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lanryfunky
My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« on: May 22, 2008, 12:53 PM »

FELLOW NAIRALANDERS,Abeg i need una prayers oooo, my girlfiriend went for a scan last week and it was revealed that she is pregnant with TWINS,
Na boredom sef cause make we do the thing oo and i don't even have a job now, please i need una prayers make God provide job before she born as ABORTION IS NOT EVEN IN MY AGENDA AT ALLLLL, I still even need to go for traditional wedding now but money never dey,
wetin manpikin go do now?
holythug (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #1 on: May 22, 2008, 12:58 PM »

eeyahu should av waited guy, now you're going to b some kind of dad i wont like to b
tboy1 (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #2 on: May 22, 2008, 01:00 PM »

Quote from: lanryfunky on May 22, 2008, 12:53 PM
FELLOW NAIRALANDERS,Abeg i need una prayers oooo, my girlfiriend went for a scan last week and it was revealed that she is pregnant with TWINS,
Na boredom sef cause make we do the thing oo and i don't even have a job now, please i need una prayers make God provide job before she born as ABORTION IS NOT EVEN IN MY AGENDA AT ALLLLL, I still even need to go for traditional wedding now but money never dey,
wetin manpikin go do now?

'Twins'  Grin  Grin
But seem like a responsible person and Insha ALLAH you'll secure a very good job soon. Just keep your head up and be more prayerful Wink BTW the thought of the twins will make you more determined  Cheesy Cheesy
kola oloye (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #3 on: May 22, 2008, 01:07 PM »

Bro,i feel for you.This is one of the reasons why i always speak against pre-marital sex.
What has happened has happened. Do not lose hope. Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
He will surely make a way for you.
olachy
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #4 on: May 22, 2008, 01:33 PM »

your very silly, y didnt u think bout God before u went n started sleeping with your girl friend, now u want Him to bail u out, lucky for u, He is a kind and merciful God,
even if your that stupid, y didnt u use a condom, y didnt she take pills or smfin?both of you're ridiculous,
tboy1 (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #5 on: May 22, 2008, 01:46 PM »

Quote from: olachy on May 22, 2008, 01:33 PM
your very silly, y didnt u think bout God before u went n started sleeping with your girl friend, now u want Him to bail u out, lucky for u, He is a kind and merciful God,
even if your that stupid, y didnt u use a condom, y didnt she take pills or smfin?both of you're ridiculous,

Typical hypocritical attitude of a Nigerian
mimi44
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #6 on: May 22, 2008, 02:00 PM »

Bro you're in deep shit
Just look for a job that doesn't require capital but time
call me on 08034546097
buzyDiva (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #7 on: May 22, 2008, 02:01 PM »

@poster,
try harder and get ursef one.
Its seems hard but not when u're persistent.
protocol (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #8 on: May 22, 2008, 02:05 PM »


  GUY, BRAVO. You  ARE A MAN. FIRST TIME AND You ARE HAVIN TWINS, NEXT TIME BET ME, You WILL HAVE TRIPPLELET.
  WELL, IF You NO GET JOB, AT LEAST You GET KIDS. Grin Grin Grin Grin
   GOD GO HELP You SHY.
favcom (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #9 on: May 22, 2008, 02:13 PM »

Haba!!! Twins at first attempt Shocked Shocked Shocked
Pele o, Baba Ibeji Grin Grin Grin
So, how do we feed the babies now Huh Huh Huh
Godalone (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #10 on: May 22, 2008, 02:16 PM »

It happened to me too,i got married without having a job and my girl friend who is now my wife was pregnant at thesame time.I got a very lucrative job on my wedding day.Please this is not the end of the world,it will make you to be stronger,lay your hands on legitimate business and keep on looking for job,God in his infinite mercy will surely answer you.
May be i will post my full story someday for everyone to read.
holythug (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #11 on: May 22, 2008, 02:22 PM »

many people r even prayin for u . . . i hope u find a good job, & hope you're on d search too. . .
Seyikenna
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #12 on: May 22, 2008, 03:31 PM »

Guy i feel for you, Nevertheless God will see you through. It was really a nice idea, not aborting. aiye o pare
dupsy09 (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #13 on: May 22, 2008, 03:33 PM »

bros u sure say na true u dey talk, abi u wan entertain us here for nairaland. Grin Grin Grin Grin

Any which way, u try well well. May God give you the means to care for your babies. I don't encourage abortion myself.

Next time you go ZIP UP Tongue

ciao baba ibeji (ejema)


sun_temi (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #14 on: May 22, 2008, 04:55 PM »

Baba Ibeji to be. See, I dey envy you o.
chummex
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #15 on: May 22, 2008, 06:00 PM »

Guy, I hv a feeling u just want to entertain nairalanders.If so, u've done a good job of it. If not, u don mess-up! Well, that is not to say that I'm not prone to such a mistake anyway. Just that I've decided to keep it celibate this time, Olachy, I'm sure u'll love me 4 that  Grin
Nevertheless, if I were u, I'D live up to the man I've made myself , a real man in this case- TWINS!
Start doing sth however small for now. If u work hard enough, things will definitely stabilize for you. Smiley
sun_temi (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #16 on: May 22, 2008, 06:17 PM »

[quote
Start doing sth however small for now. If u work hard enough, things will definitely stabilize for you. Smiley
Quote

 I think this guy is right?
sun_temi (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #17 on: May 22, 2008, 06:24 PM »

 @ Poster,

 Amigo at Oba Akran still get vacancies. So try your luck, wishin u success anyway.
niya (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #18 on: May 22, 2008, 06:51 PM »

hmmmmm!
dabriggs (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #19 on: May 22, 2008, 07:54 PM »

Though a wrong topic in the wrong forum but what can we say?Just pray to God.I hope you get a job soon.But if you don't you may have to considere private/personal business just to be responsible to the girl and your child.
ayzone
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #20 on: May 22, 2008, 09:13 PM »

  Guy you to yaori, hw u do am. I mean which stylo u take hammer am. Anyway sha, kip prayin because its nt ova,  Huh
wire
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #21 on: May 23, 2008, 09:55 AM »

he ya don't worry God go provide work for you,just keep on having faith in him
osuolale1 (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #22 on: May 23, 2008, 10:18 AM »

who da hell is olachy, u're useless, don't u know it could happen to anybody, even u. I doubt if u'll ever find yourself in this situation b'because from d tone of your voice, u don't seem pretty, nice and approachable, so no one can possibly get wit u, no offence
mlissa
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #23 on: May 23, 2008, 10:24 AM »

Na Wa Ohh
favcom (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #24 on: May 23, 2008, 10:37 AM »

Quote from: osuolale1 on May 23, 2008, 10:18 AM
who da hell is olachy, u're useless, don't u know it could happen to anybody, even u. I doubt if u'll ever find yourself in this situation b'because from d tone of your voice, u don't seem pretty, nice and approachable, so no one can possibly get wit u, no offence

See yourself Huh No decorum at all Undecided
A man is in a shit  Embarrassed looking for job Cry and you are here
typing nonsense Angry
Esss (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #25 on: May 23, 2008, 11:28 AM »

@ Poster

I'll keep my own as plain and simple as I can. I no send wetin any body wan yarn, this na my own opinion. wetn u mean by abortion is not on your agenda? Abortion should be on every guys agenda that plans on impreganting a girl without a job, a house, a car or even a stand.

In case you've not noticed, pure water is now 10 naira for one, meaning lyf is hard.

If it is not too late now, Oboy go delete those babies kia kia. Na beans to train twins.

In present day naija na ehn you wan raise twins without pay and without job. Oboy no dull yourself O! I know that abortion is not cool and all worth not, but if and only if you can get the consent of your girlfriend, I suggest you eject those pikins now before garri soak all the water.

There are already too much pikins suffering on the streets of naija as it is already without you adding your own. And twins for that matter.

Just make sure say na for better hospital wey them go do am, with qualified doctor so you no go kill another man daughter join. Then after the waka make una two go church go pray for forgiveness b'because una sin full bucket, from illegal intercourse to double murder.

And which kind naija boi u be sef?? u never hear of GOLD CIRCLE before? Next time wey e hungry u like that again, contact your nearest mallam or aboki or visit your nearest chemist, before you do am.

Keep searching for a job O! just in case the babe no gree backspace the pregnancy.

i wish you all the best & congratulations, twins is not easy. You are truly a man with double barrel.
onatisi (m)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #26 on: May 23, 2008, 12:18 PM »

well done my guy , i am very happy for  you ,
i will like you to ask people on this site that have been abusing u and blaming u one question , why haven't they got married ? and believe me they will have just one  stupid and foolish answer i am looking for a job  or i want to be okay with a flat , car and money . my friend believe me that is the most stupid reason in this world to wait on marriage because no matter how hard we try  our destiny is written down already , i told someone that since  that day u have bee trying to acquired the millions or money and things u want to use to settle down how many millions have u acquired ?
ask people on this site that are condemning u how many of those luxury things which they carved to have before settling down how many do they have now ?  look my guy Nigeria is a country u can't allow to dictate your life pattern for u , u ae  chosen a way and believe me u are a step ahead of  people who are your age mate  still looking for a job or good life before settling down .
secondly  i don't know how old u are now but lets accept that u are 25 or 28 then my guy i congratulate u , because by the time you are 50 years old your first child will be about 20 or 22  years old , there are many people on this site that are 36  ,39 40 with no job  no wife , nothing and still blaming u , by te time they are 50 their 1st child will be 10 years old that is even if they procreate on time .
thirdly on the issue of upkeep believe something tHe LORD GOD that has been feeding bu  till today will feed u for the rest of your life and u will be okay , we are afraid of getting married because of fear f what we will eat or wear , my brother read the bible and know the the lord will provide for you . don't worry
. fourthly
look for a  job and i can promise u by the time u are 3 month or 2 months into everything u will have gotten a job wand those still waiting for a ob will still be there looking and waiting for things to improve before steeping forward
THERE IS A RULE IN LIFE
TAKE A STEP AND OTHER THINGS WILL FOLLOW . AND PLEASE PRAY HARD TOO .
bimbo_tolu
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #27 on: May 23, 2008, 12:29 PM »

the thing is what are u u guys doing under same roof without beign married.well the deed is done.am happy u're not willing increase your sin and go for arbortion.be truly repentant,do what u ought to do .and i pray the mercifyl God will look down on u with mercy providing u with a good job
usmangid
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #28 on: May 23, 2008, 12:51 PM »

Happy for you boy. But u should have used a condom as protection against pregnancy and also STDs.

CONGRATS!!!
elodie (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #29 on: May 23, 2008, 02:55 PM »

la vache !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mary Chi
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #30 on: May 23, 2008, 04:33 PM »

Guy make you no worry.i must confess i like your courage because not every guy that will accept responsibility just as you have done. the mistake has been done and as you don chop liver say you want your pikin,GOD GO GIVE YOU BETTER JOB.you,your wife and your children no go suffer.MAKE I HEAR YOU SAY A BIG AMEN.
ceebee (f)
Re: My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Am Jobless
« #31 on: May 23, 2008, 06:52 PM »

I'll keep my own as plain and simple as I can. I no send wetin any body wan yarn, this na my own opinion. wetn u mean by abortion is not on your agenda? Abortion should be on every guys agenda that plans on impreganting a girl without a job, a house, a car or even


Esss
i think your silly to recommend abortion God forgive u.
You're a pessimist.
people like u would have money yet no children i pray u don't have that experienmce as for d new father GOD woukld enrich enlarge and bless u favour wolud follow has he not said it will he not do it he is not man He should lie.
have courage.
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