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gbegbs
Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« on: May 22, 2008, 12:41 AM »

hi nairalanders . i dey for trouble now which i dey look for help. the problem is that i have a fiancee who love me. i mean she love me and every body know. where i work there is this other girl that just put her eye on me and wont let go . so u know now i notice this from all her acts. eventually i went down with the girl . i kept it a secret from my girl for up to like 6 months . but recently so there will be peace between us because since then i mean since i went down with the other girl there had been argument between me and my girl .she suspect somehow someway. and one problem is that my girl is a virgin. we both conclude that we will do it on wedding night . as in u know that old fashion way . put white cloth for bed  Smiley. but i just tot i should tell her since we will be gettn married soon andforget about that other girl and be free and have peace in my relationship . so i told her . now my girl no wan marry me again . she said am bad, i will continue to do it, i will not make a good man for her . on and on . in short my girl want to cut me short.

i done live this other girl . i really love my girl too so much that i cannot afford to loose her and am saying na satan work . i beg anybody make u help me o . make i no loose like that o . i beg watin i go do to get her back to love me even if she no trust me now well anymore but for her to just look at me again. i beg oooooooooooooooooooo helppppp
cescky (m)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #1 on: May 22, 2008, 12:47 AM »

heres inspector general of police no knot 9 knot, make i help u scream if the call no dey go heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllp

duh
LadyT (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #2 on: May 22, 2008, 12:54 AM »

 Grin

You are finished!

You should of just told her if you were truely sorry you waited for her to find out 6months later!!!!

sheniqua
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #3 on: May 22, 2008, 12:54 AM »

Quote from: gbegbs on May 22, 2008, 12:41 AM
hi nairalanders . i dey for trouble now which i dey look for help. the problem is that i have a fiancee who love me. i mean she love me and every body know. where i work there is this other girl that just put her eye on me and wont let go . so u know now i notice this from all her acts. eventually i went down with the girl . i kept it a secret from my girl for up to like 6 months . but recently so there will be peace between us because since then i mean since i went down with the other girl there had been argument between me and my girl .she suspect somehow someway. and one problem is that my girl is a virgin. we both conclude that we will do it on wedding night . as in u know that old fashion way . put white cloth for bed Smiley. but i just tot i should tell her since we will be gettn married soon andforget about that other girl and be free and have peace in my relationship . so i told her . now my girl no wan marry me again . she said am bad, i will continue to do it, i will not make a good man for her . on and on . in short my girl want to cut me short.

i done live this other girl . i really love my girl too so much that i cannot afford to loose her and am saying na satan work . i beg anybody make u help me o . make i no loose like that o . i beg watin i go do to get her back to love me even if she no trust me now well anymore but for her to just look at me again. i beg oooooooooooooooooooo helppppp

you brought the problem on yourself.
Go through her friends and ask them to help you beg her
Girls have a way of getting their girlfriends heart to soften
hopefully you've learnt a lesson.
Dr Kitaun
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #4 on: May 22, 2008, 12:55 AM »

story story . . .story  Tongue  Grin

keep deceiving yourself u hear  Huh

bad story line !  Cool
sheniqua
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #5 on: May 22, 2008, 12:57 AM »

why is the good doctor kicking a patient with scrotal hernia right in the groin.
Help him na
RampantT (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #6 on: May 22, 2008, 01:00 AM »

@post
Good for you. ,  abeg, I hope she robs you dry and runs away with the money.

I go help her beat the sh*t out of you too  Angry
sheniqua
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #7 on: May 22, 2008, 01:04 AM »

you people have no compassion.
even you morenike Grin
the man is dying of heartbreak he needs some consolation and encouragement
do you want him to quench?
cescky (m)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #8 on: May 22, 2008, 01:07 AM »

rampant uve got sex appeal i must say
does ur happen to be funmi or abdul  Undecided
dejiman1
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #9 on: May 22, 2008, 01:09 AM »

Why in the first place should you sleep with another person? when you have already taking your relationship to FIANCEE of a thing? you must be out of your mind for doing that rubish,   First, you are not worthy for any marriage. you better start your relationship life afresh to clean up the mess.
RampantT (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #10 on: May 22, 2008, 01:10 AM »

Quote from: sheniqua on May 22, 2008, 01:04 AM
you people have no compassion.
even you morenike Grin
the man is dying of heartbreak he needs some consolation and encouragement
do you want him to quench?
Heartbreak? Think of the girl who trusted this man and wanted him to disvirgin her. Think of how she felt when she found out what that gutter rat did  Angry
I would have tied his privates to a wood and set it on fire

Quote from: cescky on May 22, 2008, 01:07 AM
rampant uve got sex appeal i must say
does your happen to be funmi or abdul  Undecided
Huh
Dr Kitaun
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #11 on: May 22, 2008, 01:10 AM »

@sheniqua

don't get it twisted . . .my kind of doctor is bad ! harsh infact  Cool

I actually feel like prescribing Valium 30 for him to take in addition to Lexotan and Moduretic . . .make hin kuku do himself in  Grin
LadyT (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #12 on: May 22, 2008, 01:13 AM »

Osisi all he can do is beg her.

Let this be a lesson to you.

Goodluck

cescky (m)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #13 on: May 22, 2008, 01:14 AM »

@ rampant t
u look like some that was in my sec school,don't be scared i don't bite  Wink
Dr Kitaun
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #14 on: May 22, 2008, 01:15 AM »

Quote from: dejiman1 on May 22, 2008, 01:09 AM
Why in the first place should you sleep with another person? when you have already taking your relationship to FIANCEE of a thing? you must be out of your mind for doing that rubish, First, you are not worthy for any marriage. you better start your relationship life afresh to clean up the mess.


dude, how old are u ?  Undecided

must u sound so sanctimonious ?  Undecided
D-reloaded (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #15 on: May 22, 2008, 01:18 AM »

what is wrong with his comment?
RampantT (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #16 on: May 22, 2008, 01:19 AM »

Quote from: cescky on May 22, 2008, 01:14 AM
@ rampant t
u look like some that was in my sec school,don't be scared i don't bite  Wink
Ok, sorry, but I still dnt get what you're trying to say   Huh Tongue
Dr Kitaun
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #17 on: May 22, 2008, 01:26 AM »

@D-reloaded

when did it become a crime for a guy to sample any other chic outside his relationship ?  Undecided

na only the girl wey hin dey date get d thing ?  Tongue  Grin

abegiiii . . .make d guy enjoy whilst he isnt married, so that when he is, the thing go don tire am, then na DEJAVU for am  Cool

what am slating the OP for, is the bla bla way he put his story across . . .is he trying to tell us that his babe prolly suspected he had done something funny, or was it just him THAT HAD GOT NEWLY BORN-AGAIN ?  Huh  Grin
sheniqua
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #18 on: May 22, 2008, 01:27 AM »

morenike you have such beautiful eyes.

back to topic.
sheniqua
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #19 on: May 22, 2008, 01:27 AM »

is this Dr Kitaun the notorious Jackal
RampantT (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #20 on: May 22, 2008, 01:29 AM »

Quote from: Dr Kitaun on May 22, 2008, 01:26 AM
@D-reloaded

when did it become a crime for a guy to sample any other chic outside his relationship ?  Undecided
When he's to be married to her IE fiance

Why do you guys ask  this kain question? nna nawa o Undecided
sheniqua
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #21 on: May 22, 2008, 01:30 AM »

I'm also shocked to see that kain answer.
RampantT (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #22 on: May 22, 2008, 01:32 AM »

Quote from: sheniqua on May 22, 2008, 01:30 AM
I'm also shocked to see that kain answer.
explain
D-reloaded (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #23 on: May 22, 2008, 01:34 AM »

Quote from: Dr Kitaun on May 22, 2008, 01:26 AM
@D-reloaded

when did it become a crime for a guy to sample any other chic outside his relationship ?  Undecided

when he agreed to be in a relationship?
Dr Kitaun
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #24 on: May 22, 2008, 01:38 AM »

@sheniqua

do I sound like Jackal ? so u know he is notorious  Huh  Grin

JACKAL IS JACKAL . . .AND DR KITAUN IS DR KITAUN  Cool

@Morenike

the truth of the matter is  . . .there is no crime if it happens ! all this marriage bla bla thing that the OP is saying don't move me  Tongue

for all we know and care, the virgin girl in question might not be a FERGIN  Grin  Grin

take it or leave, men don't sleep with wood, dey sleep with girls that most of the time are aware that these men are committed to someone else . . .so don't give me the chauvinistic insinuating yap  Tongue

Dr Kitaun
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #25 on: May 22, 2008, 01:40 AM »

@TOF  Grin

he agreed to be in a relationship with the girl, but did he agree that he would have his thing padlocked  Huh  Undecided

guy had to get some . .he did ! case closed . . .but this brodaman here is acting like . . . . Lips sealed
RampantT (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #26 on: May 22, 2008, 01:43 AM »

Quote from: Dr Kitaun on May 22, 2008, 01:38 AM

@Morenike

the truth of the matter is  . . .there is no crime if it happens ! all this marriage bla bla thing that the OP is saying don't move me  Tongue

for all we know and care, the virgin girl in question might not be a FERGIN  Grin  Grin

take it or leave, men don't sleep with wood, dey sleep with girls that most of the time are aware that these men are committed to someone else . . .so don't give me the chauvinistic insinuating yap  Tongue



Yea, those girls are trampsbut what matters is the guy that knows that he could have done sth not to hurt his FIANCEE. He's totally at fault there because he knew who he'll hurt and how great the hurt would be to his girl, and that his cheating could (and hopefully will) break his engagement.
Sometimes, its berra if dnt say "I Love You", because they're just saying it to get into "her" pantmost of the time when men talk about love, it's BS  Undecided
sheniqua
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #27 on: May 22, 2008, 02:03 AM »

morenike I was referring to Jackals answer
Dr Kitaun
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #28 on: May 22, 2008, 02:10 AM »

Quote from: RampantT on May 22, 2008, 01:43 AM
Yea, those girls are trampsbut what matters is the guy that knows that he could have done sth not to hurt his FIANCEE. He's totally at fault there because he knew who he'll hurt and how great the hurt would be to his girl, and that his cheating could (and hopefully will) break his engagement.
Sometimes, its berra if dnt say "I Love You", because they're just saying it to get into "her" pantmost of the time when men talk about love, it's BS Undecided

he could have done something not to have hurt his fiancee like what ? wank incessantly because he aint a virgin but his fiancee is a fergin ?  Huh  Lips sealed

and why is it that u ladies, always feel men don't know that when u say I LOVE U TOO back at them, u are fooloing them ?

see . . .there are no hard and fast rules about these things . . .LIVE AND LET LIVE !  Grin
D-reloaded (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #29 on: May 22, 2008, 02:12 AM »

If he knew he couldnt deal with being with a "virgin til marriage" type then he should have never gotten into a relationship with one

I just don't understand those that agree to be in those kind of relationships then start crying "my body isnt firewood", I wouldnt blame anyone for feeling that way, just don't bloody LIE and say you are fine with it and go and run around with someone else.
stillwater (f)
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #30 on: May 22, 2008, 02:19 AM »

Quote
when did it become a crime for a guy to sample any other chic outside his relationship ? 


Shakes head


@ post

Perfect example of crying over spilled milk. I don't pity you.
Dr Kitaun
Re: Help I Slept With Another Girl My Fiancee Want To Live Me
« #31 on: May 22, 2008, 02:20 AM »

@TOF

how do we know if HE TRULY WANTED TO KEEP THE SIDE OF THE BARGAIN BY NOT BANGING SOMEONE ELSE ? . . .

shit happens . . .at least from what he said, it was the girl making moves on him  Grin

and seriously too . . .what if this same guy had gone ahead to padlock his tool, only to find out sometime later that the girl aint a fergin . . .don't u think the guy will be mad at himself and the girl for all the squandered opportunities  Undecided  Grin

P.S please tell sheniqua that am not Jackal, rather am his worst enemy on NL  Angry
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