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okiri one (m)
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is there any way one can break a barrier in your working place when your boss has a key to your problem and the only condition she can help u is that you have to get down with her, i mean sleep with her,i sthere a way out, can sm in the house advise
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sunfag
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 :-x
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babyx (f)
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@Poster Sleeping with your boss is not advisable, it is the means to a deadly end. I dont know of any1 who has done it that its has favoured. 
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coo_pedro (m)
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Plead with him not to and if he insist try to warn him then if he persist i suggest you report him to anyone you think can help you out in your establishment but if non of these works, i'll advise u leave rather than sleeping with him. However, dont forget to remind him of the fact that you're leaving because of him.
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obailala (m)
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Too bad for you. you are quite unfortunate. 1) Refuse to sleep with her = you lose your job 2) Sleep with her = you still lose your job The logic is simple, if u resist her advances, she devices a way to kick u out (in order to save her face); if u get down with her (to save your job), she will definitely come back for more, when u get tired of the whole game (after several occasions) and decide to stop, she finds a way to kick u out (to still save her face). My advice: (1) If u are the randy type, have fun, see what u can get out of her, then leave.  (2) If u are the decent type, Leave the establishment and also, just like coo_pedro said, don't forget to remind her that u are leaving because of her. good luck 
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icemann
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obailala said the right tin if any of u(your madam or u) is married, no try am but if she not, start shagging sharp sharp and keep lookin 4 another job
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koncerned
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aint strange thou, but i tot men bosses were in this habit rather than women, anyway Joseph's case in Potiphar's villa is an example. I know it aint easy to get a job these days. NEVER fall for it, avoid her as much as possible and if it persist my guy report her to God to be moved out of your way, hope you believe HE can do all things. It is well
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henry007 (m)
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i think i've seen a thread like this b4, its been delt with over and over again
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daponiyi
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u no what 2 do now.u are the cause, if i may ask u, aw do u dress to your place of work.
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carlton (m)
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A Man gotta do what a man's gotta do, my advice go for it,don't gamble your job
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Roscodaddy (m)
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Sleep with her back if she wan sleep wit u
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Tayogeorge (m)
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all berriers can be broken, it all depend on how your conduct, do you show sexual appeal at work place to reduce burden? or do you care for take home tips? be sincere with ethics of work place, you are the solution to your problem. best of luck http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/action-profile/sa-showPosts
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onyinye2 (f)
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tell him you have aids
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krama (m)
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tell him you have aids
Ha ha ha, that's a good one. Only in this case its a she  I know you are kidding, but on a serious note what of the attendant stigma?
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pappylolo
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PLS LET HIM FORGET ABOUT THE STIGMA AND SAVE D JOB AND D EMBARRASEMENT THAT MIGHT FOLLOW FROM NOT SECURING ANODA JOB ON TIME.
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Method-Man (m)
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u sef spread leg now?!
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ceysaga (f)
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 Just know that once you start, she wil keep coming back for more, if can risk that, go ahead.
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Tayogeorge (m)
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try to behafe as if you don't understand his move, buy gift and tell him to give it to his wife at home, find time to visit Oga wife on weekend. you can even take your friend (not atutu poyoyo oo) to office if your Boss is single, with that he wil stop.
- this is tested and truted solution,sound simple? just try it
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Rafdaolu
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Its like the popular yoruba adhage that says ' A child mess in your mouth and immediately added salt to it" Take your stand if you know what you are doing. if otherwise have fun. but also know that two wrongs dont make a right. I hopeyou have not done something to seduce him as there is no smoke without fire. follow your heart. doing it will not solve the problem> 
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gunpoint (m)
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Bell32 (m)
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DO IT, DONT DO IT, CHOOSE ONE COS: DO IT = LOSS your JOB DONT DO IT = LOSS your JOB HAVE FUN AND LOOK FOR ANOTHER JOB, BUT DONT FORGET TO WARE RUBBER, COS AIDS IS REAL, HAVE FUN
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Double N (m)
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Don't do it.Especially if she is married.
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hustla (m)
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Its like so many of u already have terrible experiences as far as sexual harrasement is concerned  Well ,my guy,thats alife time game you are about to play,u no no wen u dey smile too much to her ,exposing your muscules and passing complements, If you had behaved like a responsible gentleman she would not have dared to ask you such, tread carefully
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emmy1234
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hello my guy i want you to know that sex is a convenant you dont know the secret behind it she might want your spam for rituals but if you think that there is nothing in it you will remain servant for life remember Joseph the son of Jacob he refused the arrasment that iswhy god lifted him beyond human imagination DO NOT DO IT LET HER KNOW YOU STAND IF SHE FIRES YOU YOU WILL GET ANOTHER JOB THE DOWN FALL OF A MAN IS NOT THE END OF HIS LIFE BEWARE SHE IS UP TO SOMETHING
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emmy1234
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hello my guy i want you to know that sex is a convenant you dont know the secret behind it she might want your spam for rituals but if you think that there is nothing in it you will remain servant for life remember Joseph the son of Jacob he refused the arrasment that iswhy god lifted him beyond human imagination DO NOT DO IT LET HER KNOW YOU STAND IF SHE FIRES YOU YOU WILL GET ANOTHER JOB THE DOWN FALL OF A MAN IS NOT THE END OF HIS LIFE BEWARE SHE IS UP TO SOMETHING
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oladele80 (m)
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hmmmmmmmmmmm, all have been said, but my guy, u know urself better, if u think u can face the consequence, why not, but one thing is sure, it's a lose lose situation. enjoy now and cry later, or cry now or enjoy later. THE CHOICE IS ENTIRELY URS. best of luck!
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prizeless (m)
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guy your a man, u should no how to water everythin down by playing smart. no your stance, be the master of the game, she needs a game, right, then play it. i don't mean u sholud sleep with her.
all i mean is, get in control, she'd break, she is no God
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asabie (f)
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sweetheart, abeg dont do it. simply coz its purely bad &unscriptural. 
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