him and beat the shy outta him.
tpia
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #11 on: May 21, 2008, 03:35 PM »

tboy1 (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #12 on: May 21, 2008, 03:42 PM »

Quote from: mayorde on May 21, 2008, 02:40 PM
hi nairalanders i think i am the shyest guy on earth can any girl fall in love with me

At this day and age in naija with all the fine fine girls everywhere Cheesy Cheesy you're telling me you're too shy to talk or catch to one of them?

Anyway here is your solution:
First thing - You have to build up self confidence and make sure you're very open minded (don't hold back on anything ) Also you need to speak out more and stop keeping everything inside (either good or bad-  believe me there is someone out there willing to listen) talk to your friends, family, if your sister have friends - communicate with them - no toasting o  Cheesy
In case you don't know, the more you communicate, the more you'll build up your self confidence =  being less shy.
Also make sure you keep a very positive attitude towards everything in life Wink
Bro, the world is a very big place to explore and being shy will not help you at all, so common chase that shyness out of that body and go and catch them fine fine chicks Cheesy Cheesy
Oscar J (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #13 on: May 21, 2008, 03:47 PM »

tytylayor
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #14 on: May 21, 2008, 03:52 PM »

Quote from: tytylayor on May 21, 2008, 02:59 PM
hi nairalanders i think i am the shyest babe on earth can any guy fall in love witn me Undecided Lips sealed Sad

 Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin

nobody go answer me Shocked Shocked

na wa o Grin
welli (f)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #15 on: May 21, 2008, 03:52 PM »

yes u can be loved.wil my bro do?
tytylayor
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #16 on: May 21, 2008, 03:57 PM »

welli is your bro a banker?
Oscar J (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #17 on: May 21, 2008, 03:57 PM »

Quote
nobody go answer me  

na wa o


my dear if i see your pics, then i can start ,
tytylayor
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #18 on: May 21, 2008, 04:00 PM »

check my profile na, u'll see ma baby there Undecided Lips sealed
Oscar J (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #19 on: May 21, 2008, 04:02 PM »

i did,

its not appealing.

NB

i dont want u to ve power n den break my head.
boner
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #20 on: May 21, 2008, 04:11 PM »

Hy bros baabun kunya fa,just be open and said wat is in your mind. wawaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
tytylayor
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #21 on: May 21, 2008, 04:13 PM »

ohhhh lawwwwwwwwwwwdyyy, wanna be my boss? nah, cozz i'll break ya head Cheesy
welli (f)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #22 on: May 21, 2008, 04:14 PM »

@ tyty my bro isn't a banker but he can offer you tins a banker cannot Cool
Tattooboy (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #23 on: May 21, 2008, 04:14 PM »

@poster
u're funny but i dont see any reason why ladies can fall for u. . . to be continue. . .


Oscar J (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #24 on: May 21, 2008, 04:15 PM »

not dat kind of a boss ooooo!

U no wat i mean!
tytylayor
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #25 on: May 21, 2008, 04:21 PM »

Quote from: welli on May 21, 2008, 04:14 PM
@ tyty my bro isn't a banker but he can offer you tins a banker cannot Cool

like wat?

Quote from: Oscar J on May 21, 2008, 04:15 PM
not that kind of a boss ooooo!

You no what i mean!

expatiate
Sisikill
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #26 on: May 21, 2008, 04:21 PM »

I believe Seun was actually calling people to order. This poor guy comes here for help and what does he get? Insults. . .is that supposed to help him get over his shyness?


@ Poster
There are girls out there who don't like brash loudmouths, so you will definitely find your soul mate. . . don't worry.
welli (f)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #27 on: May 21, 2008, 04:22 PM »

tyty,like . . . . .  Tongue
Oscar J (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #28 on: May 21, 2008, 04:26 PM »

make u feel confident n ease around me then give u luv. Wink
tboy1 (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #29 on: May 21, 2008, 04:30 PM »

Quote from: Sisikill on May 21, 2008, 04:21 PM

@ Poster
There are girls out there who don't like brash loudmouths, so you will definitely find your soul mate. . . don't worry.

Like 1% and they would even be already taken by the other shy dudes
Tattooboy (m)
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #30 on: May 21, 2008, 04:31 PM »

Hi tboy, can i know ya?
The Sly
Re: I Am Shy And I Want To Be Loved
« #31 on: May 21, 2008, 04:34 PM »

------>Poster


Yes it is very possible for you to be loved. . .  Cool
No matter how ''shy'' you are. . girls would come to you if your game is iight. . just chill. . .errthing is gonna be iight. Wink
But then . . . .Try to get sum confidence bro!

But i just wonder most times when someone brings a simple question here. . .
Some people tend to spew so many pathetic irrelevant replies that has got noting to do with the question being asked. . . *sighs*

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